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re: I’m struggling with the breakup of my fiancée
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:33 pm to Arthur Bach
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:33 pm to Arthur Bach
You sound like you are handling this in a very mature way. Especially since you can be introspective about it all and realize it’s for the best. I think that you are going to be fine. Work out, find a new hobby, keep moving. Your mind will follow.
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Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:33 pm to Arthur Bach
If it makes you feel any better, statistically speaking she more than likely cheated on you at least once.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:34 pm to el Gaucho
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I knew this dude who married a Mexican and paid to sponsor her “cousin” and then he lived with them while he “got back on his feet”
Turns out it was her husband from Mexico and they were bangin while he was at work
that guy was such a dork, he never even suspected us
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:34 pm to Arthur Bach
Have your t levels checked.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:35 pm to el Gaucho
"el Gaucho" name checks out.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:36 pm to kywildcatfanone
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ended things several times. Then I wanted her back and she said no.
Sounds like you were the confused one in the relationship and she got the best advice from her friends to not go back. How long did you string her around?
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:37 pm to Arthur Bach
Its not going to be easy. In time, you will realize that you dodged a bullet.
But it will be hard for now.
Focus on bettering yourself. Mentally, physically, financially
But it will be hard for now.
Focus on bettering yourself. Mentally, physically, financially
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:38 pm to Arthur Bach
You may not need “another” to get over it. Get outside, walk, run, go to a trail, swim, ride a bike, go buy something you wanted and have fun with it. I’m here to tell you there is a future, and stop rueing the past. Also, hang out with a few friends and talk about everything else but her. 
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:38 pm to Arthur Bach
Sorry you’re hurting man.
And not to rub salt in the wound but “ending it several times” doesn’t exactly scream “I want to build a forever-life with you”, so no kidding she finally slammed the door shut. No woman can anchor into that.
If you really loved her, it’ll hurt like a bitch for a while but that will pass. If you need to cry, do it. If you want to mope for a little, do that. But keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Don’t make your sadness your new identity. Just experience it, acknowledge it (you did that here so good job) but keep going with your life. Just gotta go through the pain and eventually you’ll be alright.
And not to rub salt in the wound but “ending it several times” doesn’t exactly scream “I want to build a forever-life with you”, so no kidding she finally slammed the door shut. No woman can anchor into that.
If you really loved her, it’ll hurt like a bitch for a while but that will pass. If you need to cry, do it. If you want to mope for a little, do that. But keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Don’t make your sadness your new identity. Just experience it, acknowledge it (you did that here so good job) but keep going with your life. Just gotta go through the pain and eventually you’ll be alright.
This post was edited on 4/29/26 at 2:42 pm
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:39 pm to Fun Bunch
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In time, you will realize that you dodged a bullet.
Based on what?
His inability to commit?
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:39 pm to Arthur Bach
Good thing you got the ring back.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:40 pm to Deplorableinohio
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Good thing you got the ring back.
Especially since he called it off.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:41 pm to financetiger
Cordial
Wait till she lawyers up
She’s gonna take you to the cleaners
Wait till she lawyers up
She’s gonna take you to the cleaners
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:42 pm to Arthur Bach
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still love her and we’re still cordial
Every time you think of her, imagine her getting plowed immediately before you see her.
Then tell me how that love lasts.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:43 pm to Arthur Bach
Sack up. Process it and move forward. Life is short.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:44 pm to Arthur Bach
When you can look at it like it’s her loss, you’ll be good to go.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:46 pm to CPA Yung Boi
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Based on what?
His inability to commit?
yep, OP sounds like a bit of a vag
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:48 pm to Arthur Bach
Why are you on a message board talking about wanting to cry? You’re a bitch
Posted on 4/29/26 at 2:49 pm to Arthur Bach
I smoked a lot of weed and microdosed shrooms then just chilled for about 5 years doing whatever I wanted. Had a great time after the ~6 months to get over everything and was so glad I didn't marry her. Now I'm married to the real 'one'.
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