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re: Would you reach out to your son’s friend’s parents after something like this?

Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:32 pm to
Posted by ChineseBandit58
Pearland, TX
Member since Aug 2005
47808 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:32 pm to
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Take your son to a movie, mini-golf, the batting cage, or bowling and make a day out of it that he'll remember.

Don't try to get him a pity-invite to a party he wasn't invited to. He and you will regret it in the long run

great advice -

Cannot imagine the thought of begging for an invite to anything at all.

And it is inconceivable I'd broadcast my concern about it.
Posted by dupergreenie
Member since May 2014
8965 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:32 pm to
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Don't bitch and moan to another parent... That is plain silly.
I can't even fathom how someone could even think this is an option.... I'm dumbfounded

Gen X parenting is completely ruining their children


Well when everyone gets a trophy this is what happens....
Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
47122 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:38 pm to
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Exactly


Speak your mind brother, tell us how you would handle a quarrel between teenagers.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
147922 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:43 pm to
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The kid has Celiac disease
fricking celiac?? Neighborhood kids didn't have this soft arse shite back when their only hydration was out of the hose pipe
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
Reseda
Member since Feb 2007
19686 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:45 pm to
No
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
18678 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:47 pm to
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Let the kids figure it out

For real. I doubt the other kids parents even know.
Tell your boy to find new friends
Posted by redfish99
B.R.
Member since Aug 2007
18639 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:50 pm to
one of my son’s best friends


He ain’t that in to him……
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
34836 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:50 pm to
That sucks. My son lost his friend group in middle school and it hurt him but it led him to producing music and it was ultimately a blessing.

He recently lost his girlfriend and that was difficult but after a couple weeks he’s better than ever.

Watching your kids hurt is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do but it’s necessary for them to become adults.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72607 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:50 pm to
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I feel like reaching out to the dad is appropriate.
I feel like you aren’t equipped to properly raise a child to survive in the world.

Move on, take the kid to a movie or go on a hike or some other thing y’all can enjoy together.

Control what you can control and teach him the same lesson.
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13099 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:51 pm to
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My son has experienced some social issues off and on at school, and the neighborhood has always been a safe place


Your answer is here I feel like
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
10471 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:53 pm to
My heart breaks for your kid. Terrible. I truly am sorry.

But that’s life and a life lesson he can learn from. No, you don’t invite yourself to a party.

There’s a reason your son wasn’t invited.

What’s the reason? It could be anything from him being the problem in the way he treats the other kid or as simple as the other kid doesn’t know him well or even the parents could only afford paint ball for a certain number kids.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
40154 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:54 pm to
Holy helicopter parenting Batman…
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
99972 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 8:58 pm to
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My wife says not to contact them. She thinks their mom might be a narcissist and get off this kind of stuff.


Listen to your wife


Take your son to do something awesome that day and post it all over social media
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
33105 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 9:00 pm to
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have some father son time doing something he... has never done before.
Even better take him to do something that none of the neighborhood kids have done.

I see you're an Auburn fan.

Take him to an Auburn Hoops game.
Take him to Toomers for a shake.
Take him to the Auburn Raptor Center. (appt. only)
If you have a dog, take him to Kiesel Park.
If they are playing, take him to an Auburn baseball game.

Just do something meaningful with him.
Posted by WhoDatNC
NC
Member since Dec 2013
13849 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 9:01 pm to
Make it an issue and neither one of you will be invited to anything from now on.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72607 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 9:04 pm to
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My wife says
We are going to need pics, you know the rules and so do I.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82644 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 9:04 pm to
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For real. I doubt the other kids parents even know.


That, or it very well may have been their own decision and not anything deeper.

I remember we had this one whiny kid around (just took a longer time to mature and remained soft/babified for longer than everyone else), and my parents never liked him to come around because they couldn't stand being around the whining and crying when we were all past that.

But in realness, it is probably the fact that paintball is $40-$50 per person.
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
10888 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 9:23 pm to
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fricking celiac?? Neighborhood kids didn't have this soft arse shite back when their only hydration was out of the hose pipe

Preach brother. Back in my day even the kid in the iron lung could have beat up these gluten intolerant bitches.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
20343 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 9:27 pm to
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Cannot imagine the thought of begging for an invite to anything at all.


Not once did I claim that’s what the contact would be for. In fact, the OP specifically says that it wouldn’t be for asking for an invite.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
22827 posts
Posted on 1/2/25 at 9:29 pm to
No, I would encourage my son to find other friends
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