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Posted on 5/9/26 at 4:55 pm to Hot Carl
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could argue that a healthy marriage—few and far between as they are now—has to, almost by definition, contain an emotionally healthy man who has displayed an ability to regulate and be in charge of his emotions. Might not that man actually be more likely to put the Church 1st? Though typing this out, I’m not sure how tangible/solid this hierarchy of “putting” we refer to actually means. It’s so abstract and likely very fluid throughout a man’s life.
The job is a calling of self sacrifice and that doesn’t traditionally align with marriage and a family. It’s not meant for just anyone to take on which is why those that fall short need to be held to a standard…. The church should look at expanding their eligibility in my opinion but that’s above my pay grade. When standards in the name of god aren’t met, the public scorn and emotions run hot and that’s the way it has to be if you have the standards in the first place.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 5:11 pm to cajuntiger1010
The story was broken earlier in the week by "the pillar", and the accusations went public even before that.
Here's the original Pillar Article from May 1.
LINK
As someone who came back to the church, this is so frustrating. The fact that Duca could (allegedly) be stupid enough to tell a potential victim NOT to call the police is asinine. If as reported, I would completely support the removal of Duca and Jamin. No confidence.
Here's the original Pillar Article from May 1.
LINK
As someone who came back to the church, this is so frustrating. The fact that Duca could (allegedly) be stupid enough to tell a potential victim NOT to call the police is asinine. If as reported, I would completely support the removal of Duca and Jamin. No confidence.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 5:19 pm to cajuntiger1010
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Wasn’t Father Charbel the priest at Mercy for many years???
Like 2 years and half the time he was recovering from hip surgery.
Handling of this was far from ideal.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 5:22 pm to Hot Carl
quote:when the priest’s wife is in labor and he’s called to give last rites to someone - what should he do?
How could that ever possibly be measured and honestly compared the extra weight of being husband/father?
If the priest’s son is on the travel ball team and throughout the season all the games are scheduled at the same time as Sunday Masses?
A choice has to be made. It’s easier for the priest to not have to make that choice.
quote:don’t we have to suppress our ‘horniness’ as it is? The priests knew this going into the seminary - if they couldn’t handle it then or now - then they need to be reevaluated. (Although some seminaries probably need an overhaul) Most men and women can’t act upon every horny impulse they get, anyway. A married man shouldn’t sleep with every woman they find attractive, nor should married women.
I can’t imagine having to suppress my horniness in those years
The expectations are very similar.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 5:45 pm to TROLA
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I’m no fan of Duca but he bounced this priest within 5 weeks of allegations of having an inappropriate relationship with an adult and im on board with his removal.
He should have removed the accused within 5 minutes. At that point he could investigate at his leisure. Also police should have notified so they too could investigate.
If the allegations were proven false he could be reinstated.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 5:48 pm to Hot Carl
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an emotionally healthy man who has displayed an ability to regulate and be in charge of his emotions. Might not that man actually be more likely to put the Church 1st?
We’re very close with a Catholic priest that was part of the very small group of Episcopal priests that converted in the 90’s. He describes how difficult it is/was to choose between his family obligations and ministering to his Parish.
The day to day stuff (finances & admin) was easy. That’s stuff all men with children manage. It’s the true ministry that complicated things.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 5:53 pm to toratiger
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He should have removed the accused within 5 minutes. At that point he could investigate at his leisure. Also police should have notified so they too could investigate.
If the allegations were proven false he could be reinstated.
It’s tough because it also gives those who want to falsely accuse a priest the opportunity to punish them.
Our HS Chaplin was falsely accused by a shitbag kid at school who was trying to get out of doing mandatory service hours. Thankfully this was pre-social media so the “temporary leave” during the investigation wasn’t that public but it was still embarrassing for the priest when he returned.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:03 pm to STEVED00
The Rule now in the Catholic Church is this: anybody who hears a child make an allegation of any kind of sexual touching by anybody is to respond by immediately calling 911 and reporting the crime of sexual contact with a child. The police will dispatch detectives and the allegations will be investigated by law enforcement.
Apparently in this case, the police investigated and found that no criminal activity occurred.
Apparently in this case, the police investigated and found that no criminal activity occurred.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:04 pm to toratiger
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He should have removed the accused within 5 minutes. At that point he could investigate at his leisure. Also police should have notified so they too could investigate.
