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re: ex wife keeping my kids need court to make her stop i guess
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:42 am to FLBooGoTigs1
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:42 am to FLBooGoTigs1
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Mud Hog
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FLBooGoTigs1
Same alter?
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:46 am to Mud Hog
Get a lawyer.
And you, and everyone else who decides to post information regarding private/legal situations, should take Scruffy's advice.
Don't post your personal shite/legal crap on a public forum.
Have people still not learned that this stuff can come back to haunt you?
And you, and everyone else who decides to post information regarding private/legal situations, should take Scruffy's advice.
Don't post your personal shite/legal crap on a public forum.
Have people still not learned that this stuff can come back to haunt you?
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:47 am to uveitis
Nah
FLBOO is a much better poster
FLBOO is a much better poster
Posted on 12/12/14 at 3:56 am to LSUGrrrl
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No way around it. Get an attorney.
This. I believe the go to in the Ascension area is Stephanie something? Maybe someone here can post the full name for the op.
Other good advice in this thread is to start recording conversations and mind your p's and q's. All this being said, you have young girls. Until your ex stops being a count, the road going forward won't be easy no matter what you do.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 4:26 am to Mud Hog
You need her to be dealt with? Just say the word baw.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 5:05 am to Murray
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This. I believe the go to in the Ascension area is Stephanie something? Maybe someone here can post the full name for the op.
Stephanie Wall Schexnayder. I've seen the results her work from both sides (men and women) and she's worth every penny.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:09 am to Mud Hog
Two pages and nobody said kill her? You guys are getting soft
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:19 am to lsu480
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Get your kids taken when you don't have $ for a great lawyer and see how coherent you are....just saying. I feel for this dude.
It was hard as hell for me to stay sober and go to work 5 days a week much less make a coherent statement when my ex was doing the very same thing in june 2011. It's got to be the second sickest feeling in the world to having a kid kidnapped by a stranger.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:29 am to Mud Hog
ok just got off work thanks but sorry not using a lawyer swore them off after had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced.
im gonna start writing down everytime she wont do what shes supposed to do and see if i can blackmail her with it i guess or maybe take it to the judge and give it to him either way shes sneaky and can be a real b*** you know how the exes are lol
other problem is her boyfriend coming over and i know the guy lives there with her. dont know what the guy does or if he even has a job if i see him over there im probly gonna just end up whippin his arse lol
im gonna start writing down everytime she wont do what shes supposed to do and see if i can blackmail her with it i guess or maybe take it to the judge and give it to him either way shes sneaky and can be a real b*** you know how the exes are lol
other problem is her boyfriend coming over and i know the guy lives there with her. dont know what the guy does or if he even has a job if i see him over there im probly gonna just end up whippin his arse lol
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:31 am to Mud Hog
Get your custody arrangement in writing or else you're fricked.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:32 am to Mud Hog
It's sad to see how adults use their children as pawns to hurt their ex-spouses.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:36 am to Mud Hog
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other problem is her boyfriend coming over and i know the guy lives there with her. dont know what the guy does or if he even has a job if i see him over there im probly gonna just end up whippin his arse lol
Get some pics/footage of him there past kids' bedtime/leaving in the morning.
If you're not going to get lawyer now, keep records of EVERYTHING. If she texts you that you can get them today and then crawfishes, keep time stamped screen shots and print them.
Only thing you can do is file for visitation/custody orders. Those are binding and enforceable. You would just need your copy and call a sheriffs deputy to go over there and get your kids when it's your time. If she's not there/runs off with them, she's in contempt and can go to jail. Problem Solved.
I'm not sure of the forms you need but google it or go visit the courthouse and be humble with the employees and ask nicely for assistance on what to file.
This post was edited on 12/12/14 at 6:37 am
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:53 am to Mud Hog
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sorry not using a lawyer swore them off after had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced
Then continue bitching and watch as your ex wife completely owns you and your kids.
This post was edited on 12/12/14 at 6:54 am
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:54 am to Mud Hog
quote:Do you want to see your kids regularly or not?
thanks but sorry not using a lawyer swore them off after had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced
Seems simple. If yes, get a lawyer.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:59 am to Mud Hog
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ok just got off work thanks but sorry not using a lawyer swore them off after had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced.
Well, this is one custody battle that's lost before it even started.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:59 am to Mud Hog
Holy crap I am not reading that stuff. It's funny that my son in kindergarten has a better grasp on grammar than the OP.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 7:01 am to Mud Hog
The court order has specific rules that you two are supposed to adhere to. Start creating a documentation trail for the times when she breaks the rules. A lawyer probably won't help much until you've got documentation. Try to communicate through text or email as much as possible and avoid voice calls if you can.
Before you escalate to a lawyer, make sure you are in compliance with the court order because she might try to fight back. You need to be up to date on child support, address change notifications, etc.
Whatever you do, keep the well-being of the kids as the top priority.
Before you escalate to a lawyer, make sure you are in compliance with the court order because she might try to fight back. You need to be up to date on child support, address change notifications, etc.
Whatever you do, keep the well-being of the kids as the top priority.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 7:16 am to Mud Hog
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dont want to get lawyers involved (last one fricked me over)
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had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced.
if paying a lawyer $800 for representing you in a divorce is "fricking you over" then you're clueless.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 7:19 am to piratedude
Prolly $300 in court costs, plus $500 for a divorce. Wow, that lawyer may retire on his riches.
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