Started By
Message

re: At what point in your life did you think... life sure flew by

Posted on 9/30/24 at 10:51 am to
Posted by cadillacattack
the ATL
Member since May 2020
7695 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 10:51 am to
In my home town they recently demolished two bars that I knew very well in my younger years…. the Spinnaker, and the No Name lounge in Panama City. I bartended at Spinnaker in the late seventies. Man, what a great time to be young, single, on the beach, and with a pocketful of tips. Good times.

That makes me wonder where time went ….


Posted by Dubaitiger
Abu Dhabi, UAE
Member since Nov 2005
5163 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 10:57 am to
When I was responding to that Bobby Brown thread a week ago, and did the math of my freshman days at LSU was 38 years ago
Posted by Dubaitiger
Abu Dhabi, UAE
Member since Nov 2005
5163 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 10:58 am to
quote:

the Spinnaker


I went there back in the day
Posted by Got Blaze
Youngsville
Member since Dec 2013
9498 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 11:12 am to
quote:

and did the math of my freshman days at LSU was 38 years ago

I hadn't put that context of years into perspective. Also did the math and subtracted 38 from 2024.... PHUC, we're the same age and were both FR @ LSU during 1986. Crazy how time flies. Wife is from Opelousas as we likely know friends of friends, some of the same people .
Posted by dat yat
Chef Pass
Member since Jun 2011
4656 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 12:09 pm to
It really hit me when my daughter drove away from the house by herself in her own car for the first time. She's still my little girl; but that day it felt like her childhood had gone by way too fast.
Posted by Keltic Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2006
20543 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 12:14 pm to
Lost my oldest sister to cancer at her age of 42. That was a major slap to my face & made me aware of my own clock ticking away.
Posted by rexorotten
Missouri
Member since Oct 2013
4604 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 12:17 pm to
36. I had a thought when I was 36 that If I died when I was 18 and reborn, I'd be 18 again. The 18 years after high school went by so much faster than the 1st.
Posted by In The Know
City of St George, La
Member since Jan 2005
5875 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 12:17 pm to
Chris Rock has this bit about life. He says everyone says life is short, but ask anyone who makes bad decisions about how long life is. Time stands still in prison and in a bad marriage. Count your blessings.
Posted by Lou
Modesto, CA
Member since Aug 2005
8434 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 12:22 pm to
The first time I saw a local band cover 90's music and saw people ten years younger than me being nostalgic.
Posted by Meauxjeaux
98836 posts including my alters
Member since Jun 2005
43527 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 12:36 pm to
quote:

55 here and I look in the mirror and see a youngish guy. I look at all my peers and see a bunch of older men


So true. I’m not in healthy shape but not bad either.

And I ‘feel’ young and active. Still can crouch and coach a Catcher, knees are good. (Note: I don’t dick around with that one knee shite either lol) Still swing a fungo pretty well.

But I look at a lot of guys and think they are looking old.

So I probably do too
Posted by PikesPeak
The Penalty Box
Member since Apr 2022
832 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 12:37 pm to
My 4yo is constantly saying "ughhh that will be forever" when I tell her she's not going to her friend's house for another 2 days.

I tell her to enjoy the wait and everything that happens in the meantime, because the second they were born I realized how much of a thief time is.

When you're young, you're experiencing so many things for the first time. Your brain essentially slows down to take it all in. Once you're in your 30s and everything has become fairly routine, your brain conserves power for activities and kind of shuts down on the daily experience.
Posted by cdhorn28
Member since Sep 2016
698 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 12:52 pm to
I'll look at pictures of my now 4-year-old and feel like I took the picture a few weeks prior, but looking at the picture then her, looks like she aged years. I hate it!



For the young the days go fast and the years go slow; for the old the days go slow and the years go fast.
This post was edited on 9/30/24 at 12:56 pm
Posted by Trevaylin
south texas
Member since Feb 2019
8677 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 12:55 pm to
at 73, I sold off the motor home and the 30 foot offshore boat. It was to big a job to maintain and use. The same year I got two new metal knees. Slowing down.
Posted by ATCTx
Member since Nov 2016
1269 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 1:01 pm to
I barely remember 30-50. Marriage, kids, job, dog, mortgage, bills, etc.

At 55, kids all but out of the house, not much to do except golf and streaming. It's great!

But, I find myself looking back and replaying the things I missed out on or just wanted to get away from the noise of kids. What I wouldn't give for a weekend of that kind of noise.

Anyway, at about 55 I realized how fast the years flew by. The days sure seemed long, but not the years...not the years. So my advice to a 20 something would be try to enjoy the days.
This post was edited on 9/30/24 at 1:05 pm
Posted by PikesPeak
The Penalty Box
Member since Apr 2022
832 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 1:13 pm to
quote:

I barely remember 30-50. Marriage, kids, job, dog, mortgage, bills, etc.

It's really easy to fall into the daily grind and have this time fly by. That's why Mrs. PikesPeak (no pics) and I really emphasize taking trips with our kids as often as possible...just to slow down, set those few days in stone in our memories while trying to create memories for them too.

I remind myself every day that I'll miss the chaos the second it's gone...I embrace it as much as humanly possible.
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
36271 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 1:20 pm to
You spend your first 25 - 30 years looking forward and spend the rest looking back. It's the watched pot never boils concept.

I'm 40, one in high school and one in middle school and I wish I could have hit pause about 5 years ago. That was the good old days
Posted by Pilot Tiger
North Carolina
Member since Nov 2005
73549 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 1:23 pm to
quote:

Life before kids felt like it was moving at a snail's pace. Once that first one popped out, it got faster. Three kids later it's blowing by. Months feel like weeks, days feel like months. Hard to explain.
It's because now I'm giving all my time to them so their lives can move slowly now
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
59017 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 2:38 pm to
quote:

But I look at a lot of guys and think they are looking old. So I probably do too
yeah. As for me that is probably the reality.
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
25655 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 2:46 pm to
quote:

When you're in your teens and early 20s there sesms to be so much ahead of you...

20 years later you're looking back saying where did all that time go?

man, this perfectly encapsulates how I look at it now... in my 40's, it's weird to think of all that time I lost, and would love to have it back, but just gotta do the best I can with what's in front of me
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51657 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 2:48 pm to
quote:

I'm 40, one in high school and one in middle school and I wish I could have hit pause about 5 years ago. That was the good old days

Seems like I just turned 40 and I'm starting to stare 50 in the face now
This post was edited on 9/30/24 at 2:49 pm
first pageprev pagePage 5 of 7Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram