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re: My gf has gained weight and I am no longer attracted to her and wish to break up

Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:26 am to
Posted by Loaner1231
Member since Jan 2016
3903 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:26 am to
Before and after pics required.
Posted by Bedhog
Denham Springs
Member since Apr 2019
3741 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:28 am to
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I knew someone that divorced his wife of 20+ years of marriage because she balooned from 120ish to 250 during the marriage. It didn’t go well with him, his two sons ended up breaking off all contact with him and never spoke to him again.


that's a shame. He probably put up with her and begged her to loose weight for quite a while. I actually find that to be going against your wedding vows.
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
11031 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:28 am to
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Hawgnsincebirth55


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My gf has gained weight and I am no longer attracted to her


Does not compute
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
58775 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:29 am to
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She’s gained over 40 pounds in 6 months


Sounds like you need to treat her right.
She may be dropping a lineman or linebacker in 3 more months.
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
48616 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:30 am to
You start some weird threads, baw.

Pretty sure you’ve started a thread about being single in the last 2 months, so the timeline isn’t working.
This post was edited on 5/8/19 at 11:32 am
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36949 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:31 am to
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I knew someone that divorced his wife of 20+ years of marriage because she balooned from 120ish to 250 during the marriage. It didn’t go well with him, his two sons ended up breaking off all contact with him and never spoke to him again.



I have an acquaintance in Tampa who just divorced his wife for the same reason (or so he claims). Dude is 50ish and stays in good shape. Said he couldn't stay married to a woman who would let herself go.
While shallow, I understand his point.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
121194 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:32 am to
Go with "It's not you, it's me."

Hold the line. Do not give in to the tears. And the screams. And the cutting.
Posted by ibldprplgld
Member since Feb 2008
26082 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:32 am to
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You sound like a real Shallow Hal.


frick that. I take care of myself so I expect my significant other to as well. Eating right and being active is a fundamental part of my life. If my significant other doesn't share that then we're going to have problems long before a weight gain of 40lbs.

Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
58775 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:32 am to
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nice troll.


Possible, I put on 80 lbs in 6 months when my thyroid ceased to function any more.
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12495 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:33 am to
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well she probably doesn’t want to be with someone with the IQ of a potted plant


I prefer the phrase "IQ of a potato"
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5730 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:33 am to
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how old is she? does she have kids?

22. ? no





She's about to. Congrats, dad.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
41973 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:34 am to
Hmmmm interesting year for you baw:


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First time home buyer question - Hawgnsincebirth55 on 4/20/19 at 3:43 pm
I’m about to buy my first home and I have a question I’m sure most can answer. What is an acceptable amount to put on the down payment? I want to just do 5% but idk if thats looked at as tacky or something. Anyway TIA...


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My gf and I got on the subject of baby names tonight - Hawgnsincebirth55 on 4/19/19 at 7:59 pm
She said her top 3 names for a boy would be aiden, Owen, or aisley. On a scale of 1-10 how trashy are these names and how good would they be at travel ball? ETA: In her defense she’s from Monroe so she can’t really help but be at least a little trashy ...


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Those with spouses Do you consider the house you live in yours? - Hawgnsincebirth55 on 4/17/19 at 10:12 am
For instance when inviting people over do you say come over to my house or our house? I feel like I’m 2019 I would hope we have progressed enough as a society that men would no longer refer to property which they clearly share with their spouse as theirs. It’s not yours it’s the land of the United ...


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Do you still bang your chick when she’s on the rag? - Hawgnsincebirth55 on 4/9/19 at 10:28 am
Or are you grossed out by all that? To me it’s just blood. It’ll wash off if she wants to frick I’m not saying no...


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Does intermittent fasting work? - Hawgnsincebirth55 on 3/10/19 at 8:33 pm
Wanting to know some peoples stories who've tried it...


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How many times do you make love to your SO per day? - Hawgnsincebirth55 on 3/4/19 at 12:54 pm
Once or more? Or are some of you only allowed once per week. Inb4yourmom joke...
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
21667 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:34 am to
Not sure I believe this, but 9n the slim chance this is real...just be honest. It's not that hard to explain to her that she looked different when yall first hooked up. And you liked that look. Ask her to go to the gym with you (unless you are a fatty too).
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
11031 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:35 am to
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Buy her a treadmill and don't say anything. Just nod over to it.


Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:35 am to
Are you the one who started the thread about your gf a few years back? Then, someone found pics of you walking on the train tracks in your square toes?
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:37 am to
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well she probably doesn’t want to be with someone with the IQ of a potted plant

Why you gotta be so mean to potted plants?
This post was edited on 5/8/19 at 11:38 am
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
31777 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:38 am to
If she's fat can't imagine how enormous you are.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41063 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:40 am to
I want to break up.


Why?



I don’t see a future for us anymore and I don’t want to cheat you or I out of the opportunity to find someone who we may have a future with.





Duh.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
171872 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:44 am to
hawg: "i think we need a break"
cow: "what do you mean a break, do you want to break up"
hawg: "no i don't want to... yes, i do want to break up"
cow: "but why, i thought we were good, the sex in the dark has been fantastic these past few months"
hawg: "its really about the bills"
cow: "bills? "
hawg: "yes, bills. you're nearing 2 of them already and you haven't even popped out a lil hawg yet"
Posted by Buckeye06
Member since Dec 2007
24144 posts
Posted on 5/8/19 at 11:46 am to
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Not sure I believe this, but 9n the slim chance this is real...just be honest. It's not that hard to explain to her that she looked different when yall first hooked up. And you liked that look. Ask her to go to the gym with you (unless you are a fatty too).



Yea you don't have to say "you're fat" but you can say "let's take a hike this weekend" or something active. When she's doing it and not feeling great while doing it, tell her she should do this more with you. If she doesn't want to, then you can say she isn't taking care of herself like you are
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