re: Majority of single women are having trouble finding a partner who fits their standard

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They go out literally 30% as much as they did 10 years ago. That’s my point. And that 30% is much more likely to be a planned date/girls activity where they’re not exactly “approachable”. That’s the point. That’s exactly what I am getting at. If you, as a guy, want to compete, you have to work way harder, fight off more suiters, and be way better than at any point before in modern western history. The statistics reflect this reality.

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Once aged out of “going out,” single guys are probably better served going to church, joining a run club, joining a group fitness gym, etc.

OK, geniuses of the O-T. I will engage my daughter in a serious conversation about all discussed here and come back to you with a well-researched and documented explanation for the apparent social disfunction.

Meanwhile, make recommendations I can present to my daughter on how to find an acceptable man. One of my friends recently described her as "the perfect sugar-momma -- smart, beautiful and rich." So she has no interest in anyone else's money, or what kind of car you drive, or expensive dinners.

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Today, it’s all about the three 6’s:
6ft tall
6 pack abs
6 figure income

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None of those three above are in her criteria. As an adolescent she did think that Chris Evans (Captain America) and Robert Pattinson were attractive, but also would have given Neville Longbottom a shot at the end of Harry Potter.

Being polite and courteous, and caring about other people and animals are desirable qualities. Knowledgeable, intelligent and literate also, which implies educated, but she might have an interest in someone with a vision of what they will be or maybe have in some measure already attained. She can fish and shoot a shotgun, but if your world revolves around hunting season and the ambition to have a bigger pickup truck, you should pass.

She has an IQ of approximately 180 (beyond anyone you have likely ever met), started attending classes at a university at age eleven, has three college degrees, and in a month will finish up her education to be Doctor Lightning. Despite the demands of her education she likes to cook for her friends, go to athletic contests and concerts, and read voraciously and often three books at once.

You are most likely to meet her working in a hospital or in a coffee shop working on her laptop. She is sociable and conversant but perhaps lacking in the ability to flirt. She will not signal you of any "interest". Don't be intimidated by her looks (no pics, though some might be found on the internet). Say hello and introduce yourself.

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Fat dudes don’t think they’re fat

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this is a real issue that isn’t discussed enough

So many guys with double chins who would never ever describe themselves as fat

The great thing about being over weight is that you can always get in shape.

Being short in the other hand, well, there's no cure for that one.

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So many guys with double chins who would never ever describe themselves as fat

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The proverbial Baw on here who posts he is 5’10 220 and only needs to lose 20 pounds. No fat arse you need to lose 45 to 50 pounds.

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Gregory from Jennings

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This is my bit, gfy

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I almost feel sorry for some of these young guys, but they did it to themselves, simping for below average chicks with cellulite asses, and telling them they are hot just to get their little peen wet.

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On the flip side women expecting too much, btchy, and high maintenance. Why not go for the lower hanging fruit and avoid the drama.

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Stupid women who like to use their attributes to get attention will be viewed as pump and dump material more often than not. Many times the male will even act as if hes interested in a long term relationship if shes that good in the sac. Once hes tired of her he wont dump her, he will just start banging another chick until the whore finds out.

This will be repetaed over and over until the male finds a chick that tells him no to the fricking at the end of the night.

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I think you validated every Taylor Swift song.

I think one thing you failed to realize is that there are less whores than you imagine, they just are the exact opposite of the male.

They go though dozens of men a year, usually at the same time.

Men like that arent picking up fresh women, they are cycling the same women as everyone else.

Those women are typically damaged, guys can lie to themselves that they are studs who pick up new women...

But they are chumps.

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im saying that she needs to earn being asked out with a little boldness herself.

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Says the 40 year old bachelor