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re: "A surgery isn't birth, my dear"...birth photog shames woman in text exchange

Posted on 3/1/17 at 7:26 am to
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
68235 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 7:26 am to
I had no clue that this was a thing. Women are vile
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49482 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 7:33 am to
Some women can come up with anything to complain about. Whatever it takes to elevate themselves above other women, I guess.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
151528 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 7:36 am to
YEAh this is all new shite to me. How wide spread is this thinking among moms?

Seriously females are ruthless. Even in middle/HS, their might be a few physical bullies with the boys but I remember some of the most savage bullies were females with their games they played shunning others and so on for no reason.
Posted by someLSUdoosh
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2016
893 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 7:37 am to
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she says she's on the verge of shutting down her account

Oh the humanity



"Im gonna do it.....im gonna quit twitter Mr. Mackey"
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49482 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 7:38 am to
If you go back and read through this thread we got into a discussion about it last night. New mommmyhood can be a hazing if you allow yourself to get consumed with the standards some of these internet experts try to hold you to.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 7:41 am to
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New mommmyhood can be a hazing if you allow yourself to get consumed with the standards some of these internet experts try to hold you to.


I bet some of those mommyhood "internet experts" are the same bitches on the wedding forums(I'm looking at you weddingbee bitches). Those bitches were ridiculous. I got banned from there because I dared to have a different opinion than most of those delusional chicks.
Posted by BugAC
St. George
Member since Oct 2007
58277 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:04 am to
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From the class that I attended with my wife there is a sect of gronala crunchers who would fall into this category. Most of whom also fall in the anti vaccinations, breast feed until kids hit puberty, and family bed groups as well.



My son was delivered via C-section and if not, he would not be alive today. (He's an awesome 2 1/2 year old now) But yes, there is a granola contingent that is obsessed with "natural birth" and "water birth" etc...

We were touring the hospital a few months before the due date and a few granola munchers were asking about the tubs for water birth and non-epidural deliveries
Posted by PeterPeterP
Member since Jan 2013
781 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:09 am to
And she should have responded "A real photographer doesn't judge others decisions, they just shut the frick up and take the picture"
Posted by notbilly
alter
Member since Sep 2015
7242 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:12 am to
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Has to be more to the story, if I'm not mistaken a photographer can't be in the OR.



At Womans Hospital in BR the mom can invite 2 people in the OR with her. For my child's birth it was me and my mother in law. We could have nixed the mother in law for a photographer.
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:19 am to
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Thoughts on the situation?


Why does anyone outside of the mom and the photographer know about or give a shite about this story?

Do you know how many photographers there are? Just call another one and move on with your life.
Posted by notbilly
alter
Member since Sep 2015
7242 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:19 am to
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Those breastfeeding Nazis at LaLeche League brainwash those poor women to think that they are horrible humans if they dare give formula.



Just quoting this b/c I think it is worth repeating.
Posted by BulldogXero
Member since Oct 2011
10379 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:27 am to
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Lost in all this is the fact that it's stupid to have a photographer in the delivery room.


My mom would have died if there was someone I there taking photos of her.

You know these days though the photos they take minutes after the baby comes out will be all over Facebook. Blows my mind
Posted by bmy
Nashville
Member since Oct 2007
48203 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:31 am to
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I don't have children, not even married yet so still a few years away from that. But I had no idea this was even a "thing". Is this really something that some women are taking sides on? Why does it matter?


Some women (conservatives or weird holistic hippy types) are fricking obsessed with making motherhood a "career"
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86686 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:34 am to
My wife has a friend that is one of these "c sections" are cheating people

I had never heard of it till my wife showed me one of her FB rants

My wife had a C section because our daughter was Frank breech

Mom's, especially new moms, are the most judgmental people on the planet.

No matter what you do as a parent, there will be someone out there that thinks you are awful for doing it and that their way is better and that they love their kids more.
This post was edited on 3/1/17 at 8:59 am
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11967 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:44 am to
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If not for a c section I would be dead, as would my vibrant, insane three year old.




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Oh and and guess what else? I give my child formula. :GASP:




You rock
Posted by BloodSweat&Beers
One Particular Harbor, Fl
Member since Jan 2012
9153 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:45 am to
Bitches be crazy
Posted by VaBamaMan
North AL
Member since Apr 2013
8329 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:49 am to
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hoo-ha


My 7 and 6 yr old nieces started referring to my toddler's peen as a "hangy hoo-ha" without any input from adults.


More on topic, c-section saved me, my sister, both of my nieces, and my son. Anyone who badmouths women who had one, can go suck a giant donkey dick. I didn't know this was a thing, and it pisses me off that it is.
This post was edited on 3/1/17 at 8:50 am
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
89369 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:50 am to
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You know these days though the photos they take minutes after the baby comes out will be all over Facebook. Blows my mind



Is there an issue here? I have pictures of my daughter with her cord still attached, and then got pictures of me cutting the cord. Sharing those is some sort of bad thing now?
That sounds awfully judgmental, kind of like the photographer OP is about.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:58 am to
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Sharing those is some sort of bad thing now?


Duh.

Cracks me up when people are bothered that people share photos of their children.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 3/1/17 at 8:58 am to
Women are the worst.
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