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re: I’m struggling with the breakup of my fiancée

Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:50 pm to
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
130304 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:50 pm to
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Based on what?



The fact that they were on again off again usually means there were deeper issues his mind cannot process right now
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18092 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:51 pm to
Do you have a loving dog? If not, get one.
Posted by HueyLongJr
Member since Oct 2007
1072 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:51 pm to
Sounds like you’re caught between the moon and New York City.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
179022 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:51 pm to
quote:

If not, get one.



last thing we need is hairy dudes taking selfies in the tub w his dog again.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92277 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:52 pm to
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The fact that they were on again off again usually means there were deeper issues his mind cannot process right now


she wouldn't by a more comfortable chair for him to sit in the corner of her bedroom
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
37071 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:52 pm to
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Don’t feel like doing much of anything except isolating and moping alone and posting about it on tOT


FIFY
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
156619 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:52 pm to
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If I could cry, I would. But I don’t really even know how.

Well that's the dumbest thing I've read today.

quote:

I ended things several times. Then I wanted her back and she said no.

So you broke up with her, multiple times, and then when you wanted her back again she said no? Firstly, good for her. Secondly, that is very womanly behavior from you. Be a grownup and make a decision and stick with it, especially if this is true for you:
quote:

It’s for the best.

(and that is definitely true for her since she dodged the bullet that is you)
Posted by Whodisbe
Member since Jan 2019
132 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:53 pm to
I had a fiancée. It coulda been me
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
37071 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:53 pm to
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last thing we need is hairy dudes taking selfies in the tub w his dog again.


Nymeria has seen some things, man. Damn.
Posted by SoFla Tideroller
South Florida
Member since Apr 2010
41027 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:53 pm to
Beat me to it
Posted by Texjohnson
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2020
155 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:54 pm to
downvote bc no pics
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
21659 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:54 pm to
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Plow into strange, workout
you’re either really young or very shallow… maybe both
Posted by Spankum
The Sip
Member since Jan 2007
62260 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:56 pm to
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I ended things several times



If you ended things, there was a damn good reason. Just because you are horny doesn’t mean that reason is gone. People don’t change much at all over time and if you got back together today you would have the same problems.

As my grandfather used to say “no need to plow the same ground twice.”
Posted by Swamp Angel
West Georgia Chicken Farm Territory
Member since Jul 2004
10193 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:59 pm to
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Don’t feel like doing much of anything except isolating and moping alone.


There's not a thing wrong with this for a little while. It gets better but it takes time like everything else.

Trust me - the absolute right one will appear when you least expect it and you will be unbelievably happy that this one didn't work out.

Hope you find a little respite from being down for a little while.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
3274 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:59 pm to
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The fact that they were on again off again usually means there were deeper issues his mind cannot process right now

Well, we know that at some point, he proposed, then broke up with her, then asked her to come back….and this has been a pattern of his.

Whatever is going on with her probably doesn’t explain that level of indecisiveness.
Posted by idlewatcher
Planet Arium
Member since Jan 2012
97024 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:00 pm to
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Plow into strange


Stupidest advice ever IMO

You’re trying to F your hurt feels away with some random chick probably with da herp.

Go do shite you’ve always wanted to do but couldn’t bc your fiance was a deadbeat loser.
Posted by auggie
Opelika, Alabama
Member since Aug 2013
31587 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:01 pm to
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She’s giving the ring back and that will be that.


Trade it for a nice guitar and start a band!
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
62013 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:02 pm to
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I ended things several times. Then I wanted her back and she said no.

Good for her.
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
39995 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:04 pm to
I would like to amend my statement on the golf board about never starting the game.

You are in the perfect headspace to take up golf. Time to get married to the game my boy. You'll be breaking 80 in no time.
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
59283 posts
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:06 pm to
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Don’t feel like doing much of anything except isolating and moping alone. Weird to know it’s for the best and still be sad over it.


That's how I handled hard breakups before being married. I just needed to wallow in sadness and self-pity until I got tired of feeling sorry for myself. After that, I would either get back out there, troll for strange or just spend time re-orienting myself.

Everyone is different, do what works for you.
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