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re: I’m struggling with the breakup of my fiancée

Posted on 4/30/26 at 7:49 am to
Posted by runningdad85
Member since Mar 2013
342 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 7:49 am to
I appreciate that man. I did and I am. We're actually going to a marriage counseling session next week, so I'm somewhat hopeful.
Posted by KLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
11170 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 8:02 am to
quote:

It’s for the best. I still love her and we’re still cordial. It’s just not meant to be.


If you truly mean this statement why are you struggling with the breakup?

Seems like you have already justified your situation so it is time to move on..
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
30127 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 8:13 am to
She's already on a new dong, that's what chicks do to get over men.

You can date one for five years, break up, and the next day she will have a new "F$%K Boy".

It's amazing
Posted by bdavids09
Member since Jun 2017
1541 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 8:14 am to
It’s just the reality of loneliness sets in now. It’s normal and will fade. Just have to get through it. You know the breakup had to happen. Before you know it you won’t even think about her and you will say you dodged a bullet.
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
56288 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 8:18 am to
PIIHB
Posted by Rex Feral
Somewhere near Athens
Member since Jan 2014
16904 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 8:40 am to
quote:

Don’t feel like doing much of anything except isolating and moping alone





"I miss the comfort of being sad" has always stuck in my head.
Posted by Everyday Is Saturday
Member since Dec 2025
2215 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 8:53 am to
Sorry to hear. All the best.

My then girlfriend/fiancee and I had 1 rule in our relationship. We only break up once, if at all. In or out. Commitment established, including sorting the challenges together when they arise. No convenient exits / returns. If not right fit, eject was available. Once.

Commitment was not our weakness. Happily married 30 years later. Now, we are far from perfect. But we take ‘togetherness’ very seriously.
This post was edited on 4/30/26 at 9:13 am
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
19821 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 8:58 am to
You'll get over it. I had a similar issue. Dated a chick for a year before realizing that we just weren't aligned on very important issues, namely parenting and finances. It sucked because she's a smokeshow, we had a great time together, and she's a genuinely good person. I just knew that those two issues would eventually drive us apart, so I walked away. Ended up meeting an even bigger smokeshow whose values were perfectly aligned with mine a few months later and married her.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 9:00 am to
quote:

PIIHB


finally, a voice of reason, and the only sensible solution
Posted by bulletprooftiger
Member since Aug 2006
2514 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 9:05 am to
Sounds rough. You ended it several times for a reason. Better to break it off now then have to undo a marriage or, worse, a family.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
151028 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 9:08 am to
quote:

Arthur Bach


Find you some new pussy and buy a 4Runner


#WinnieWinnersSummer26
Posted by AlxTgr
Kyre Banorg
Member since Oct 2003
87728 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 9:40 am to
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I ended things several times. Then I wanted her back and she said no.

It’s for the best. I still love her and we’re still cordial. It’s just not meant to be. I’m dealing with a lot of sadness and anger over the situation, though. I want what is best for her, but it’s still a tough pill to swallow. If I could cry, I would. But I don’t really even know how.

She’s giving the ring back and that will be that.

Plow into strange, workout, feel it, I’ve heard all the advice. Don’t feel like doing much of anything except isolating and moping alone. Weird to know it’s for the best and still be sad over it.


You might be a good song writer.
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11967 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 11:22 am to
quote:

you are acting like a bitch


Posted by LSUPilot07
Member since Feb 2022
8713 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 1:18 pm to
You ended it with her and still are taking the ring back? You sound like a real keeper! Women don’t like cheap guys and you seem like you cut coupons for fun. Also, quit whining about it, YOU ended it, not her!
Posted by This GUN for HIRE
Member since May 2022
6229 posts
Posted on 4/30/26 at 1:46 pm to
Posted by BurningHeart
Member since Jan 2017
10092 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 4:58 pm to
quote:

Message
I’m struggling with the breakup of my fiancéeby Arthur Bach


The couple of years between my divorce and current wife were some of the best ever. I envy you get to experience that.

Being able to do whatever you want, chase whomever you want with no worries in the world... ahh everyman should feel this at least once in their lifetime.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40108 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 5:24 pm to
You post like a woman, but you have "pilot" in your name so...

Classy women give the ring back, worthless skanks keep them.

You're right about him, though. He's whiny.
Posted by Vacherie Saint
Member since Aug 2015
47951 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 5:40 pm to
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I ended things several times. Then I wanted her back and she said no.


Sounds like you were the problem
Posted by PerryWinkleBlue
Member since Apr 2025
581 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 7:45 pm to
Don’t be a twat, she’s already fricking someone if not multiples
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108564 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 8:21 pm to
Nice little pitty party you got going there.
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