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OT Parents, thoughts on holding your kids back a grade?
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:25 pm
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:25 pm
My sons birthday is September, and my wife wants to consider him attending Pre-K twice. What say the OT?
I gradated HS at 17 and had no problems
I gradated HS at 17 and had no problems
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:26 pm to djangochained
I say do it...definitely helps grades down the line.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:27 pm to djangochained
Should hold him back twice
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:27 pm to djangochained
Your son failed Pre-k.
The world needs ditch diggers, too.
The world needs ditch diggers, too.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to djangochained
i recommend making that decision in 1st grade.
They yap about maturity and shite up until then but frick it and let him ride it out until first grade. That grade IMO is when its a bit more worthy where they reinforce actual reading skills etc that make it worthwhile holding back and yet he's still really young.
They yap about maturity and shite up until then but frick it and let him ride it out until first grade. That grade IMO is when its a bit more worthy where they reinforce actual reading skills etc that make it worthwhile holding back and yet he's still really young.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to djangochained
My son had the same issue... sept birthday. While he did fine in k-5 (course work wise), his discipline and focus was a problem due to immaturity.
held him back to take k-5 again and he is a much more mature student. he is having fun and understands the classroom structure much better. He will be 18 when he graduates. I think the older the better.
held him back to take k-5 again and he is a much more mature student. he is having fun and understands the classroom structure much better. He will be 18 when he graduates. I think the older the better.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to djangochained
Might be more beneficial being older for female teachers.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to djangochained
He will have a leg up if he plays sports.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to djangochained
Unless a child is struggling socially or academically, why would you hold them back? The only parents who do this at my kids school do it for athletic reasons so little Billy can be a stud football player.
This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 3:34 pm
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:29 pm to djangochained
quote:Huh?
My sons birthday is September,
September is an easy decision
He will turn 18 the start of his senior year
Is your wife suggesting he turn 19 at the start of his senior year, or are you suggesting he turn 17 at the start of his freshman year in college?
Sept isnt a month that usually requires thought
april-june b days are the tough ones
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:29 pm to djangochained
He turned 4 in September?
I'd hold him back.
I'd hold him back.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:29 pm to djangochained
He'll never know the difference that young. The only reaason I would not is if he's really smart and he would get nothing out of it. I would say 90% of 5 year olds don't meet that criteria.
I would do it because I think it will be much better for him as a teenager. There's a big difference in the 12-17 range and being a year younger would suck, imo.
I would do it because I think it will be much better for him as a teenager. There's a big difference in the 12-17 range and being a year younger would suck, imo.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:29 pm to lsupride87
the cutoff is October
he would graduate HS at 17 curently
he would graduate HS at 17 curently
This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 2:30 pm
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:30 pm to djangochained
Do it, I hear that the hot teachers always go for the kids that are just a little older than their peers
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:30 pm to djangochained
quote:The frick?
the cutoff is October
It would suck dick to start your senior year in high school at 16 IMHO
ETA: like possible real dick because you would be so small and far behind
This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 2:31 pm
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:30 pm to djangochained
He's bangin' his pre-school teacher isn't he?
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:31 pm to OysterPoBoy
he will turn 4 in September, and is set to start Pre-K in the fall
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:31 pm to djangochained
We have twins, boy and a girl.. Our daughter advanced after kindergarten, but we held our son back... Not that he wasn't smart enough, he wasn't motivated enough.. He hated school, and didn't want to participate.. Smartest move we made.. Little guy is continuously on the gold honor roll now..
Do it now, even with the slightest doubts... It will help him in the long run..
Do it now, even with the slightest doubts... It will help him in the long run..
This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 2:54 pm
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:31 pm to djangochained
This will at least give you an extra year to accept that school is not for your kid.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:32 pm to djangochained
I held mine back in pre k
August birthday
Could come up with plenty of pros and no cons
August birthday
Could come up with plenty of pros and no cons
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