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re: I’m struggling with the breakup of my fiancée
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:06 pm to Arthur Bach
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:06 pm to Arthur Bach
bruh the iron does not give a frick about your feelings! buck the frick up and get your arse in the god damn gym. it really is that simple. get in the best shape of your life. get shredded, get a better job then start slaying strange and stop being a little bitch about things.
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Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:08 pm to Arthur Bach
I hear you man, and I'm sorry.
Imagine being married 12 years to your best friend, having 2 kids, and she suddenly tells you she's just done. Says she's tired of all the ups and downs.
She means everything to me, and I've been apparently meaning less and less to her the last several years. When I look back, it's starting to make more sense.
We started separation a couple of weeks ago, and now my kids are having a rough time. My son constantly tells me he would rather Mom. It's a unique kind of misery.
Imagine being married 12 years to your best friend, having 2 kids, and she suddenly tells you she's just done. Says she's tired of all the ups and downs.
She means everything to me, and I've been apparently meaning less and less to her the last several years. When I look back, it's starting to make more sense.
We started separation a couple of weeks ago, and now my kids are having a rough time. My son constantly tells me he would rather Mom. It's a unique kind of misery.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:08 pm to Arthur Bach
Take a trip by yourself, keep working out, and don't drink because of sadness. Leave drinking for social and fun activities. Your later life self will thank me.
Sounds like it needed to happen. Suck it up butter cup...and get off Tiger Droppings with this gay shyt!!!!
Sounds like it needed to happen. Suck it up butter cup...and get off Tiger Droppings with this gay shyt!!!!
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:10 pm to Arthur Bach
How long were yall engaged?
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:10 pm to OysterPoBoy
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Strangle a hooker,
Do not do this.
worked for Craig James
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:10 pm to OysterPoBoy
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Do not do this.
yep. you'll get surcharged for sure.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:12 pm to 777Tiger
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and hookers
Cocaine-fueled hookers
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:16 pm to Arthur Bach
I'm sorry for you, but if you both ended it a few times in the past, it would NOT have worked out in the long run.
You don't think so now, and it might seem impossible to believe it, but this was for the best.
You don't think so now, and it might seem impossible to believe it, but this was for the best.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:16 pm to Arthur Bach
Another girl....Yesterday's Papers Stones
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:16 pm to Arthur Bach
Dude taking advice from here? 
Before any of those things can take effect "you" need to be on your own and heal first. Thats takes time man. Divorce(esp with kids) is a fricking nightmare. It will get worse before it gets better. You need time, it may take months or years to turn the corner. I can tell you that during this transition dont date anyone, youll end up hurting them cause u arent ready. I can tell you that once you turn that corner, youll be happier and realize your better off than before. Take time to work on you. Its a hard medicine to swallow and a boring one too but do you no matter how long it takes. If you need to frick, just frick, no relationships. Let time pass. Time is your only healing agent. In time youll become at peace with things. Good luck brother.
Before any of those things can take effect "you" need to be on your own and heal first. Thats takes time man. Divorce(esp with kids) is a fricking nightmare. It will get worse before it gets better. You need time, it may take months or years to turn the corner. I can tell you that during this transition dont date anyone, youll end up hurting them cause u arent ready. I can tell you that once you turn that corner, youll be happier and realize your better off than before. Take time to work on you. Its a hard medicine to swallow and a boring one too but do you no matter how long it takes. If you need to frick, just frick, no relationships. Let time pass. Time is your only healing agent. In time youll become at peace with things. Good luck brother.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:16 pm to auggie
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Trade it for a nice guitar and start a band!
This is legit good advice.
Drowning yourself in booze / drugs / strippers or other negative activities to distract yourself is mere escapism, and you risk falling into a deeper rut that's harder to climb out of.
But a breakup can be an opportunity to assess your life and start fresh with good habits. The gym is one. Music or art are also constructeive outlets.
If you (the OP) has ever had an itch to play guitar, this is a fantastic time. Since you just want to sit at home alone, do it with a guitar in your hands and channel your feelings through your fingers.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:30 pm to Arthur Bach
Prayers sent for you.
But, but, but, you must remember TigerDroppings has rules. PICS please.
Seriously, life is too short. Keep moving forward. Stay positive. Take care!
But, but, but, you must remember TigerDroppings has rules. PICS please.
Seriously, life is too short. Keep moving forward. Stay positive. Take care!
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:36 pm to Arthur Bach
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I ended things several times. Then I wanted her back and she said no.
She’s giving the ring back and that will be that.
Seems like she's a fair and reasonable lady. How about you give us her number so we can shoot our shot too?
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:41 pm to Arthur Bach
This suggestion may seem a little out there or unapproachable for some
But I highly suggest it even if you are not a religious individual
I would suggest joining an ACTS retreat
But I highly suggest it even if you are not a religious individual
I would suggest joining an ACTS retreat
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:42 pm to Arthur Bach
Quit being a pussy. Start going to church.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:43 pm to Arthur Bach
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I’m struggling with the breakup of my fiancée
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I ended things several times. Then I wanted her back and she said no.
Stopped reading after this.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:48 pm to Arthur Bach
You sound like a punk arse bitch.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:49 pm to Sam Quint
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alcohol helps too
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Arthur Bach
He already has that covered.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:52 pm to runningdad85
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Imagine being married 12 years to your best friend, having 2 kids, and she suddenly tells you she's just done. Says she's tired of all the ups and downs.
She means everything to me, and I've been apparently meaning less and less to her the last several years. When I look back, it's starting to make more sense.
We started separation a couple of weeks ago, and now my kids are having a rough time. My son constantly tells me he would rather Mom. It's a unique kind of misery.
Not to derail, but fight for your marriage, don’t just let her walk. In this case, it sounds like it’s worth it.
Posted on 4/29/26 at 3:57 pm to Arthur Bach
As a woman, she was probably a total bitch. Find one that is less of a bitch.
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