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re: Letting kids walk to/from school. Is the world really that much more unsafe?

Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:06 am to
Posted by Jon A thon
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:06 am to
Most kids walk to school if remotely close (~<2 miles) where I live. But the area was pretty much built for that (walking trails, crossing guards, etc.) and it's a very low crime, family oriented place. It's one of the major reasons if not the reason we moved here. I grew up on a rural highway and that was an impossibility.
Posted by CAD703X
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:13 am to
The "following child" episode of Black Mirror is "Arkangel", which is season 4, episode 2. It focuses on a mother who enrolls her daughter in a trial of a technology that allows her to monitor the child's location, see through her eyes, and even censor disturbing content. The episode explores the dangers of overprotective parenting and the potential pitfalls of technological interference in a child's development
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:15 am to
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Statistically, you were probably safer after Johnny got nabbed.


Statistically, my parents didn’t GAF. One less mouth to feed was probably their attitude.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:17 am to
I live not far from a school. I used to walk to it every day. Now there are no crossing guards. Almost no one walks. And they have traffic all the time for the carpool lanes.

Though nothing as bad as Chapelle in Metairie. You had mine 6 lines go to one. So glad i don't have to wait in that every morning anymore
Posted by bluedragon
Birmingham
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:35 am to
I read all this and laugh.

The only public school I went to was in Virginia

Then we moved from Langley (CIA) to Edward’s.

Edward’s AFB no fences. The idiots were on the other side of mountain range.

Then we moved to Tokyo and lived on Little America (that’s the area surrounded by barbed wire and protected by guards with guns.)

In Japan, we got on trains and buses going wherever we wanted and didn’t think about anyone grabbing us.

Other than Football and baseball all at other bases, I spent as much time as we could, exploring Japan. I was always amazed that some people never left the base in four years.







Posted by sidewalkside
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:38 am to
DLS
Posted by sidewalkside
rent free in yo head
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:41 am to
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but maybe it's because when I was 14 years old and sitting on the sidewalk of a very busy street uptown in broad daylight waiting for the school bus, some fat frick parked his car near me and pretended to read the newspaper until he full on started jerking off while staring at me.
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ILurkThereforeIAm
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Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:43 am to
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DLS
they have a parking lot?
Posted by sidewalkside
rent free in yo head
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:50 am to
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they have a parking lot?
They did at the time (not sure about now) but it was small so unless you got there real early you'd have to hunt for parking on the street.
Posted by jsquardjj
Member since Oct 2009
1424 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:50 am to
Most measurable violent crime and kidnappings are way down compared to the 90s. I believe things peaked about 91'

We live in lakeview (Not as safe as most suburbs, but decent for New Orleans) and tons of kids ride their bikes to the lakefront to fish, walk to school, walk to Starbucks/Creole Creamery/friend's houses within about a mile, etc.

I don't like for my kids to walk/ride by themselves, but when they are with their friends, I have no problem with it. The older one can cross the "bigger streets" (Filmore, Harrison) and the younger one has to stay within a few block radius. They play football in the empty lots and when I need to find him, I look for the yard with the big pile of bikes that day.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:52 am to
When my older cousins went there when it was still all boys, there wasn’t one for students - but I’m sure that changed along the way

Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:55 am to
Our kids rode bikes to school until they started playing instruments. Middle and elemmentary school is attached to neighborhood. Surprisingly few bike or ride. I don't know how so many parents have the time to sit in carpool lines every am&pm.
Posted by jiffyjohnson
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:58 am to
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CAD703X


just cause you typed that out imma watch it big dog
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:59 am to
that series is insane

also highly recommend 'nosedive' and 'metal head' episodes.
Posted by rintintin
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 12:09 pm to
In the 90's walked to school from like 5th grade on.

Not only that, but our parents didnt even give us a key and we were routinely locked out of the house when we got home and had to climb through windows
Posted by Bard
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 12:11 pm to
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When I was a kid we walked to school.
We rode our bikes miles away where our parents had no idea where we were.
We played outside without "eyes on" direct supervision by an adult.

Is the world really that much more unsafe or are people unreasonably paranoid?


In an increasing amount, yes. Societal norms have deteriorated for decades, this has now sped up thanks to some combination of the internet (news travels farther and faster, as well as feeds copycatting and helps marginalized groups congregate and thus feel more emboldened), more reliance on government social programs to support increasing lifestyles and the stronger addictive aspects of many recreational drugs.

We can take Waffle House fights as an example. Thirty years ago you never heard about them. Ever. You might hear of one every couple of months at some local late-night eatery after the clubs closed, but those usually had police presence (due to so many people coming in drunk), but it wasn't a theme. Today a quick youtube search turns up hundreds loaded up, the problem is so bad that some locations no longer allow anything but take-out after dark.

The more things like that happen, the more accepted they become through people becoming desensitized to it.

Another is the push for normalizing the psychological one aspect of the condition of body image dysphoria (ie: "trannies") by trying to position it as natural. Thirty years ago, a man dressing as a woman was a point of comedy absurdism (see: SNL's "It's Pat!" skits), today supporters are trying to get it covered under discrimination law (see: the SNL actress who played "Pat" publicly regretting the character). This also extends to the attempt to push a soft acceptance of pedophile trannies (whether their condition plays into their being pedos or they are just using trannies for cover) through trying to classify anyone against it as being some sort of "phobe" or "ist".

This is the true "diversity" the fringe Left is pushing, whether any given individual understands that or not.
Posted by Zendog
Santa Barbara
Member since Feb 2019
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 1:38 pm to
yes
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 1:42 pm to
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At my school, we were basically locked on school grounds from the morning bell to the afternoon bell.


You can thank lawyers… all them old tv shows and movies showed kids leaving campus for lunch lol… I got to high school and was disappointed
Posted by AaronDeTiger
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Member since Jun 2014
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Posted on 7/25/25 at 1:57 pm to
I was in second grade and my sister was in kindergarten and we rode our bikes 1 mile to Shenandoah Elementary every day. I doubt I'd let my kids do it today.
This post was edited on 7/25/25 at 1:58 pm
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
10313 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 2:17 pm to
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People are unreasonably paranoid.


Are they?

When I lived in SoCal as a kid in the late 70’s. the Son of Sam was on TV in the summer of 77 pretty much until he was caught. He terrified me. There was just something about him that made me think a monster was ready to jump out of the bushes and grab me at any moment. My dad tried to reassure me by emphasizing that the SoS was in New York and we’re in SoCal, and I had nothing to worry about. It wasn't until decades later that FBI and LAPD did an analysis of all the cold-cases from the area and realized that many were connected. Eventually they put together that, not only did SoCal have a serial killer or two at this time, but that they had over a Dozen operating from 77-79. Many were never caught. I was worried about the Son of Sam 3k miles away when I had a dozen super predators in my own back yard. Criminologists estimate that there may be hundreds of serial killers in the US thst are never caught. We’re only aware of the flashy ones that are undisciplined and crave publicity.

Parents have that sense of dread for a good reason.
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