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Older black women who treat you like one of their children

Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:20 pm
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27480 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:20 pm
Is this common outside of the south?

I was out riding today and managed a sunburn from the knee down.

At three separate gas stations an older black lady told me I should really get some sunblock on that.

I'm curious if this sort of behavior exists outside of the South?

These women always seem to set aside whatever the issues and differences of the day are and act in a maternal fashion.
This post was edited on 5/7/17 at 10:21 pm
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
21953 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:21 pm to
Sunblock won't do shite for a sunburn.
Posted by MykTide
Member since Jul 2012
25501 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:22 pm to
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At three separate gas stations an older black lady told me I should really get some sunblock on that.



Should have told that bitch to stop stalking you.

Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11256 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:23 pm to
Not really as common outside of the south, in my experience.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114040 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:24 pm to
If you go to a black family's house (for the most party, not every black family), they will treat you like family. I go visit an older black guy from time to time and when I go over, his wife makes sure I get something to eat, etc, etc.

I am not sure if it is a southern thing or not, more than likely, but I know what you mean.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124562 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:25 pm to
Holdovers from a mammy complex?

Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
65934 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:26 pm to

Old ladies in general are awesome.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:27 pm to
Man I have 4 older lady black neighbors and every single day at least one of them are tying to baby me in one way or another. It's pretty awesome how maternal they are. I probably get 5 random hugs a week from them just because we happen to be walking outside on the block at the same time.

I can sometimes smell food and it never fails someone is looking out their window for me to come home and running outside to offer me some soul food.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:27 pm to
Telling you to put on sunblock is treating you like one of her children? Interdasting.
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
Member since Jun 2016
5823 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:28 pm to
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This post was edited on 5/7/17 at 10:38 pm
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69196 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:31 pm to
Old black ladies have been raising white kids in the south for a long time now.

Posted by rsbd
banks of the Mississippi
Member since Jan 2007
22177 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:38 pm to
Oh my baby, Heard it a thousand times
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:39 pm to
Posted by mahdragonz
Member since Jun 2013
6946 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:45 pm to
quote:


These women always seem to set aside whatever the issues and differences of the day are and act in a maternal fashion.


You seem like the low information dude.

How the flip do you know they had it in the first place and are setting it aside?

Weak.
This post was edited on 5/7/17 at 10:46 pm
Posted by Kcrad
Diamondhead
Member since Nov 2010
55028 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:50 pm to
Rando.

Blood is thicker than water.

It's sad, but true.
Posted by Twenty 49
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2014
18812 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 10:51 pm to
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Older black women who treat you like one of their children


Yep. I was talking to one the other day, and she tried to whip me with an extension cord.
Posted by MrCoachKlein
Member since Sep 2010
10302 posts
Posted on 5/7/17 at 11:49 pm to
Yes.

Lady who practically raised me was one in a million. Parents had to tell me it wasn't ok to chase her car down the driveway, crying, when she left in the afternoons. I was probably 5 then, fast forward 15 years, I was back from school during christmas break and an old lady who could barely walk approached me in a restaurant and said, "baby, are you so and so." Told her yes ma'am, she proceeded to hug me and tell me she was moving Texas the next day- couldn't believe it. Tears ensued.

The big man has a great sense of humor
Posted by Cali-to-Death Valley
SF Bay Area
Member since Dec 2004
747 posts
Posted on 5/8/17 at 12:15 am to
The same goes for out here in California. Older Black folks and their families will take you in like you're their own.

35 years ago my work partner who is Black took me home to meet his parents. They instantly took me in as if I had been born into their family. In short time this included his extended family, cousins, aunties and uncles.

When I got married, they included my wife and when we had children, them too and now my grandchildren. Come to think of it though, his family has its roots in Texas and Mississippi. Maybe it is a Southern thing.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76541 posts
Posted on 5/8/17 at 12:36 am to
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Older black women who treat you like one of their children

I love it. And I tell you, their hugs are magic.
Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
43667 posts
Posted on 5/8/17 at 2:20 am to
Black women are the mothers of the earth.
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