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re: Putting an infant down in the crib after they have fallen asleep

Posted on 8/9/26 at 5:50 pm to
Posted by Deadmanshand
Member since Jun 2026
162 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 5:50 pm to
My first daughter went down easy and slept through the night. My second daughter woke as soon as I laid her down. She was cruising at 4 months and walking at 8, so she would just stand and walk the edge of the crib crying and gnawing on the rail like a zombie. She ended up spending most nights on me in the recliner in her room.
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
24748 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 5:51 pm to
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My wife is a zombie to her phone.


I hope she snaps out of it... I have the same problem with my own devices but have been trying to break free of it a bit more.

Congratulations on successfully rearing the next generation! That's a big deal!
Posted by wareaglepete
Union of Soviet Auburn Republics
Member since Dec 2012
19335 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 5:54 pm to
Thanks. It wasn’t easy having two little ones and then having twins. But, the experience saved us. Had the twins been first, I don’t know if we would have made it.
Posted by VOLhalla
Knoxville
Member since Feb 2011
5217 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 6:16 pm to
When I put mine down in the crib I’d stay and keep rubbing their chest letting them know I was still there. Do that until they fall back asleep. And then when you’re 99.99% sure they are out and it’s age to stop keep rubbing for another 30 seconds
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80797 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 6:25 pm to
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Putting an infant down


Damn. Seems kind of harsh.
Posted by sicboy
Because Awesome
Member since Nov 2010
79714 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 6:28 pm to
Are you using a raised crib? That helps when their too small to actually climb up anything, not such a long way down when you put them to bed.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
76063 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 6:34 pm to
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It's been a long time for me, but I remember it being especially awkward being 5ft tall and trying to stoop but up and over the rail *just right* to have maximum body contact right up until the kid touches the mattress.
If I were that adult size, I’d have just gotten in the crib with the sleeping bambino.

I remember thinking (when I was trying to move my sleeping kids from car seat to crib/bed) that I was on a bomb disposal team.

One of mine had colic from around four to six months. Riding in the car seat was the only relief. I’d buckle that one up and drive out somewhere rural and turn around and get home to attempt the transfer.

More often than not it failed.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
157225 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 6:35 pm to
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Any tips?

Put them down and leave them be. Barring something wrong with them (i.e. sickness, hunger, diaper) they should tire themselves out and fall asleep. And I’m not saying it’s easy to sit there while your infant screams bloody murder. But they’ll eventually figure out how to fall asleep. And if you cater too much to doing it a certain way that requires extra shite (like rocking or driving around until they are asleep), they will get accustomed to needing that ans only be able to fall asleep in that way.

Again, it’s tough to do. But it works (usually). Thankfully we didn’t have too many issues when mine (now 6) was an infant.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53800 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 6:39 pm to
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My youngest, my twins, are headed off this week. About to be an empty nester. Will be so strange. Hasn’t been just the wife and I since January 2001.

Mine has been mostly gone from 16-18 anyway, so that part won't be much different. I think the weird part will be that I know she's not coming home.
This post was edited on 8/9/26 at 6:41 pm
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
3011 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 6:40 pm to
Routine is key.

Also, a fed baby is a tired baby.
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
21054 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 6:41 pm to
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Any tips?

Enjoy every minute of it, they grow too fast.
Posted by Herschal
USA
Member since Sep 2011
2293 posts
Posted on 8/9/26 at 7:10 pm to
Hold the baby as close to your chest as you can the whole way down over the railing.
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