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re: Husbands of the OT, how big was your wife’s ring?

Posted on 11/8/21 at 8:54 am to
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
19203 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 8:54 am to
Big rings on your wife's finger is like having a big truck. You had to overcompensate for your small pee pee to get her to marry you.

To answer your question though, lab created diamonds are the same as blood diamonds. So no difference.
Posted by Jor Jor The Dinosaur
Chicago, IL
Member since Nov 2014
7055 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 8:55 am to
1.86ct, she rounds it up. Looks like 2 carats, costs like less than 2 carats. We were both happy with it.

Don't neglect cut and clarity for size though. The shine of a good diamond is impressive. You can go a letter grade or two down in color quality with a gold setting vs a silver one.

ETA: Full disclosure, I did get a lab diamond because she specifically asked for one for "ethical" (and fiscal) reasons. Can't tell the difference, and it isn't any less meaningful because it isn't millions of years old.
This post was edited on 11/8/21 at 9:01 am
Posted by bulldog95
North Louisiana
Member since Jan 2011
21040 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:00 am to
I was a poor college student and so was she.

It wasn’t very big but it was 2 months salary.

She gave it back when we divorced but keep all the other expensive jewelry like a diamond necklace, rings, cross necklace, etc……

Posted by bknight00
East of the Rockies
Member since Aug 2007
524 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:15 am to
Bought the ring in 1998. 1.25 carat pear shaped diamond surrounded by .50 carats of leftover diamond slivers. The wife still loves it to this day. That pear shape was very unique and different back then.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
96959 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:23 am to
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man made diamonds worth it? Looks good but I don’t know if women care about that stuff.


I just ordered a custom engagement ring. I got a diamond man made and it’s 1/3 the cost of a natural diamond the same size. Jeweler told me it’s literally the same makeup of a natural diamond and you can’t tell a difference. It’s a logical choice to get lab grown unless you just have a bunch of money to blow.

And yea some women if they know probably would get upset because they’re irrational beings. Just don’t tell her it’s lab grown she won’t be able to tell
Posted by viv1d
Member since Aug 2017
1712 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:25 am to
0.90 ct. Looks the same as 1 ct. for way cheaper.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
96959 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:25 am to
quote:

didn't get her a ring. About a week or two after the wedding we decided we still needed them for the social signal that we're taken, so I told her to pick some rings out. We spent less than $100 for two rings off of Etsy. I forgot mine in a hotel bathroom 2 weeks later.


Funny thing is these are the marriages that last
Posted by Demshoes
Up in here
Member since Aug 2015
10536 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:33 am to
I mined my wife's 28 carat ring from the cubic zirconia mines in Zimbabwe myself.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39252 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:40 am to
Wife here .. I didn't give a crap about ring size. In fact I had a pendant from my mother in law that was reset as a ring.

When our son was planning on proposing, I told him that HE needed to decide how much he could AFFORD and then work with what he knew she would like shape/style wise. He did indeed end up with a lab grown diamond (it was a "baby diamond" as they described it grown quicker in the lab).

She loved it and would have been very upset had he spent more.
Posted by lowhound
Effie
Member since Aug 2014
8697 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:40 am to
I bought one used on Facebook marketplace. She didn't know the difference. Saved beaucoup though.
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
55661 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:42 am to
First, decide your budget. Then you either have to ask or decide what she would place more value on, the size, cut or clarity.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
57884 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:42 am to
is this a big ring?



^LSU gymnastics alum Rheagan Courville
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
43361 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:47 am to
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Just don’t tell her it’s lab grown she won’t be able to tell



Good one, Baw.

The very first thing she will do is go have it appraised, "for insurance purposes." (Her broke arse will never insure it.) They will inform her it is a diamonoid.

I went 1.06 ct. round. It was aboot $4200 in the early '90's.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
23412 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:50 am to
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we decided we still needed them for the social signal that we're taken

Weak
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
6014 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:55 am to
Lol at some who think all women with a big center stone are the demanding, selfish type. Some guys just want something special for thier wives. If they can afford it, what's the big deal?

This post was edited on 11/8/21 at 10:20 am
Posted by Splackavellie
Bayou
Member since Oct 2017
11428 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 9:56 am to
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18697 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 10:01 am to
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Weak


My wife works in a very male-dominated profession notorious for creeps and was tired of being hit on despite being years into a committed relationship, so
Posted by LeGrosChat
Bangladesh
Member since Feb 2016
505 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 10:03 am to
First ring when no money was .63, not good clarity.
Just bought lab made 1c with brilliant shine at 2/3 less than real diamond. Jeweler said even he needs special machine to determine that it is a man made diamond. Wife happy but I think she secretly still wants real diamond that I spend $10k for.
Posted by LB84
Member since May 2016
4094 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 10:06 am to
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I went 1.06 ct. round. It was aboot $4200 in the early '90's.


If you want to get a 1 ct. ring you go for .85-.99 the price increase for the full ct. isn't worth the tiny amount more you're getting. It works like that for 1.5, 2, and etc. as well.
Posted by tigahland
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jun 2016
3391 posts
Posted on 11/8/21 at 10:15 am to
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Also is man made diamonds worth it? Looks good but I don’t know if women care about that stuff.


please let me know how this goes for you if you go with a fake diamond
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