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re: Tulane student raped by man she met on dating app

Posted on 2/6/22 at 8:02 am to
Posted by Jimbeaux
Member since Sep 2003
20133 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 8:02 am to
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Not blaming the victim at all. But I don’t feel as this article gives us anywhere near a clear picture. We need the details.


You are correct but not 100%.

In a non-bizzarro world, the investigators would try to discern the facts, and we, the public, would only know about the case once the case was confidently determined by a competent agency.

It’s incredibly unwise for the weaker sex to invite a stranger to her apartment at night that she met on a dating app, which society has determined is basically a call for a sex hook-up more than 50% of the time.

In our psychotic college Uber-feminist culture, trying to determine the difference between date rape and sexual regret is nearly impossible. Young women are giving off “frick me, I’m a whore” vibes, but think they are perpetual victims with no sexual responsibility.

The young men are mostly immature, under-socialized, emasculated guys with no training on how to act like a gentleman and no understanding that women don’t actually think about sex in the same way that men do, even though they pretend to. They assume that a chick in a dating app just wants to get fricked, just like them, and they have no understanding of how to actually act around a woman, even one who is actually and generally interested in sex. So they act like an arse and after getting rejected, they sometimes do commit rape.

We aren’t socializing our young adults in a truthful way to prepare them for civilized dating and romance.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
8290 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 8:09 am to
Tulane is known for liberal students. Liberal students are known for pathetic rape allegations. They believe that if a woman agrees to sex, and then regrets it, that makes it rape because the woman subconsciously didn’t want to even though she agreed.

Again, not saying that happened here. I’m saying we need the details of the story to really know what happened.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40162 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 8:10 am to
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Jimbeaux


Post more.


You think its bad now? Wait until the small children who have lost their social skills and worn masks for the last two years get to that age. Thanks Covidians.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 8:12 am to
guest lecturer who was accused a few years ago

Charges dropped almost a year later when the girl recanted. They were caught in the act by the boyfriend.

Dude lost his job over it.
This post was edited on 2/6/22 at 8:15 am
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90876 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 8:15 am to
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Blaming the victim does nothing but create additional harm and creates an environment which supports rape


The rapist is at fault but we need to point out it’s not smart to invite strangers to your home. These sites are prime for predators to use. Meet for lunch or something somewhere first, get to know the person
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
11346 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 8:50 am to
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Meet for lunch or something somewhere first, get to know the person


Without using an app.
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
15365 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 9:22 am to
I feel bad for the victim, but I do wish she would have used more wisdom in this situation.

Inviting a guy you don't know immediately to your house. There was one and only one reason he came to your house. Sex. Obviously he should take no for an answer and is a POS for not doing so, but as a woman, please don't put yourself in that situation unless you know the guy extremely well.

Meeting someone on an app, go to a public place like a restaurant or a park. Plenty of lighting, and for a woman I would suggest bringing a friend as well.
Posted by AllDayEveryDay
Nawf Tejas
Member since Jun 2015
7080 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 9:29 am to
Your kids are just as likely to catch a bullet
Posted by ninthward
Boston, MA
Member since May 2007
20446 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 9:31 am to
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Smart move, inviting strangers to your home.
like you wouldn't go back to her room if she invited you moron.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30608 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 9:46 am to
This is why I just masturbate at home
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26934 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:21 am to
Suggesting someone did not take the obvious steps to ensure their personal safety is not victim blaming.

Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164342 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:23 am to
Pics?
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65873 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:26 am to
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This is why I just masturbate at home
I hope Zillow’s AI takes this statement into account and tags it to your property’s profile.

“Heavy Masturbator”
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68924 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:31 am to
Jesus. I don’t want to blame the victim. The guy is a piece of shite. But I’m a dude and wouldn’t invite a strange woman online to my home. It could be a guy, or a girl that shows up with guys to rob your shite.

Obviously my worries are different than a woman’s and it sucks you have to worry about being raped by a strange man, but better to be careful when it comes to online dating.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28572 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:33 am to
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I love seeing the NO haters come out. More beads for my kids to catch in NO

Enjoy your trinkets and your broken-into car as well, Poor.
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5151 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:34 am to
Why is there no description of that alleged rapist - height, weight, eye color,race and so on? How we going to catch this fellow without good info?
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
23660 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:36 am to
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Tulane student raped by man she met on dating app

same thing happened to one of my pharmacy tech, who was at LSU at the time, back in 2015-2016... met on tinder, she invited him over, she changed her mind after he got there, he forced himself on her...

had to testify at the subsequent trial... dude was acquitted, though...
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
47812 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:37 am to
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Tulane student raped by man she met on dating app
y’all know that’s something else they’ve changed the definition of
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65873 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:39 am to
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Why is there no description of that alleged rapist - height, weight, eye color,race and so on? How we going to catch this fellow without good info?
Obvious answer is obviously obvious.
Posted by NoSaint
Member since Jun 2011
11307 posts
Posted on 2/6/22 at 10:40 am to
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uest lecturer who was accused a few years ago

Charges dropped almost a year later when the girl recanted. They were caught in the act by the boyfriend.

Dude lost his job over it.


I mean, that’s still a super sketchy story. He’s on a work trip, she gets drunk enough that her friends give him the address to her house to bring her home and then when live in bf gets home completely on schedule after his overnight shift the house is tore up and they are fricking in their bed?

A few red flags in there that she may have been pretty hammered?
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