re: Mama pissed her son disrespected a teacher, yanks him from lunch room

I couldn’t watch 15 seconds of that. That was horrible. Yeah, great parenting - beat the kid like a dog. That’ll teach him.

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eta: Some of y'all never had momma/daddy put the fear of God in you before.

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Psssttt, if your parents beat you like that, they were shitty parents.

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I had to inform her that her mother-in-law has done equal or more in my childhood, and that she loves the man I have become.

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I get that it's too close to home when it's your own parent to realize you had a shitty parent, but you 100% became a good man, assuming you did, in spite of getting severely beaten, not because of.

If you were treated worse than that kid was, your parents were child abusers who should have been in jail, and you're lucky to turn out well in spite of having child abusers for parents.

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Special place in my heart for black mamas. White mamas could learn a thing or two.

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Yeah, jails are overcrowding with all those white boys.

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Yeah, jails are overcrowding with all those white boys

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Well that demographic definitely been hitting the animal fricking and child raping qouta every year.

There's a difference between a parent giving their child an arse whoopin' as a form of discipline and what this trash mother is doing.

I got my share of the belt and the paddle and switches and (insert nearest object to whip a kid here). One of my earliest memories is breaking a lamp at my grandmother's house and her taking me outside to pick my own switch and "striping my legs". But to take a belt and swing as hard as possible and it just hits where it lands is bullshite and it's abuse. Not to mention the verbal lashing she was giving him. She is fricking that kid up now. He will resent any authority figure because they will remind him of his mother and the abuse she served up to him. If she is willing to do shite like that in front of teachers and on camera you can only imagine what she is doing while no one is watching.

I have never and will never raise my hand to one of my kid's while I'm angry. But I will and have whipped them as a form of discipline. But I will make myself calm down first and they will be damn sure of what they did to deserve the punishment. That is discipline That's the difference right here. This is retribution for embarrassing her, not discipline. frick that piece of trash.

I’m sorry but that looks like child abuse to me and those teachers need to be fired for not stepping in to stop this.

I would never do that to my children nor scream at them like that. That is child abuse and if you don’t think so, I feel bad for you and your kids.

Jesus im looking for homework to do after watching that.

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Special place in my heart for black mamas.

White mamas could learn a thing or two.

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I can't watch this... Discipline is a good thing. I do not disagree with the "spare the rod" mentality in appropriate situations. But this is not discipline. This woman is a criminal, she is committing the crime of battery and child abuse.

Before you even think about participating in the discipline of a child, you must spend every available moment of your life as a parent giving the child 100% of your concentrated, focused attention... ..teaching, playing, interacting with love... and providing a safe, secure, stable environment that gives a child a chance to develop with confidence and flourish as a responsible, productive member of society.

I've raised four children, all who I admire.. ..and all who have surpassed my achievements and accomplishments in life. I take little credit for it, all I did was remember what my parents did with me and do my best to adapt and interpret my upbringing for more modern times. There's an old proverb about training a child in the way he should go... and regardless of the distractions and temptations that they will be faced with, when older they will eventually fall back on what they were taught.

There will be moments that kids will test boundaries, find plenty of mischief for sure, but as a parent, if you've put in your time with them, given them all of your concentrated focused attention, they will eventually flourish.. ..every single time.. ..and they will give much more to this society than they will ever take from it.

This video is mindless violence, unbridled anger/rage in ignorance, imparting an ongoing legacy of the same. This is still an innocent child, helpless and unable to defend himself from a violent beating by an irresponsible adult child abuser. Painful to watch and sad to even imagine what the outcome will be.