You’re relying on this one guys account of what he told Duca. He also didn’t indicate whether he alleged any crimes just ann inappropriate relationship …are you wholeheartedly vouching for the third party hearsay testimony as a reason to immediately ruin a man’s life. If it would’ve involved a relationship with a minor.. yes, remove him immediately and investigate
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:13 pm to UFFan
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Why do priests always target boys?
Tell me you really can't figure this out.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:17 pm to Hot Carl
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He was pretty unique already amongst that group by being a highly successful, respected, and heralded, multi-millionaire college football defensive coordinator with a tremendous amount to lose, no?
I think that's another reason to doubt his guilt. He also was heavily involved with the management of a pretty large charity. "When would he have had time to do all these things?" is a very valid question.
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Well yeah, outliers are rare. That’s why they’re called “outliers.” They lie outside the average or mean. They have to exist in any defined group that’s not completely equal.
Don't over-complicate things. The things about Sandusky that are almost unheard of among pedophiles in general don't prove he isn't one, but they do tend to indicate that. How strong that indication is is debatable, but the fact that these things point in the direction of innocence is not.
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For someone whose argument boils down to “not enough evidence,” you too, did not provide enough evidence in your prosecution of his prosecution. And subsequent conviction. IMO. Mark me as unswayed.
It's hard to sway people on this topic because of the large number of putative victims.
I can tell you that at least three of the eight victims identified by the Commonwealth at trial claimed to have recovered repressed memories. There's no good scientific evidence that people actually do repress memories of sexual abuse. In fact, I remember my own sexual abuse vividly. And how would humanity have survived this long if we did not internalize valuable lessons from situations of great fear or distress, but instead simply forgot them as a coping mechanism?
That still leaves five purported victims. I can go on to tell you that the supposed victim from the "shower incident" maintained that nothing sexual had ever happened with Sandusky throughout his trial, only claiming abuse years later after Sandusky's situation had become hopeless and settlements were being handed out administratively.
Most people can probably be convinced that at least a few of the supposed victims were lying for money, but to really sway someone in a meaningful way, you really have to take apart every one of their stories, and that's very difficult. I don't mean that any of the victims' stories are particularly airtight- none of them are. I just mean that the time and energy it takes to do all that is something most people don't have, at least not for this.
That's why I lean pretty hard on the things I originally mentioned. They don't pertain to any one of the purported victims, but rather to the yes/no question of "is it plausible that Sandusky did the sort of things he is accused of?".
I also think this is a difficult topic because of the emotion people expended on the idea of Sandusky as a monster. Like I said before, I never really went "all in" on that. The whole thing seemed off to me from the start.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:18 pm to Champagne
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Apparently in this case, the police investigated and found that no criminal activity occurred.
That's not what happened. The initial issue was between 2 adults. Duca refused to investigate. Duca did not notify police. Only after the adult victim called the police did Duca start to take action. This was in direct violation of his own/diocese protocols. The adult victim was also allegedly told by the priest of previous underage victims. That's hearsay, but still dictates a separate investigation.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:24 pm to cajuntiger1010
Duca always gave me the ick feeling. Of course he is protecting pedophile priests. Gross.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:28 pm to cajuntiger1010
They need to investigate their Kentucky "missionary of mercy". He flies to luxury places, buys meals for people at Jeff Ruby's and is at all the large sporting events getting his picture on everyone's social media.
I think they need to redefine missionary jobs.
I think they need to redefine missionary jobs.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:30 pm to cajuntiger1010
How does this still happen after the massive scandal of the 2000s? It would be like letting muslims still have access to the cockpit after 9/11.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:30 pm to dragginass
Thanks for the clarification.
The most important point of fact is this: Law Enforcement detectives investigated all matters thoroughly and found no evidence of any criminal activity.
The most important point of fact is this: Law Enforcement detectives investigated all matters thoroughly and found no evidence of any criminal activity.
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:34 pm to Champagne
when are Nuns like this gonna get caught?Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:35 pm to OWLFAN86
Just as soon as my speed training is complete
Posted on 5/9/26 at 6:44 pm to Champagne
The article in the OP is poorly written imo. The Pillar article the OP article mentions gives a lot more context.
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