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Indeed. Sean Mullaney's tax planning book hammers this home. Everyone should read it.

re: Wood Floor Refinishing

Posted by dragginass on 5/16/26 at 3:34 pm to
Willie James Flooring out of Central. Best there is.
The cure for low oil prices is low oil prices. Gas was never going to stay $2 a gallon. Iran accelerated some market dynamics, but oil was always going to climb in 2026.
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I am approaching the scenario from the broader sense of how we can learn


That is entirely different than how you assessed blame previously.

You and I would probably agree on 99% of matters of the church. Let us be intentional with our support of anyone who is brave enough to do the right thing and make reports, no matter how they are made. The victim, in this particular case, went through the effort to make sure the alleged abuser was investigated by law enforcement AND church authorities. He did the right thing, and that's all that matters.
You can legalese yourself into believing the VICTIM Could have responded differently.

He was himself a victim who reported it to church authorities, AND to the police. That he didn't do it on some arbitrary timeline you have created; well that just makes YOU look bad.

Your position is unreasonable for every reason I have already stated.

I am thankful that every lay person I have spoken to about this issue does not share your opinion. Just stop. You are doing more harm than good. We will never drive out the darkness with positions like yours.
I stand by what I said. The victim witnessed no crime, but reported what he heard the Priest say to church authorities. After unsatisfactory response, he called the police. You cannot hold the adult victim to the same standard as church authorities.


You're still wrong, and I still believe your attitude is antithetical to justice, healing, and the betterment of the church.
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I've made my point


And that's the problem. You refusing to place blame squarely on diocesan leadership for failing their own protocols. Assigning ANY blame to victims is unacceptable.

For the non-catholics reading this thread- know that there are good Catholics fighting these fights every day. Champagne's attitude is not prevalent amongst any lay persons I know who are aware of the situation.
Exactly, and in doing so he is just further perpetuating the stereotypes of predators being protected within the church. Victim blaming is asinine, and we will never flush these evil men out of the church with attitudes like his.
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find the criminal's boss and report the crime to that person.


You are being obtuse. It's not a crime to say something, it's a crime to do something. He witnessed no crime involving a minor. He reported everything to church authorities, who have outlined procedures that werent followed. He, being responsible, notified police when he realized church authorities were improperly handling it. Again, stop blaming him for the failure of church leadership. HE CALLED THE POLICE. I don't know why you are so dead set on assigning him blame. This lies squarely on diocesan leadership.


I've gone through the diocese Ethics/Behavior training and background checks, but 99% of the congregation has not. The grown man who was the target of the priest reported everything he knew to church authorities. The church should have handled it from there, and they failed miserably. When he realized they failed, he went directly to the police. Stop blaming him.
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Layman IS OBLIGATED to know protocols


While prudent, I don't see how you can hold a lay person to that standard. He gave the information to a mandatory reporter. You can certainly say it would have also been prudent for him to go directly to the police at that time. Ultimately, he did go directly to the police because Duca failed to act. The lay person was in fact the one who reported it to police.

There is an institution with protocols, and they were not followed. That's 100% on local church leadership, if the story is as reported.
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Lay man is wrong and needs corrective training regarding what to do when you are a witness to a report of a sex crime involving a minor.


No. The "lay man" was the victim of unwanted sexual advances. He's not obligated to know protocols. He reported it to people who know the protocols, and the responsibility lies with them. Don't blame the victim. He wasn't a witness to abuse of a minor, only hearsay from the priest. Again, church authorities were notified, and the responsibility is theirs.
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: Law Enforcement detectives investigated all matters thoroughly and found no evidence of any criminal activity.



I don't know that we know that. If the alleged issues with minors happened elsewhere, even out of the country, those investigations may be ongoing.

Regardless, as a lay person, I would give Duca a vote of no confidence. You cannot ignore your own protocols. Criminal activity or not, you must follow the established procedures. Failure to do so means you're hiding something, or incompetent. Neither is acceptable.
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Apparently in this case, the police investigated and found that no criminal activity occurred.


That's not what happened. The initial issue was between 2 adults. Duca refused to investigate. Duca did not notify police. Only after the adult victim called the police did Duca start to take action. This was in direct violation of his own/diocese protocols. The adult victim was also allegedly told by the priest of previous underage victims. That's hearsay, but still dictates a separate investigation.
The story was broken earlier in the week by "the pillar", and the accusations went public even before that.

Here's the original Pillar Article from May 1.

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As someone who came back to the church, this is so frustrating. The fact that Duca could (allegedly) be stupid enough to tell a potential victim NOT to call the police is asinine. If as reported, I would completely support the removal of Duca and Jamin. No confidence.



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, I don't see the point of putting a fake finish on nice wood.


Agreed. If I'm going to paint wood, I'll paint it whatever color looks good. But I'm not going to paint over wood grain with pretend wood grain. If you want wood columns, just be ready for the maintenance. Otherwise, might as well use treated lumber with pvc veneer as columns.
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Seriously, the guy should step down.


Do you have any idea what he walked in to? God Bless that man, there are so few good people who would even be willing to take that position.
Treated my body better. Not even drugs/alcohol, but the injuries that were just annoying back then are so much harder to overcome now. If I skip a day of back stretches now, I can't stand up all the way.

re: Week old roof leaking...

Posted by dragginass on 5/1/26 at 11:35 am to
Don't get scared. I've used PS multiple times in the past with no issues, and their prices are fair. Unless you have an all gringo crew, the crews are all transient.