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re: Is anyone else happily married to someone you love and generally happy in life?

Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:43 am to
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
16654 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:43 am to
What is happily married, what is love? Everyone’s answer may be different, but after 32 years, I guess we are probably somewhere in the average, and I couldn’t have found a better mother for my children.
Posted by TheFitfulFire
Houma
Member since Jan 2017
148 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:44 am to
My wife is the love of my life, my soulmate.

Doesn't mean things are perfect. We fight sometimes, we are constantly working on communication. But I wouldn't have anyone else. Love brought us together, and we work to keep it.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
75068 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:45 am to
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It's like some viscous family cycle that can't be broken.


That's a pretty slick way to put it...

On topic.. I'm happily married for more than 32 years and reasonably happy in life.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
24362 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:46 am to
It's true at least in the friends I've seen it. They cannot break those apron strings that tie the wife to their family. I don't know if it's exclusive to South Louisiana but it sure seems like it is.
Posted by HarveyBanger
Member since Mar 2018
1221 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:48 am to
Love my wife and love my child. Couldn’t imagine any other life
Posted by andouille
A table near a waiter.
Member since Dec 2004
11118 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:55 am to
quote:

There's probably a lot of truth to this post. Women in Louisiana simply cannot break free of the chains to seek a better life outside of the shithole that is Louisiana. It's like some viscous family cycle that can't be broken. They're told that you can't leave your family and they listen to them rather than their husband.


It's not Louisiana that keeps us here, it's having a huge circle of friends and relatives, a full social life, all of my client base. We could move closer to our children, they're both are out of state, but at 72, we'd likely just be in their hair.
Posted by drexyl
Mingovia
Member since Sep 2005
23269 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:56 am to
Yes
Posted by LoneStarRanger
Texas/Europe
Member since Aug 2018
2404 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:56 am to
Happily married here with the first child on the way

We have 55 acres of farmland and forest

I work remotely for a salary, and take time to work the land too

Life is perfect
Posted by SuperOcean
Member since Jun 2022
4585 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:57 am to
Yeah. My wife is amazing. it's great
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
16696 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 8:59 am to
I absolutely love my wife and I love my life.

I don't have a lot of money, and I'd probably be a considered an OT poor. I'm still working hard to advance my career

But all things considered, I'm pretty content in my life.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39251 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:01 am to
Me. Married 30 years .. "generally" happy in life and all things ... just trying to get used to empty nest. It's been hard for me .. my husband not so much.
This post was edited on 8/24/22 at 9:03 am
Posted by Iowatiger209
Pleasant Hill, IA
Member since May 2021
1045 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:03 am to
Married 27 and 1/2 years. 3 daughters. Been a lot of work, and there have been some really tough times, but stuck with it and still happy together.
Posted by 45RCRoy45
Northern VA
Member since Apr 2020
662 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:05 am to
Yes and Yes - even dealing with some serious family issues - still very happy -

And the wifey drives me nuts often and vice versa - but we love our kids and our rule is we always hang out together in the same room … no seperate tv watching and it seems to work for us
Posted by transcend
Austin, TX
Member since Aug 2013
4166 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:06 am to
I’m very happily unmarried, thanks !
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83431 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:09 am to
quote:

I cringe when someone says “my old lady” very disrespectful



my old lady can kick your old lady's arse!
Posted by WitnessTheLitness
Member since Jun 2017
528 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:37 am to
Extremely happy living life with my wife. Been married 5 years after being together for 5 before that. Shes my best friend. Her family is incredible. Currently going thru our second round of IVF which has been the only struggle we've had thus far. We tried for kids for 2 years and then 1 round of IVF that didnt work. Will be finding out if second round works and we will be blessed with a child in a few weeks. Having to be there for her emotionally the past few years has definitely made us stronger. But I love my life and i love my wife and understand how blessed I am no matter what happens.
Posted by Jawilder
Nola/BR
Member since Nov 2020
2029 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:38 am to
Lol all of the top 5 percenters commenting. I don’t know a single marriage that isn’t in the shitter. I’m glad for y’all but this thread is not even close to an accurate representation of how marriage typically is.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
75066 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:41 am to
I'm hoping to be soon. I live with my gf of almsost two years and I knew her for two years before that. Are there some frustrating times, sure, but we never really argue or fight.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
57878 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:42 am to
quote:

There's probably a lot of truth to this post. Women in Louisiana simply cannot break free of the chains to seek a better life outside of the shithole that is Louisiana. It's like some viscous family cycle that can't be broken. They're told that you can't leave your family and they listen to them rather than their husband.

the absolute horror of a woman for not wanting to leave her family to move to suburban texas!
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85117 posts
Posted on 8/24/22 at 9:43 am to
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I don’t know a single marriage that isn’t in the shitter.


Seems like a reflection of your social group.

As of yet, none of my close friends group have been divorced and we are all pushing 10-15 years of marriage now.
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