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Women don't want to be married, they just want a wedding.

Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:16 pm
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:16 pm
Had this hot take dropped on me today. I think it could very well be true. Still pondering it though.



eta, it was a chick who said this btw.
This post was edited on 3/12/18 at 3:42 pm
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:17 pm to
Most women just like to be the center of attention tbh.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71421 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:17 pm to
The want a ring and title.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71402 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:18 pm to
On a macro level, women have no idea what they want.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52979 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:18 pm to
I went to this "wedding" where 3 chicks that were in their early 30s and spinsters had a mock wedding with some guys from an acting agency. It was pretty sad
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
37811 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:20 pm to
'Woman' is singular. Women notice that sort of thing.
Posted by Jack Daniel
In the bottle
Member since Feb 2013
25462 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:20 pm to
This is very true. The first sign that you shouldn’t marry a woman is if she wants a huge wedding.
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
11435 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:21 pm to
Oh they want to be married. For no other reason than to not be the pathetic single girl.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124210 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:22 pm to
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This is very true. The first sign that you shouldn’t marry a woman is if she wants a huge wedding.



Depends on if her daddy is rich
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:23 pm to
this is true. I have seen it countless times before. Or they feel they need to be married for religious reasons and pop out a lot of catholic babies
Posted by BobLeeDagger
In Your Head
Member since May 2016
6915 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:23 pm to
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On a macro level, women have no idea what they want.


I just spit out my coffee after reading the first two serious answers then scrolling to this gem.
This post was edited on 3/12/18 at 3:25 pm
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52979 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:24 pm to
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Oh they want to be married. For no other reason than to not be the pathetic single girl.

It's always concerning to me when single women act like their job is fulfilling to them. Everyone can tell they are hurting inside and wish they were married
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61257 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:25 pm to
Its not a hot take at all, it's just true.
Posted by LSUDAN1
Member since Oct 2010
8973 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:26 pm to
Crazy arse hoes. That's all they are.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84104 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:27 pm to
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I think it could very well be true


If you hang around trash, sure.
Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
4341 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:27 pm to
quote:

I think it could very well be true. Still pondering it though.


This was completely true in my case. My relationship with my ex-fiance started going downhill as soon as wedding planning began. She got such ridiculous anxiety over this stupid party that I eventually asked her that very thing: "Do you want to be married to me or do you just want a wedding?"
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11228 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:29 pm to
I'd honestly rather cut off a pinky finger than have another wedding. I'm not knocking any woman who does; I just really, really dislike being the center of attention.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113951 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:32 pm to
I think there is truth to this for a lot of women. Think about it. Many of them grow up with adult women talking to them about being princesses and watching movies/shows in which it's all about "that special day". As they grow up and they go to weddings and all the talk is about the bride's dress, flowers, pictures and how her hair was fixed. It's all about having the right colors and who the bride's wedding party will be matched up with the groom's wedding party. And then after the wedding, there is this big celebration centered around her and her groom..

Do you ever see the groom as into the wedding planning as the bride? Sure, there are guys out there who are as involved and might be just as excited, but I am talking about the average situation? The groom is just another piece of the puzzle to the "special celebration". I would be willing to say that half of the divorces in the US could probably be traced back to the fact the bride was eager to have that special day.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79207 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:37 pm to
My wife wanted to "be married" more than she wanted the wedding.

Honestly, her desire to stop saying "boyfriend" as a professional adult may have been a more important motivating factor than anything else, her love for me included.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 3/12/18 at 3:46 pm to
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'Woman' is singular. Women notice that sort of thing


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