re: What do modern women bring to a relationships with men?

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What am I missing?

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Wisdom

100% of the poon

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That’s a valid take and all the more reason that our institutions spending the last decade poking the bear by telling men they’re toxic, racist, sexist etc. without any concern for the truth of that was a bad idea

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It absolutely was and is a bad idea...the same way that our telling girls that they are too pretty to understand math is a horrible idea.

The way we have raised boys for about 130 years is an insult to the nature of men. Boys need education obviously but at 10 years old a boy does not have the ability to sit still and behave in a manner that a woman approves of....and so female teachers berate boys about being boys and the boy soon develops a distaste for education AND women. The problem is exacerbated when boys begin to mature sexually...girls are told by women that becoming a woman is a beautiful thing....it is mostly ignored by men....but boys are told by men and women alike that their becoming men is problematic....when it is unavoidable. They are shamed and publicly humiliated for maturing and even the girls their own age get in on the act....which does nothing but intensify the boys mistrust of females. There is little wonder men hold women in such disdain....our society teaches us we are worthless and for about 50 years now unnecessary and even a problem....so many men change their outward nature while their actual nature lingers just below the surface....its a dangerous dynamic...

The world is much better off with women being independent and equal. That independecne and equality coming at the expense of men is problematic for both because, again, at the end of the day man is capable of physically imposing his will on woman...and will when forced to do so....it happens in many cultures around the world even today and has happened in the past...and women do not do well in those societies...

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What am I missing?

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Class

I guess you only attract sh*t women


I guess I found a diamond.

for me it's frequent sex, constant support, voice of reason, does most of the indoor housekeeping, cooks 4 or 5 nights per week, reminds me of appointments, makes my appointments for me, an extra income, keeps me from becoming completely feral. She's made almost every part of my life better. I guess the only part that isn't better is that I don't hunt or fish as much. This isn't because she complains about how much I do it, it's because I like staying home and being around her.

A second income

You have to find the diamond in the rough. It isn't easy. Good luck.

Same.


Loves the tailgates and the fun...


I've been blessed beyond measure more than once with precious wives.

I see these threads and sincerely feel bad for a lot of guys that evidently haven't been so fortunate.

Well I'm past the having children considerations so here is what the current GF brings to the table:

1. No children. Said she was never involved with anyone she really wanted to have children with;
2. Was a gymnast in high school and in her 40s is a Pilates Master, has a reformer in her home;
3. Everything is tight, see 1 and 2.;
4. Went to work for UPS at 17, put herself through college, retired early from UPS (gets a pension) and has been in software (logistics) sales for a Fortune 10 company long enough to be VP of outside sales. With bonuses and commissions makes north of 300;
5. Has dogs no cats;
6. We travel a lot and split everything down the middle, 300 meal, split it, 2500 ABnB, split it.

Seems made up right? its not. There are women like this all over the place in major cities, met this one on an airplane going to Maine. Here is the catch, you cant be overweight or fat, you have to have money and you have to be educated and/or smart.