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re: How long do you wait before asking out a newly single girl? (PAGE 4 & 9 UPDATE)

Posted on 7/18/20 at 7:08 pm to
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
9691 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 7:08 pm to
Yea some old boy is already getting balls deep in her. You’re the guy that at most will get a drunken make out session after old boy ends with it her and then she cries the rest of the night as you hold her, no chance you ever get any of that sweet puss puss action
This post was edited on 7/18/20 at 7:08 pm
Posted by No Colors
Sandbar
Member since Sep 2010
10363 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 7:19 pm to
quote:

don't think I can date right now".


Because some other guy is picking me up in an hour to spray my guts....
Posted by Athos
Member since Sep 2016
11878 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 7:22 pm to
quote:

It finally happened. She flirted too well, too much. We spent all morning together at an event, Covid be damned. Her homemade cloth mask hung from her left ear. Mine scrunched and sweat soaked below the chin. You know when you do things that will inevitably lead to an outcome you don't want, but you do it anyway? Or maybe she wanted me to ask her out. I don't think she knew what she wanted. So I told her I don't know the 'broke up six weeks ago' etiquette, but that I was interested and wanted my shot. She said she was interested in me too, but couldn't commit. She still needed time to heal.

"Of course, ball is in your court, let me know when you're ready"

The text message came two hours later. Three paragraphs summed into a sentence, "I had a wonderful time this morning, you're amazing and attractive, but I don't think I can date right now". Doesn't sound like the door is closed permanently, but we'll see three months from now. Two months?. It's probably closed, right?


This is some gay fricking prose.

Also. Did your marathon bitch already dump yo fat arse?
This post was edited on 7/18/20 at 7:32 pm
Posted by WinnPtiger
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2011
23872 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 7:24 pm to
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that sweet puss puss action



he has no idea
Posted by dkreller
Laffy
Member since Jan 2009
30275 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 7:29 pm to
That’s code for she wants to pound as much dick as possible before getting into an exclusive relationship again.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39097 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 7:30 pm to
She is through with even thinking aboot you until she needs to move or gets a flat tire. Your only chance is to get her attention with some light shock value. Text her back and tell her that you understand she is not ready for dating gain.

Then tell her you are good with just giving it a proper stretching until she gets over him.

Or, You are an engineer. Construct a tower and send her a pic.
Posted by ConservativeBamaFan
Tuscaloosa Alabama
Member since Nov 2013
1247 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 7:48 pm to
Good lord man. She is already banging another guy for revenge on the guy she broke up with. You missed your chance for crazy anything goes SEX.
Posted by Pussykat
South Louisiana
Member since Oct 2016
3889 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 7:50 pm to
Go for it! She’s probably dying to be asked out.
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
34693 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 8:30 pm to
She’s probably banged about 6 dudes in the past month bruh


Jump on it today or it’ll be too late
Posted by Relham10
Ridge
Member since Jan 2013
15602 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 8:34 pm to
quote:

You snooze you lose

This. If youre interest, you better believe there is a line of dudes also interest and most of those dgaf that shes newly single, they been waiting. You better move now or youll be on the outside looking in
Posted by Double Oh
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
17783 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 9:59 pm to
Post a damn pic of her you know the freakin rules
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68105 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 10:25 pm to
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 We spent all morning together at an event, Covid be damned. Her homemade cloth mask hung from her left ear. Mine scrunched and sweat soaked below the chin
So you thought things were going well.
quote:

"I had a wonderful time this morning, you're amazing and attractive, but I don't think I can date right now
But she thought you were a loser and took two hours figuring out how to let you down easily.
quote:

 She still needed time to heal. 
This is bullshite and a total giveaway that she's not interested in you. If she was, there would be no time to heal, it would have happened weeks ago. Six plus weeks to "heal."
Posted by Capstone2017
I love lead paint- PokeyTiger
Member since Dec 2013
2235 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 10:27 pm to
pretty much only snap and you send videos.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29450 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 10:54 pm to
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Ssubba

She subbed you out for Bubba.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164091 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 10:57 pm to
quote:

It finally happened. She flirted too well, too much. We spent all morning together at an event, Covid be damned. Her homemade cloth mask hung from her left ear. Mine scrunched and sweat soaked below the chin. You know when you do things that will inevitably lead to an outcome you don't want, but you do it anyway? Or maybe she wanted me to ask her out. I don't think she knew what she wanted. So I told her I don't know the 'broke up six weeks ago' etiquette, but that I was interested and wanted my shot. She said she was interested in me too, but couldn't commit. She still needed time to heal.

"Of course, ball is in your court, let me know when you're ready"

The text message came two hours later. Three paragraphs summed into a sentence, "I had a wonderful time this morning, you're amazing and attractive, but I don't think I can date right now". Doesn't sound like the door is closed permanently, but we'll see three months from now. Two months?. It's probably closed, right?

If she wanted you balls deep inside her she would be ready now. It’s over bro
Posted by SoFla Tideroller
South Florida
Member since Apr 2010
30072 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 10:57 pm to
quote:

She still needed time to heal.


She meant this literally. Lance the bartender pushed her cervix up past her sternum the night before you two took a cruise through the Friend Zone that morning.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15503 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 11:51 pm to
quote:

The text message came two hours later. Three paragraphs summed into a sentence, "I had a wonderful time this morning, you're amazing and attractive, but I don't think I can date right now". Doesn't sound like the door is closed permanently, but we'll see three months from now. Two months?. It's probably closed, right?


Move on, she isn’t that interested in you. She just wants to be friends.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36169 posts
Posted on 7/18/20 at 11:57 pm to
The secret is to always keep them wanting more and guessing.
Best thing you can do is drop it from your memory. She’ll sit around and when the time is right reach out.


Or she won’t and you’ve moved on. Win win.
Posted by tigerintexas777
the lake
Member since Sep 2013
1312 posts
Posted on 7/19/20 at 12:12 am to
Honestly depending on how invested she was in this guy for a year or so, from experience you never want to be the guy to follow the guy. Specially if she fell in love or they were serious.

Think of it like being the next QB behind Brees, or Rodgers, or Brady - you don’t want to be next in line to be the rebound bf, because everything you do will be compared against him and you don’t want that

Relationship and dating in my opinion, is all about timing, yes you need to act quickly, yes you should most definitely respect her time and the healing process, however, if she’s interested, she will heal and process things faster. The best relationships are about perfect timing and compatibility. How willing are two people to commit to each other, and hopefully they aren’t that fresh off of someone they loved

It’s best not to overthink it, shooters shoot. Go for it.

That being said - having read page 4 of what happened and she turned you down. Don’t let it bother you. You shot your shot and missed. Who cares. There’s a ton of women out there, some single, some taken, some going to come available at any time.

Keep your chest out, and chin up. Don’t cave to them, speak your heart, and be a man about it. If she turns you down, don’t let it affect you, if she reaches out fine. Be chill, not over eager. Girls typically want what they can’t have and what other girls find desirable - not necessarily the “good” guy. At least until they mature

Hang in there, and keep shooting

Posted by KamaCausey_LSU
Member since Apr 2013
14492 posts
Posted on 7/19/20 at 12:14 am to
If you want something serious, a safe bet is the time they were together divided by 2. Almost anything before then is a rebound.
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