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re: Nearly 1 in 3 married Americans report they’re not having sex

Posted on 8/16/26 at 12:48 pm to
Posted by Sweep Da Leg
Member since Sep 2013
4836 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 12:48 pm to
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Got some cockblocking arse kids still living with us at 20 and 22 years old


Sounds like you need to man up and push babies birds out of the nest and let them fly
Posted by Colonel Angus
Member since Aug 2007
2277 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 12:55 pm to
Many reasons for this probably, but I would put having phones on nightstands and scrolling in bed every night as the #1 culprit.
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
12715 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 1:13 pm to
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A lot of younger men (younger than 30) have absolutely zero social skills or confidence to approach a woman or simply ask them out on a dating app.

Yeah physical appearance matters to an extent but most women will start to think a man is physically attractive if he’s just confident and wears clothes that fit. It’s the equivalent for when men have a few drinks and a woman becomes more attractive to them.
Maybe, but few of those people are in the denominator of the equation for "married" people.
Posted by reggierayreb
Member since Nov 2012
19985 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 1:14 pm to
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That's because if they report they are having sex their spouse will know they're cheating.


Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
36870 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 2:00 pm to
Not saying this is the entire problem but it’s seems there are a lot of men who get mad because the wife doesn’t initiate sex and it turns into this issue burdened with resentment. The problem is that most women are not hardwired to initiate sex, it’s just not in their evolutionary engineering. If husbands just said “you’re my wife and I’m making it my duty to frick you regularly” the sex would happen regularly. Morning sex is a great time too. Spoon your wife and poke her with some morning wood between her legs, instinct will take over.

If not, she probably just hates you.
This post was edited on 8/16/26 at 2:01 pm
Posted by forkedintheroad
Member since Feb 2025
2955 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 2:12 pm to
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If husbands just said “you’re my wife and I’m making it my duty to frick you regularly” the sex would happen regularly.


Sure if you don't mind fricking a dead fish after the first few times.

If your wife isn't initiating somewhat regularly (less than you, but more than never) then she has no desire, which you are not going to fix by banging it into her.

Ask yourself how many relationships start out with a woman never initiating.
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
14613 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 2:13 pm to
I'm currently not having sexual relations with a woman.
Posted by wm72
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2010
9833 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 2:15 pm to
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Why do women (or men) feel like once they get married the grind of trying to look good is over?


I think many have been conditioned -- or conditioned themselves -- to look at getting married as such a monumental goal that they have a kind of post achievement depression afterwards.

Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
53739 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 2:16 pm to
Is 1 in 3 a crazy number?

I feel like it makes sense from meeting other humans for 40+ years
Posted by Oneforthemoney
A town near you, la
Member since Dec 2013
2583 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 2:39 pm to
Or just marry a Filipina
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
61988 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 2:53 pm to
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Ask yourself how many relationships start out with a woman never initiating.
probably most
Posted by FLObserver
Jacksonville
Member since Nov 2005
16435 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:01 pm to
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Then what’s the point of staying married to someone? If there’s no intimacy of any kind in a relationship it’s time to go. I’d rather live alone.

My Man have you seen what a man usually loses in a divorce ? Then it happening later in life is even worse. This is often easier said then done.
Posted by KemoSabe65
70605
Member since Mar 2018
7726 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:58 pm to
His name is “sofaking” coincidence, I think not
Posted by ljhog
Lake Jackson, Tx.
Member since Apr 2009
20907 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 5:01 pm to
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Look in the mirror and they should see why their wife isn’t fricking them

Or vice-versa
Posted by PGAOLDBAWNevahBroke
Member since Oct 2025
815 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 5:06 pm to
This backbone poster doesnt seem to have this problem per his beaver thread comments
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
28416 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 5:09 pm to
3-4 times a week at my house... dunno what those people doing, but yeah....
Posted by SelaTiger
Member since Aug 2016
22169 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 5:11 pm to
It’s the Covid shot. Decreases sex drive and messes with fertility!
Posted by VooDude
Member since Aug 2017
3944 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 5:12 pm to
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Generation Z has real problems. I'd hate to fight a world war knowing we had to depend upon them.
War changes people real fast, makes them real men and no longer woke.

A war wouldn’t be the worst thing.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
151947 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 5:36 pm to
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we were still having sex 1-2 times a week before we separated. That wasn’t our issue.



Don’t you have Low T?
Posted by Tarps99
Lafourche Parish
Member since Apr 2017
13657 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 5:37 pm to
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Got some cockblocking arse kids still living with us at 20 and 22 years old.


Time to let them know what adults do for fun.
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