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OT Parents, thoughts on holding your kids back a grade?

Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:25 pm
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19185 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:25 pm
My sons birthday is September, and my wife wants to consider him attending Pre-K twice. What say the OT?

I gradated HS at 17 and had no problems
Posted by Big Chipper
Charlotte, NC
Member since Sep 2008
2988 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:26 pm to
I say do it...definitely helps grades down the line.
Posted by OneMoreTime
Florida Gulf Coast Fan
Member since Dec 2008
61865 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:27 pm to
Should hold him back twice
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
85574 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:27 pm to
Your son failed Pre-k.

The world needs ditch diggers, too.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to
i recommend making that decision in 1st grade.

They yap about maturity and shite up until then but frick it and let him ride it out until first grade. That grade IMO is when its a bit more worthy where they reinforce actual reading skills etc that make it worthwhile holding back and yet he's still really young.
Posted by TheEnglishman
On the road to Wellville
Member since Mar 2010
3312 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to
My son had the same issue... sept birthday. While he did fine in k-5 (course work wise), his discipline and focus was a problem due to immaturity.

held him back to take k-5 again and he is a much more mature student. he is having fun and understands the classroom structure much better. He will be 18 when he graduates. I think the older the better.

Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
86110 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to
Might be more beneficial being older for female teachers.
Posted by Indiangensing
Member since Nov 2017
2503 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to
He will have a leg up if he plays sports.
Posted by CajunAlum Tiger Fan
The Great State of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2008
8057 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:28 pm to
Unless a child is struggling socially or academically, why would you hold them back? The only parents who do this at my kids school do it for athletic reasons so little Billy can be a stud football player.

This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 3:34 pm
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
112596 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:29 pm to
quote:

My sons birthday is September,
Huh?

September is an easy decision

He will turn 18 the start of his senior year

Is your wife suggesting he turn 19 at the start of his senior year, or are you suggesting he turn 17 at the start of his freshman year in college?



Sept isnt a month that usually requires thought


april-june b days are the tough ones
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45559 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:29 pm to
He turned 4 in September?

I'd hold him back.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37551 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:29 pm to
He'll never know the difference that young. The only reaason I would not is if he's really smart and he would get nothing out of it. I would say 90% of 5 year olds don't meet that criteria.

I would do it because I think it will be much better for him as a teenager. There's a big difference in the 12-17 range and being a year younger would suck, imo.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19185 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:29 pm to
the cutoff is October

he would graduate HS at 17 curently
This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 2:30 pm
Posted by PearlyBaker
Member since Dec 2017
441 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:30 pm to
Do it, I hear that the hot teachers always go for the kids that are just a little older than their peers
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
112596 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:30 pm to
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the cutoff is October

The frick?

It would suck dick to start your senior year in high school at 16 IMHO


ETA: like possible real dick because you would be so small and far behind
This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 2:31 pm
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:30 pm to
He's bangin' his pre-school teacher isn't he?
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19185 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:31 pm to
he will turn 4 in September, and is set to start Pre-K in the fall
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
34813 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:31 pm to
We have twins, boy and a girl.. Our daughter advanced after kindergarten, but we held our son back... Not that he wasn't smart enough, he wasn't motivated enough.. He hated school, and didn't want to participate.. Smartest move we made.. Little guy is continuously on the gold honor roll now..


Do it now, even with the slightest doubts... It will help him in the long run..
This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 2:54 pm
Posted by TheHarahanian
Actually not Harahan as of 6/2023
Member since May 2017
24370 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:31 pm to
This will at least give you an extra year to accept that school is not for your kid.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99043 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:32 pm to
I held mine back in pre k

August birthday

Could come up with plenty of pros and no cons
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