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Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:13 am to kingbob
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I wouldn’t ask until you’re considering marriage or moving in together.
This
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:15 am to kingbob
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I wouldn’t ask until you’re considering marriage or moving in together.
No, no , no
At this point you are too invested. OP 2-3 months is about right. Any consumer debt is a no.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:16 am to Ssubba
You weren't honest with her about your 5k time, so you shouldn't expect her to be honest with you about her debt.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:17 am to Ssubba
I usually wait until we have been on 2-3 dates. I'll find her parents house, knock on the door, and ask them myself. Usually around 9-10pm on a Sunday so I know they are home.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:17 am to Ssubba
While we’re still talking about her 2 kids on tinder
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:17 am to OleWarSkuleAlum
The more important question is how does she live? Out of state or private school student loan debt is dumb but absolutely forgiveable and understandable for a 17-18 year old to make.
If she chooses to drive a nice car, eat out nice dinners routinely, go to tanning salons, buy a lot of nice clothes, etc. and puts it all on a CC that’s not really acceptable.
A lot of it also depends on how much you make and plan to make OP. Can you afford her is the most important question?
If she chooses to drive a nice car, eat out nice dinners routinely, go to tanning salons, buy a lot of nice clothes, etc. and puts it all on a CC that’s not really acceptable.
A lot of it also depends on how much you make and plan to make OP. Can you afford her is the most important question?
This post was edited on 10/21/19 at 9:19 am
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:18 am to Ssubba
If you have even an inkling that she may be "the one", ask her early on.
I love my wife dearly, but when we got married she had almost 100k in student loans. Two bachelor's degrees from LSU and a masters from OLOL.
A "reverse dowry" if you will.
frick me running.
10 years later and we've got it almost paid off. We owe less than 2k at a stupid low interest rate. I think it's paid off mid 2020.
I wouldn't change a thing about marrying her, but damn, what we could have done with that cash....
I love my wife dearly, but when we got married she had almost 100k in student loans. Two bachelor's degrees from LSU and a masters from OLOL.
A "reverse dowry" if you will.
frick me running.
10 years later and we've got it almost paid off. We owe less than 2k at a stupid low interest rate. I think it's paid off mid 2020.
I wouldn't change a thing about marrying her, but damn, what we could have done with that cash....
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:18 am to GetCocky11
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You weren't honest with her about your 5k time
He earned his honesty through grit and determination. That's almost more admirable than telling the truth in the beginning.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:19 am to OleWarSkuleAlum
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At this point you are too invested. OP 2-3 months is about right. Any consumer debt is a no.
Agree on timeline, no need to waste your efforts on a girl you aren't so sure on after 2-3 months.
Disagree on "any" consumer debt. If they are young, they need to build credit in order to receive favorable mortgage terms. Having an interest free payment plan on a TV/Furniture purchase is not the worst thing in the world.
Having a CC balance that nearly matches your annual income is a massive red flag.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:19 am to Ssubba
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Is this that jogging girl?
Yup.
We went through that ordeal with you, we deserve pics
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:19 am to Ssubba
Fortunately, never had to. His parents paid for his education, mine paid for mine. I hadn’t even had my first credit card yet when we met 8 years ago. Neither one of us have ever had debt.
That said, I see nothing wrong with discussing it as things get more serious. I honestly don’t know if I could date someone still struggling to pay back massive loans.
That said, I see nothing wrong with discussing it as things get more serious. I honestly don’t know if I could date someone still struggling to pay back massive loans.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:19 am to Ssubba
You can casually bring up student loans and fish for answers on that while dating. Anything else and you're being a dick.
Once you're shopping for a ring, you get to the credit card and gambling debts.
If she parks her car two apartment complexes away from hers with the license plate backed into a bush, run away.
As always, each additional cup in breast size makes up for $10,000 in debt.
Once you're shopping for a ring, you get to the credit card and gambling debts.
If she parks her car two apartment complexes away from hers with the license plate backed into a bush, run away.
As always, each additional cup in breast size makes up for $10,000 in debt.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:20 am to Ssubba
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Is this that jogging girl? Yup.
Did you tell her you lied to her to get in her pants yet?
This post was edited on 10/21/19 at 9:22 am
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:21 am to Ssubba
You’re a douche.
How much debt she has is a question for after the wedding. Be a man.
How much debt she has is a question for after the wedding. Be a man.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:22 am to Ssubba
Right up front. If she's not the gravy train then it's time to move on.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:22 am to Ssubba
When you’re at that point where you are debating pulling out or busting a nut in her, ask. Don’t decide until you get an answer. It could affect the rest of your life.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:22 am to Ssubba
Before the "I love you's" are exchanged or she'll throw that in your face.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 9:23 am to Ssubba
How are her bj skills?
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