re: Has anyone else experienced a gold digger and/or homewrecker destroying their family

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because he feels it would cut into their much anticipated slice of the inheritance pie.

I mean how would that NOT tear the family apart?!

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Funny how kids and grandkids that were raised by someone or received the benefit of reasonably well-off grandparents think they should get the money instead of the woman cupping his droopy balls while slobering on his semi-flaccid meat stick.

His children need to say “dad, we love the fact that you love this girl and y’all love each other, but before you get married , to protect the estate, let’s go ahead and transfer the assets into our name”.

ETA: anywho, I knew a wealthy individual who did that, and every time he had a super young girlfriend, his children were always so happy for him, because they knew he had only a few pennies to his actual name. He made sure to divest his assets to his kids, and his kids just kept putting money in his checking account so he could live whatever life you wanted to live.

I stay poor to prevent gold diggers

Does he have a will and who's the executor of the estate? The place to start is understanding his assets. Then you can wall off most of his money and neuter the girlfriend.

A prenup is a great test of love.

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Tiger Tailsman

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It sounds like you're the gold digger in this situation. Why do you care what your grandfather does with his money?

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She is 22 yrs younger and he is 77. If he was just a Joe blow, she WOULD NOT be with him, she would be with another rich old man. That bitch should be ashamed of herself. She will get half if he marries her, have him drain all his money to you first. Talk to him and explain why.

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What if he wants her to get everything?

A few years after my mom died my retired father said he had a girlfriend. He was already slowing down a bit mentally. Eventually I looked at his bank statements and at least $200/day was going out from cash withdrawals. (he was old school--went to the bank and withdrew from the teller). Then one month there was $4000 worth of money transfers to this woman as she was on vacation...by herself. I then signed on to his account online (he didn't know how to do it) and showed him the totals. Now I was already noticing signs of dementia. I facebook messaged her and told her my Dad's money train had pulled out of the station. Was able with the help of his doctor to get Power-of-Attorney--that's the hard part if you have a parent who's not willing. It helped between me, the doc, and the attorney that he had been forgetting to pay bills.

Sadly, his dementia/Alzheimer's journey had just really begun.

Anyway, good luck.

I'm all for a guy late in years to get some young tail. Hell, he's earned it. But I don't want him to be a simp and marry her and lose half of his assets for it.

He's the one with the money. He should be making the rules.

sounds like grampa is a cradle robbing poon digger

Yes.

After my parents got divorced, my dad starting dating woman 10 years younger than him, that was a terrible person