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re: OT Parents, thoughts on holding your kids back a grade?

Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:32 pm to
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70472 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:32 pm to
Pre k is not a grade.

Do it now, he will excell later
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45561 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:32 pm to
quote:

he will turn 4 in September, and is set to start Pre-K in the fall




He'll be on the younger side.
Posted by 79
Welp...
Member since Aug 2013
1050 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:33 pm to
My youngest has a birthday in late Sept too. We made the decision that as long as he was grasping the material and not struggling, we'd push him along. Now, he's only in 2nd grade, but he's getting straight A's (well, he got one "B" in the 1st qtr this yr). I really think we have until 5 grade-ish to figure it out for the long haul.

But, for the real reason you're asking, just play him up in rec sports and he'll learn to adjust to being the youngest on the field early. It won't be a problem. hahaha
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86736 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:34 pm to
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The frick?

It would suck dick to start your senior year in high school at 16 IMHO


I graduated HS at 17

We will be having this decision in a few years as our next baby is due in late Sept

I think it depends on the far along the kid is
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:34 pm to
We are going to face the same issue our son was born in August like a week before the cutoff date.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70472 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:34 pm to
quote:

Might be more beneficial being older for female teachers.



gotta think ahead
Posted by btnetigers
South Louisiana
Member since Aug 2015
2332 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:34 pm to
Keep that fricker in school 'til he's 30.
Posted by PortCityTiger24
Member since Dec 2006
87455 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:35 pm to
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My sons birthday is September, and my wife wants to consider him attending Pre-K twice. What say the OT?


I wouldn't start a kid in Kindergarten when he is 4. It's better to be the oldest kid than the youngest kid.
Posted by tigeraddict
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2007
15181 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:36 pm to
quote:

I gradated HS at 17 and had no problems


same. i had a late September birthday. cutoff back then was December 31st to be 5 now it is august 31st. my daughter is the 22nd, and i think early one if we waited a year it would have benefited her. however, now that she is in 10th grade, i dont think that anymore... she is doing just fine.
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8699 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:36 pm to
quote:

I graduated HS at 17


So did I and the only negative I can think of was getting my driver's license well after the rest of my classmates
Posted by TigahJay
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2015
11403 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:36 pm to
quote:

he would graduate HS at 17 curently


Hold him back
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:36 pm to
quote:

OT Parents, thoughts on holding your kids back a grade?


Trashy.

I mean everything is trashy, right?
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
178358 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:37 pm to
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I really think we have until 5 grade-ish to figure it out for the long haul.

That would ruin his childhood and he'd hate you for holding him back after 5th grade. Wtf. All his friends would be gone.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
78046 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:39 pm to
Scruffy graduated at 17. His younger brother stayed back a grade and he was born in June.
Posted by Jimmy2shoes
The South
Member since Mar 2014
11004 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:40 pm to
Go ahead and redshirt him in kindergarten
Posted by Wermanium
Member since Apr 2016
760 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:45 pm to
My daughter has an August birthday and is the youngest in her class. My son has a September birthday. We are holding him back and he will be the oldest in his class. After I researched it and talked to lots of people, it's best for girls to be younger and boys to be older.
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
42506 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:48 pm to
My parents held me back in seventh grade. It worked out for me. I was very immature, and that extra year made a lot of difference athletically, and academically.
Posted by HaveMercy
Member since Dec 2014
3000 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:50 pm to

A very wise teacher gave us this advice: she has never heard one parent say that they regretted holding one back; while she has had scores of parents regret not holding one back.

My twin girls were born in August - wanted to give them an extra year to mature before we sent them off into the world.
Son's birthday December, so no choice there.
Posted by icegator337
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3756 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:50 pm to
I'd hold him back for sports alone
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61732 posts
Posted on 2/7/18 at 2:51 pm to
Public school in La?
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