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re: Am I just getting older or does it feel like society is collapsing?

Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:04 am to
Posted by TejasHorn
High Plains Driftin'
Member since Mar 2007
11612 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:04 am to
Get off the internet/social media and news roller coaster for a while.

The whole business model is based on fear and anxiety.
Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
6051 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:05 am to
Things are not trending in a particular positive direction, but the collapse isn't nearly as pronounced if you stop consuming social media and cable news.
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
5326 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:05 am to
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Politically, my dad thought that Bill Clinton was the antichrist. In retrospect, most of his policies would make him borderline far right.



Bill Clinton was an almost carbon copy of Ronald W. Reagan, politically.. both hardcore centrists, one leaned slightly left and the other slightly right .. RWR would be kicked out of today’s Maga party and labeled a “RINO .”
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60623 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:06 am to
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Get off the internet/social media and news roller coaster for a while.
this is implying that everything he’s saying isn’t real and isn’t visible in the real world. It is.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
29530 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:10 am to
The Fake News reporting Gloom and Doom 24/7 plus the internet.

It's the Democrats strategy to keep everyone divided, scared and pissed off.

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Posted by Baers Foot
Louisiana Ragin' Cajuns
Member since Dec 2011
3913 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:13 am to
To stabilize it will take regulating and restricting social media (and banning shite like OF and prediction markets) like the chicoms are doing, but that puts us in an existential conundrum with our beliefs as a country.

But we already gave away our freedoms for airport pat downs and warrantless surveillance, so who knows what else we'll be willing to let the government do. I guess whatever social media algorithms tell us to do.
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
14042 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:14 am to
OP is right---the decline is very real.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87305 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:14 am to
I think M-F dynamics are front and center in all of this. Young men are pushed to replace real M-F chasing and relationships with terrible, fake stuff. And those with the abilities to chase high value women are chasing influencers 75% of the time. Granted, I'm not in this space, but based on observing younger relatives it certainly seems like that.

I think men bankrupting the influencer culture would be a way to do this from the M side of the equation. OF gets the attention, but it's way bigger than that. Most girls aren't on OF, but most are preening for attention on some socials. Some will say it's for female approval/gaze (and I think that's partly true), but I think that dies out quickly if men stop playing their part in it.

But realistically, they probably won't. Which makes me think this dynamic, which is upstream from a lot of the other stuff that we claim is a societal ill - won't change until women determine that none of this is making them happy (and of course, it isn't).
Posted by UltimaParadox
North Carolina
Member since Nov 2008
52522 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:16 am to
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Get off the internet/social media and news roller coaster for a while.

The whole business model is based on fear and anxiety


This right here, society isn't collapsing. You are addicted to the news cycle.

Everyone else is living their life, you should try it sometime. Stop worrying about everyone else
This post was edited on 5/12/26 at 9:16 am
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87305 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:17 am to
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Whether or not its evolving in a positive way or negative way depends on one's perspective and the aspect your are observing. Every generation thinks the generation behind it is doomed and the world is turning to shite. Been that way since day one. Yet here we still are.



This is partly true. But I'm not aware of any historical precedent for what we're seeing on birth rates, and even more than that, the affirmative decisions by people that they don't want to have kids. We have no idea what that looks like in 10/20/30 years.

Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
59154 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:17 am to
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I’m 42

quote:

does it feel like society is collapsing?

This is what happens when boomers like you vote for unlimited immigration, welfare, food stamps etc


Luckily millenials are about to take over and fix everything
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
68296 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:18 am to
Somebody posted a video on here a couple of months ago of how people met their partners through history. It's mostly online now. I don't think that is good for society, but if it helps people meet someone more easily, maybe I'm wrong. But, it was already difficult for a regular baw just to compete with other guys locally for women. How does that baw stand a chance now when that girl is getting barraged every day on social media and dating sites?
Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
6051 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:19 am to
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this is implying that everything he’s saying isn’t real and isn’t visible in the real world. It is.


No it isn't. It's saying that 80 million more people in the country than 30 years ago + social media = a perception everything is falling apart across the nation at an alarming rate when in reality, it's just more observable.
Posted by littleavery1948
Member since Oct 2014
6000 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:21 am to
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To stabilize it will take regulating and restricting social media (and banning shite like OF and prediction markets) like the chicoms are doing, but that puts us in an existential conundrum with our beliefs as a country.

But we already gave away our freedoms for airport pat downs and warrantless surveillance, so who knows what else we'll be willing to let the government do. I guess whatever social media algorithms tell us to do.



COVID lockdowns are a prime example of a) how people are quick to obey without questioning, and b) how fast it can come

Fortunately, here in America, we are not yet at the stage where the Government can completely lock us down like China/North Korea. You can go from suggestion (you should), to shaming (you're evil if), to fear, to coercion (you're going to prison, if). We have not yet reached Coercion stage, and when we do, it will get ugly. The Mark of the Beast will be the ultimate coercion.

Posted by ScottFowler
NE Ohio
Member since Sep 2012
4710 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:23 am to
The whole Forth Turning theory looks to be pretty credible right now.

Going off of that, It started with the crash in 08.
Takes about 2 decades to get through a "turning" time period.
Hopefully we can get through with a minimum of lives lost.

And, right now, looks like the Dollar will stay the global reserve currency.
So, for the USA, another good to great eighty years.
Europe on the other hand....
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87305 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:26 am to
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Somebody posted a video on here a couple of months ago of how people met their partners through history. It's mostly online now. I don't think that is good for society, but if it helps people meet someone more easily, maybe I'm wrong. But, it was already difficult for a regular baw just to compete with other guys locally for women. How does that baw stand a chance now when that girl is getting barraged every day on social media and dating sites?



Yeah, there are all sorts of pretty neutral points like this that aren't incendiary or alarmist or whatever but point to a fundamentally changed world with pretty obvious on the ground impacts for regular people.

Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60623 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:26 am to
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No it isn't. It's saying that 80 million more people in the country than 30 years ago + social media = a perception everything is falling apart across the nation at an alarming rate when in reality, it's just more observable.
America was 75% white, had a moderate budget deficit and debt, a 25% higher birth rate, and a median home price of about 115k 30 years ago

Things are very very bad. It’s not imagined

ETA - not to mention significantly worse education and acceptance of increasingly deviant behavior
This post was edited on 5/12/26 at 9:29 am
Posted by Bwmdx
Member since Dec 2018
3434 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:27 am to
When u put it that way maybe we are living through the Weimar
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
5192 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:31 am to
Yes. It’s getting worse and evil abounds.
Posted by saltybulldog
MS Gulf Coast
Member since Aug 2007
1157 posts
Posted on 5/12/26 at 9:33 am to
It really is. I started making it at home. Man, the money I save! $10s of dollars a month. Game. Changer.
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