re: Majority of single women are having trouble finding a partner who fits their standard

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Also, a lot of chicks want to wait till they’re mid thirties so they can “have a career” before making babies. Meanwhile the smart ones get to college a get degree that’s actually valued called an MRS and lock down a good dude early on in life.

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They don't seem to understand that their youth is their only selling point.

Then when they pass 35 their only selling point is being nice.

I don't know any guys who are looking for a woman with a career.

It's like 10th on a list of 9 things.

Even woke arse tech bros have very little interest in that.

Men are interested in some combination of looks, youth, niceness, fun, religious, caretaking/housekeeping/mother potential, cooking.

Each guy has his own preferences, and maybe they change over time, but even if a guy is with a woman with a great job, he would definitely leave her for someone with more points in the other categories.

Men would rather her be poor and nice, a damsel in need to their hero, than her not need them.

Men want to be needed, and so do women.

The career slave option being sold to women leads to unhappy people.

I’ve known some fairly unattractive younger women who have delusional opinions of themselves.

It’s a two fold problem- most of these girls have too much of self inflated worth thanks to the guys that try anything to get with them. The other issue is the girl herself probably has a checkered past that no good guy would want to touch.

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I believe social media has greatly overexaggerated their worth and they believe their own press.

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I’d argue that it depends on what you’re measuring when you talk about their “worth”.

If the bar is will a guy they view as an 8+ go home with them the answer for most 6+ women is generally yes.

If the bar is will a guy they view as an 8+ get into a committed relationship with a 6 the answer is generally no.

I think the confusion for the women is the attention they get by men who just want sex vs the lack of attention they get from men who are top 20% who want to be in a relationship with them.

The distinction between those two things in addition to the political divide between Gen Z women and men is destroying the dating market.

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So why don’t they get the hint?

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They do, you must've missed the stats that guys are 4x more likely to commit suicide, far more likely to withdraw from society, and far less likely to be in relationships.

The average guy could do with some sunshine pumped his way

A lot of these women are what examples of the "Chad Widow." Some chiseled protagonist type used to dick them down 20 years / 40 pounds ago, and they compare every other man they run into to him. He wouldn't commit back then, and nowadays he probably wouldn't even rotate his neck 90 degrees to check out her arse on a 12-hour flight.

Single white women standard these days includes all of the insane liberal death cult garbage being perpetuated on college campuses all across our country.

BLM, Abortion, DEI, Trans, Entitlement, Climate Change, and all the other woke mind virus causes are what they believe in, and they wonder how no one can live up to "THEIR" standard. Yeah, a real life mystery.

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Yep you nailed it. And most of the dating profiles I see are bragging about how “independent” they are and how they “don’t need your money”. So you can and will leave me anytime, like you did to your first husband, sounds great.

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Agreed.

And the irony is that, Good guys want to be the hero for their woman.
They don't care if their woman is rich, or has gotten older, or is sick.

But if they are her hero, they will work 50 hours in a rain storm.

They will push her wheelchair, they will spend their last dollar on her hospital bill.

If she needs a man, they gain something that most humans will never gain.

Hero status. That's what fathers and husband's get in return for a lifetime of effort.

But an independent woman who doesn't need him?

He's never going to be her hero no matter how much he tries.

A marriage is about two incomplete people becoming whole together.

Without that it's just Transactional.

If he's with her for her money and lifestyle, he's going to leave for a better offer or if the lifestyle drops.

It's just not built into men to stick with the independent woman.

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So why don’t they get the hint?
I think most guys do. They get the hint and just stop looking.

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Well, you can’t just give up. Jesus. I met my husband in the early 2000’s, but even back then women turned down way, way more advances than they accepted. That’s just the reality of it. I tell my sons that they should expect to get rejected a lot by women, but that doesn’t mean they quit trying. It’s like hitting a baseball. You’re going to fail more than you succeed, but you at least go down swinging.

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No one tells women that they are unattractive losers.

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We get told when men just want to sleep with us but not have a relationship. So we get told, just in a different way.