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re: My partner is monogamous, but I'm not. Here's how we make our relationship work.
Posted on 10/22/24 at 1:43 pm to deltaland
Posted on 10/22/24 at 1:43 pm to deltaland
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He will one day wake up and dump her arse,
Its much more likely that she will fall for one the Alphas that are pounding her and leave him, only for that dude to not put up with any of her shite and eventually dump her for someone better
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Posted on 10/22/24 at 1:59 pm to supatigah
Seth looks like the type of guy to be happy to get missionary 4 times a year.
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:00 pm to Flats
quote:There’s a whole cult in College Station that must be some pron-watching addicts.
This has to be due to men watching porn. There's no logical or evolutionary reason for this whole fascination with letting your woman get railed.
Or they might just all be gay?
Sometimes the easiest answer is the correct one.
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:05 pm to Bunk Moreland
Where’s the pic of the whor…I mean, “non-monogamous” partner?
Two fitty, rainbow colored hair, and unshaved pits, perhaps?
Two fitty, rainbow colored hair, and unshaved pits, perhaps?
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:10 pm to rs_la
There was a pic upthread. This is a screenshot of the article. She isn't terrible. He looks exactly like what you would expect. Maybe she is just a frick hole for him and the joke is on her.
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:16 pm to Fun Bunch
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Its much more likely that she will fall for one the Alphas that are pounding her and leave him, only for that dude to not put up with any of her shite and eventually dump her for someone better
And then she'll be an alpha widow and any future relationship will be in danger of him calling her, and she'll literally always just be waiting for him to come back so she can dump her current guy.
Like this guy found out
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Sierra and I have been dating for 4 years. I absolutely love her and felt like she was my soulmate. I knew I wanted to propose 2 years into dating, but decided to wait one more year so that I could get in a better situation financially.
Last year, I proposed. It was a private proposal on the beach where we went on our first date. She looked at me and said, I want to marry you, but not right now. She said she wasn’t in the right space personally to get engaged and to give her some time. That stung, but I was ok with it. After all, I put off proposing so I can be in a good position, it’s only fair I give her the chance.
It’s been a year since then and I decided to propose again. This time I asked our friends to help me set it up because I wanted to do something nicer. We orchestrated a nice dinner and a proposal in front of a nice fountain in the city’s botanical garden.
Everything was ready, dinner went great, and we went to the fountain. She saw the roses and everything and then I got down on one knee and asked her to marry me. She teared up and told me “not just yet.” This stung really bad. I knew I wanted her in my life forever, but this is the second time she turned me down. I asked her why, and she told me the same thing as last year. I asked her if someone was holding her back, maybe family or friend, and she just said “I just want to make sure that this will work.”
This hurt me more than the 2 rejections. I told her if after 4 years she isn’t sure, then what the hell will make her sure. She asked me to give her time and I told her no. I told her that I’m not gonna keep wasting my time and love if she’s gonna keep saying no. I told her that I can’t do this anymore. She began begging me not to leave and said “fine, I’ll marry you, just please don’t go.” That made me mad, but i didn’t say anything. I left.
My phone has been blowing up with some of our friends, her parents, and her telling me that I’m “an a-hole for throwing away a 4 year relationship because she said no, and that I was being a big baby. She just needs some time.” The other half of our friends aren’t on my side, but they’re not on hers either.
I don’t think I’m an a-hole for this. Did I overreact? Am I an a-hole? If so, how much more time am I supposed to give her?
Edit: We are both 29 years old
Edit 2: the second proposal wasn’t done in front of my friends. They just helped me plan it and stuff. It was just her and I.
Edit 3: We had discussed marriage shortly before I proposed the first time. She was into it and even told me that she couldn’t see herself with anyone else. She seemed eager about the idea of marriage which is why I was shocked the first time and then angry the second time.
Sierra is just holding out that "he" will show back up.
This post was edited on 10/22/24 at 2:17 pm
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:18 pm to deltaland
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And you get this
This stuff will never stop because there’s always a poor fool waiting in the wings.
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:19 pm to SlowFlowPro
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:24 pm to Bunk Moreland
i can't imagine that this is a real story
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:24 pm to Flats
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But I'll bet essentially everyone who gets turned on by their wife screwing around watches a lot of porn. They've wired their brains to get turned on by watching.
That's an interesting theory. I'd be curious if the rampant availability of porn has screwed people up.
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:27 pm to Oates Mustache
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That's an interesting theory. I'd be curious if the rampant availability of porn has screwed people up.
Several medical studies have found that porn quite literally rewires the brain .
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:32 pm to SlowFlowPro
Ouch to that guy and frick her family and friends. If you are together for 4 years, you proposed a year ago and she needed more time (that is already a huge redflag and he should have been out), and he waited another year and she still said no? Nah, he should be out
Also...he's an idiot for not discussing it before the 2nd time. Hey are you ready? If not why are you not ready after 4 years? And then be out before he did it again
Also...he's an idiot for not discussing it before the 2nd time. Hey are you ready? If not why are you not ready after 4 years? And then be out before he did it again
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:45 pm to Oates Mustache
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I'd be curious if the rampant availability of porn has screwed people up.
That's not even a question any more, it's just a matter of how badly and how much can be reversed.
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:53 pm to AUstar
Posted on 10/22/24 at 2:56 pm to CAD703X
Why was Seth okay with her making this public? Even if you're fine with your girl getting slammed every week by a new guy, why would you want your family, friends, coworkers, the world to know you're a cuck and your gf's a whore?
Posted on 10/22/24 at 3:00 pm to Kinderman
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Why was Seth okay with her making this public? Even if you're fine with your girl getting slammed every week by a new guy, why would you want your family, friends, coworkers, the world to know you're a cuck and your gf's a whore?
In clown world, this makes them more enlightened than us rubes & cavemen who believe in family & that our wives/gfs should be loyal to only us. That's oppressive or slavery or patriarchy or something.
Posted on 10/22/24 at 3:03 pm to Bunk Moreland
I am all for doing what makes you happy
but so many of these stories are just a someone making their partner miserable.
As long as everyone is on board, go do whatever, but chances are if 1 person is monogamous they’re just getting steamrolled (or they’re into some weird stuff)
but so many of these stories are just a someone making their partner miserable.
As long as everyone is on board, go do whatever, but chances are if 1 person is monogamous they’re just getting steamrolled (or they’re into some weird stuff)
Posted on 10/22/24 at 3:05 pm to Fun Bunch
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If not why are you not ready after 4 years?
Posted on 10/22/24 at 3:16 pm to Oates Mustache
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That's an interesting theory. I'd be curious if the rampant availability of porn has screwed people up.
I don't think it's porn as much as dating apps skewing how people date.
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Left is traditional society and the right is social media/dating app modernity.
From a wonderfu content creator I'm working on a thread to post here soon.
Posted on 10/22/24 at 3:19 pm to SlowFlowPro
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From a wonderfu content creator I'm working on a thread to post here soon.
everybody here knows hoe_math
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