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Scenario: If you were dating a girl for <1 year, got her pregnant- Would you marry?
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:14 am
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:14 am
Assuming that you thought it through and decided that you wouldn't mind marrying her in the first place?
If you didn't see yourself wanting to marry her, would you do it anyways or is that like shooting yourself in the foot twice?
If you didn't see yourself wanting to marry her, would you do it anyways or is that like shooting yourself in the foot twice?
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Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:15 am to poncho villa
How hot?
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:15 am to poncho villa
Unless you want to raise a bastard, yes.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:16 am to poncho villa
Why would you date someone a year you wouldn’t want to eventually marry?
ETA: I don’t understand dating just to date. Date because you like the long term future, or move on. With tinder and social media there’s never been a time easier to meet and frick the opposite sex. If you aren’t with someone you enjoy why wouldn’t you move on?
ETA: I don’t understand dating just to date. Date because you like the long term future, or move on. With tinder and social media there’s never been a time easier to meet and frick the opposite sex. If you aren’t with someone you enjoy why wouldn’t you move on?
This post was edited on 7/6/21 at 8:19 am
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:17 am to poncho villa
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This post was edited on 12/18/21 at 10:09 am
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:17 am to poncho villa
Congrats on the sex, and the sex trophy
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:17 am to poncho villa
Congrats Baw
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:18 am to poncho villa
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Scenario: If you were dating a girl for <1 year, got her pregnant- Would you marry?
Assuming that you thought it through and decided that you wouldn't mind marrying her in the first place?
If you didn't see yourself wanting to marry her, would you do it anyways or is that like shooting yourself in the foot twice?
I did the military cliche of getting married too young and knocking her up
It gave me two wonderful sons but one HORRIBLE marriage. We stuck it out until age 30 then divorced.
The military indirectly incentivizes you to get married. More pay, better housing, and healthcare for spouses. Knock a girl up and it's easy to see marriage as a solution
This post was edited on 7/6/21 at 8:19 am
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:18 am to poncho villa
OP's pullout game is weak. But seriously, there's not enough information to make a decision. Less than a year, maybe yes, maybe no, it depends on the girl.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:18 am to poncho villa
Absolutely not. Everyone knows you can only marry someone if you have been dating for at least 12 months!
What kind of dumb question is this?
What kind of dumb question is this?
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:18 am to poncho villa
Regardless of the reason, if you marry someone you've known less than a year then you're marrying someone you don't really know, and that is a bad idea.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:18 am to poncho villa
People who say no in this situation are the reason the US is crippled by baby mamas on welfare and kids growing up without dads. Actions have consequences.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:18 am to poncho villa
Congrats on the sex baw
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:20 am to poncho villa
I would have coated up and avoided that, but here we are. I guess most people just don't use condoms anymore. You hear about this all the time these days.
This post was edited on 7/6/21 at 8:22 am
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:21 am to poncho villa
If I thought it was heading that way anyway, yes. Still a risk 1 year in but it's your fault and making a nice girl into a single mom has the potential to impact her future prospects more than yours.
I'm sure most of us know decently educated single moms from decent families who aren't struggling financially, but who end up in a cycle of woe-is-me attention whoring and desperation, which is almost impossible to pull out of and find a decent husband and start a normal family. Watching it develop on social media in real time is pretty depressing.
I'm sure most of us know decently educated single moms from decent families who aren't struggling financially, but who end up in a cycle of woe-is-me attention whoring and desperation, which is almost impossible to pull out of and find a decent husband and start a normal family. Watching it develop on social media in real time is pretty depressing.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:23 am to poncho villa
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Would you marry?
Maybe eventually but not just because she got pregnant. This isn't the 1950's anymore.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:24 am to poncho villa
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decided that you wouldn't mind marrying her in the first place
I laughed
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:26 am to poncho villa
If you've been dating that long, you know she's marriage material. Suck it up and do the right thing.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:27 am to poncho villa
Offer to pay for the abortion. If I'm dating someone for any length of time, we'd likely be in agreement that we never want to have kids.
Posted on 7/6/21 at 8:30 am to poncho villa
Absolutely fricking not.
Co-parenting is easy. I do it now.
I know what it’s like to have a woman say she is done and just not want to be married anymore.
Guess why? I lost half my shite and laid out way more than that in the end.
So shite no. I would have much rather had to do the court thing to make sure i got my 50/50 custody long before i ever gave a woman shite she didn’t deserve just cause she continued breathing
Co-parenting is easy. I do it now.
I know what it’s like to have a woman say she is done and just not want to be married anymore.
Guess why? I lost half my shite and laid out way more than that in the end.
So shite no. I would have much rather had to do the court thing to make sure i got my 50/50 custody long before i ever gave a woman shite she didn’t deserve just cause she continued breathing
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