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re: Your 9 year old son steals money out of your wallet

Posted on 11/3/20 at 10:57 am to
Posted by TallMan
Member since Jul 2014
360 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 10:57 am to
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Do it, and thank us later.

A few minutes in time-out won't fix it.

Let him know you mean business and aren't fricking around.


quote:

Let him keep the 100, then work him like a dog for a month straight.


I forgot to add. At the end, take the 100 back.

That way he understands that theft sucks.


Man this is a tough call. You've got one suggestion saying you should teach him that stealing is wrong by teaching him about the value of money, showing him how much hard work it takes to earn money and how much it sucks to have your money stolen after that hard work. Thus, he wouldn't steal in the future because he sees how unfair it is. Conversely, you've got another suggestion saying you should teach him that stealing is wrong by beating his arse, showing him that since he's small he shouldn't steal because he'll feel pain. Thus, he won't steal for the next couple years, until he's big enough to not be scared of his old man, at which point he'll revert to being a delinquent because he only learned that stealing is wrong because he might get in trouble for it. Real tough decision here.

The lack of critical thinking some of y'all display is absolutely fascinating. But obviously y'all were raised not to think, so it makes sense.
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
62099 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 10:59 am to
Have him run for Governor
Posted by CHiPs25
ATL
Member since Apr 2014
2904 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:00 am to
It's already been said, but make him work off that $100. That $100 value is actually $130 when you consider taxes were already taken out of it, so he needs to work off $130. While he is working his tail off, you have the 7 year-old sitting in the yard watching him so he also understands the value of money and what will happen if he tries to steal from you or anyone. Any then, you need to get your wife and PIIHB for birthing such a shitty kid.
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
12511 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:00 am to
Don’t do anything, and at Christmas when he doesn’t get any presents, tell him someone stole the money he had to pay Santa for them. Hopefully that won’t happen again next year.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Member since Feb 2008
18737 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:09 am to
My house? He would be making big rocks into small rocks and other manual labor at a rate of $1 per hour. 100 hours of hard labor will correct that.

Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42347 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:12 am to
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The lack of critical thinking some of y'all display is absolutely fascinating. But obviously y'all were raised not to think, so it makes sense.


So what is your suggestion?
Posted by TallMan
Member since Jul 2014
360 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:15 am to
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So what is your suggestion?


Reading comprehension ain't so hot either, apparently.

quote:

Let him keep the 100, then work him like a dog for a month straight.


I forgot to add. At the end, take the 100 back.

That way he understands that theft sucks.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:15 am to
You need to find out as to why he took it and if he really needs money. If the later, put him to work around the house to earn money. Teach him what a dollar is.
Posted by CatfishJohn
Member since Jun 2020
13710 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:15 am to
quote:

Let him keep the 100, then work him like a dog for a month straight.


I forgot to add. At the end, take the 100 back.

That way he understands that theft sucks.



This is a great idea.

This is how you create empathy. Let him earn the $100 the hard way with manual labor then take it from him and ask him how it feels. Then buy him an ice cream cone and tell you love him.


Posted by C
Houston
Member since Dec 2007
27832 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:15 am to
I stole a check from my mom about that age. It happens
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
22190 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:18 am to
Uhhh sounds like a kid just bragging to his brother, not actual theft. Maybe you should re-evaluate your response, baw.
Posted by hometownhero89
Center of the Earth
Member since Aug 2007
1593 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:19 am to
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Have him run for Governor


If that is the case, have him blame COVID for stealing the 100 dollars, then lock the house down until the government sends your house another stimmy.

If he has any interesting takes during the process, then sign him up, it can only be better than the Hand-Out Theater we're living in now.
Posted by BugAC
St. George
Member since Oct 2007
52919 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:23 am to
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It's already been said, but make him work off that $100. That $100 value is actually $130 when you consider taxes were already taken out of it, so he needs to work off $130.


I'd assume $5.25/hr minimum wage (when i was a kid) and for $130, that's 25 hours. So make him work for 25 hours. When he's done, teach him this is what $130 was worth when i was your age. Then take back the $100 and tell him stealing is never right, and there are consequences for your actions.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42347 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:26 am to
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Reading comprehension ain't so hot either, apparently.


Where in your post do you say which suggestion you agree with?
Posted by td1
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2015
2840 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:31 am to
I always keep 20s, 100s are too hard to break anywhere.

Both need to be disciplined. Child number one for stealing, and child number two for snitching instead of convincing his brother to do the right thing and put the money back.

Two life lessons in one grounding.

Before you do that, start lifting things they like from their room when they are not there. See how long it takes for them to realize their shite is missing. Then hit them with the life lesson and grounding.
Posted by Athos
Member since Sep 2016
11878 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:40 am to
You could spank him, like a dumbass...

Or, choose the route that isn’t lazy and explain just theft is wrong. To hammer it home, steal his toy/tech device for a week.
Posted by The Nino
Member since Jan 2010
21524 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:44 am to
quote:

Let him keep the 100, then work him like a dog for a month straight.


I forgot to add. At the end, take the 100 back.

That way he understands that theft sucks.
I really like this. Bookmarking in my TD parental guidance folder
Posted by double d
Amarillo by morning
Member since Jun 2004
16451 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:44 am to
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Man, I am this close to spanking his arse


Would have made him learn a lesson, you are too soft.
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:45 am to
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This is how you create empathy. Let him earn the $100 the hard way with manual labor then take it from him and ask him how it feels. Then buy him an ice cream cone and tell you love him.

This is a metaphor for how taxation works.
Posted by DuckManiak
Member since Nov 2011
3733 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 11:48 am to
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I stole a check from my mom about that age. It happens

My ex’s little brother was around 9 and took one of his dad’s business checks and wrote it out to a sum of 1 trillion dollars. The house keeper found it behind his bed. He even endorsed it to himself and signed it “dad”
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