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3 kids vs 2?

Posted on 2/12/19 at 7:58 am
Posted by GeneralLee
Member since Aug 2004
13104 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 7:58 am
We have 2 kids, 1 boy and 1 girl, and I always thought I wanted to stop at 2 kids. For those of you who took the leap to have more than 2 kids, was it worth it or did you life become too crazy? I am worried about getting overwhelmed from being outnumbered as parents, less time on the back end to enjoy retirement, etc. But, on the flip side, we enjoy our kids so much, I do worry if we stop with two that I'll always feel some regret/guilt about not having another rugrat running around.
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26776 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 7:59 am to
You have to switch to zone coverage from the man-to-man.
Posted by Zanzibaw
BR
Member since Jun 2016
2947 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 7:59 am to
quote:

3 kids vs 2?


3 kids would probably win since they have the 2 kids out manned
Posted by TrueTiger
Chicken's most valuable
Member since Sep 2004
67910 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:01 am to
You just have to switch from 'man' to zone defense.
Posted by doubleh
Avoyelles
Member since Mar 2018
529 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:01 am to
As of last Wednesday I went from 1 kid to 3. I’m nervous for future...
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32537 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:01 am to
I've heard that 3 is the cliff. Once you have 3, you can have 5 just as easy. Man vs zone.

We stopped at one, box and 1
This post was edited on 2/12/19 at 8:02 am
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:01 am to
So the shifty one is going to start getting 12 yards at a time?
Posted by GeneralLee
Member since Aug 2004
13104 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:01 am to
That's the problem, I've always believed in man defenses vs zone.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83571 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:01 am to
quote:

I do worry if we stop with two that I'll always feel some regret/guilt about not having another rugrat running around.


you gotta stop at some point
Posted by phutureisyic
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2016
3370 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:04 am to
If my parents stopped at 2, I wouldn't be here.
Posted by NOFOX
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2014
9944 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:05 am to
Go for it. If you are thinking about it now and don’t, you will regret it later. Kids are awesome and will keep you young.
Posted by DuckManiak
Member since Nov 2011
3732 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:11 am to
My dad traveled quite a bit for work when I was younger, and I was a surprise 3rd boy 13 months younger than my middle brother and 5 years younger than the oldest. We put my mom through the ringer quite a few times, but she handled it like a champ. We’d often get the ‘post week of incident whipping’ when my dad got home, though.

That being said, I’m adamant about only having 2.
Posted by STEVED00
Member since May 2007
22376 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:13 am to
3 is definitely harder than 2. Basically you have to switch from a man to man coverage to zone.

That being said, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Watching them interact together is amazing. Plus if you have a desire for more kids then do it. I think u will regret it later on in life if u don’t try.

Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5159 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:14 am to
I have 4. 18,14,5,and 3. My situation is easier because the older can help with the younger. Just keep in mind, everything becomes extremely expensive the more you have. All of us to Disney World is $600/day just for tickets. Stay at a hotel, either need a 2 bedroom suite or two different rooms. Between school tuition and daycare, we're spending a small fortune every month. My 2nd wife is 10 year younger than I and wants another. It ain't happening.
Posted by TOSOV
Member since Jan 2016
8922 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:15 am to
Let it roll man, and let God decide. Deep down you want another, so just prep for what it takes.

How old are the others?

Disclaimer...Im the baby of 3. Pretty much 2 yrs apart from each other. Bro 4yrs, sis 2 yrs older. So yeah I was an "accident" to them, but a miracle to my mom. Ha
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69078 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:15 am to
Odd numbers mess you up on vacations. If you have three, stop at four.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20447 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:19 am to
My 3rd is still in diapers so maybe it hasn’t hit me yet, but the hardest was 1 to 2 kids. With 1 kid you only need one parent around and they can easily handle the kid. The other is free to go shopping, fishing, night out, etc. and the parent watching is fine. With 2 kids, after 3 or 4 hours the parent by themself is worn out and ready for a sit on the bench. 3 kids is the same it just happens a little faster, and you basically just get used to being worn out non stop.

So outside of the money which honestly is negligible if you don’t let it bother you, I think 3 kids is great.
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
30290 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:25 am to
2 to 3 is much easier than 1 to 2.
Posted by Restomod
Member since Mar 2012
13493 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:26 am to
You'll have no help over the top... God have mercy on your soul.
This post was edited on 2/12/19 at 9:00 am
Posted by vistajay
Member since Oct 2012
2496 posts
Posted on 2/12/19 at 8:29 am to
We thought we'd stop at 2 as well. The jump from 1 to 2 I thought was hard because instead of one parent getting a break every once in a while, both parents were working more with 2 kids. The jump from 2 to 3 was not so bad, in comparison. Our third child has been a blessing.
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