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re: I’m struggling with the breakup of my fiancée
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:50 pm to CPA Yung Boi
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:50 pm to CPA Yung Boi
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Based on what?
The fact that they were on again off again usually means there were deeper issues his mind cannot process right now
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:51 pm to Arthur Bach
Do you have a loving dog? If not, get one.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:51 pm to Arthur Bach
Sounds like you’re caught between the moon and New York City.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:51 pm to REB BEER
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If not, get one.
last thing we need is hairy dudes taking selfies in the tub w his dog again.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:52 pm to Fun Bunch
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The fact that they were on again off again usually means there were deeper issues his mind cannot process right now
she wouldn't by a more comfortable chair for him to sit in the corner of her bedroom
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:52 pm to Arthur Bach
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Don’t feel like doing much of anything except isolating and moping alone and posting about it on tOT
FIFY
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:52 pm to Arthur Bach
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If I could cry, I would. But I don’t really even know how.
Well that's the dumbest thing I've read today.
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I ended things several times. Then I wanted her back and she said no.
So you broke up with her, multiple times, and then when you wanted her back again she said no? Firstly, good for her. Secondly, that is very womanly behavior from you. Be a grownup and make a decision and stick with it, especially if this is true for you:
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It’s for the best.
(and that is definitely true for her since she dodged the bullet that is you)
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:53 pm to Arthur Bach
I had a fiancée. It coulda been me 
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:53 pm to Chad504boy
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last thing we need is hairy dudes taking selfies in the tub w his dog again.
Nymeria has seen some things, man. Damn.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:54 pm to Arthur Bach
quote:you’re either really young or very shallow… maybe both
Plow into strange, workout
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:56 pm to Arthur Bach
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I ended things several times
If you ended things, there was a damn good reason. Just because you are horny doesn’t mean that reason is gone. People don’t change much at all over time and if you got back together today you would have the same problems.
As my grandfather used to say “no need to plow the same ground twice.”
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:59 pm to Arthur Bach
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Don’t feel like doing much of anything except isolating and moping alone.
There's not a thing wrong with this for a little while. It gets better but it takes time like everything else.
Trust me - the absolute right one will appear when you least expect it and you will be unbelievably happy that this one didn't work out.
Hope you find a little respite from being down for a little while.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:59 pm to Fun Bunch
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The fact that they were on again off again usually means there were deeper issues his mind cannot process right now
Well, we know that at some point, he proposed, then broke up with her, then asked her to come back….and this has been a pattern of his.
Whatever is going on with her probably doesn’t explain that level of indecisiveness.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:00 pm to Arthur Bach
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Plow into strange
Stupidest advice ever IMO
You’re trying to F your hurt feels away with some random chick probably with da herp.
Go do shite you’ve always wanted to do but couldn’t bc your fiance was a deadbeat loser.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:01 pm to Arthur Bach
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She’s giving the ring back and that will be that.
Trade it for a nice guitar and start a band!
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:02 pm to Arthur Bach
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I ended things several times. Then I wanted her back and she said no.
Good for her.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:04 pm to Arthur Bach
I would like to amend my statement on the golf board about never starting the game.
You are in the perfect headspace to take up golf. Time to get married to the game my boy. You'll be breaking 80 in no time.
You are in the perfect headspace to take up golf. Time to get married to the game my boy. You'll be breaking 80 in no time.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:06 pm to Arthur Bach
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Don’t feel like doing much of anything except isolating and moping alone. Weird to know it’s for the best and still be sad over it.
That's how I handled hard breakups before being married. I just needed to wallow in sadness and self-pity until I got tired of feeling sorry for myself. After that, I would either get back out there, troll for strange or just spend time re-orienting myself.
Everyone is different, do what works for you.
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