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re: How long do you wait before asking out a newly single girl? (PAGE 4 & 9 UPDATE)

Posted on 10/19/20 at 12:33 pm to
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
58857 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 12:33 pm to
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we're just friends now


Let me tell you what we’re just friends means.

It means she views you like a get out of jail free card. It’s not really the thing you’re shooting for, but if worse comes to worse, she knows she can always use the get out of jail free card if need be

Be Boardwalk or Parkplace instead. Be a valuable target, not a friend. That friend thing is the backup plan. frick being a backup plan for anyone. Guys do that thinking if they stay close they can have another swing of the bat, and it’s never coming because she doesn’t value you. You’re too attainable.




This post was edited on 10/19/20 at 12:36 pm
Posted by Ssubba
Member since Oct 2014
6613 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 1:15 pm to
quote:

Be Boardwalk or Parkplace instead. Be a valuable target, not a friend. That friend thing is the backup plan. frick being a backup plan for anyone. Guys do that thinking if they stay close they can have another swing of the bat, and it’s never coming because she doesn’t value you. You’re too attainable.


I'm not going to be a Parkplace, I'm going to be a nothing. It's over. We're friends in the sense that I'll speak when I see her, be friendly, and keep asking her for her single friends, but there is no more emotional attachment.
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
43318 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 1:18 pm to
quote:

Let me tell you what we’re just friends means.

It means she views you like a get out of jail free card. It’s not really the thing you’re shooting for, but if worse comes to worse, she knows she can always use the get out of jail free card if need be

Be Boardwalk or Parkplace instead. Be a valuable target, not a friend


This was me when I came back home after Commissioning wearing my uniform. A few of my "we're just friends" became otherwise real quick. One literally threw me on the bed when I came over just thinking we were going to hang out.
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20437 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 1:23 pm to
quote:

Let me tell you what we’re just friends means.

It means she views you like a get out of jail free card. It’s not really the thing you’re shooting for, but if worse comes to worse, she knows she can always use the get out of jail free card if need be

Be Boardwalk or Parkplace instead. Be a valuable target, not a friend. That friend thing is the backup plan. frick being a backup plan for anyone. Guys do that thinking if they stay close they can have another swing of the bat, and it’s never coming because she doesn’t value you. You’re too attainable.
All bullshite aside, this is some SOLID frickING ADVICE my friend! This is what guys like the OP need to hear.

Posted by Skeet Mc
Member since Dec 2006
2847 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 1:46 pm to
quote:

She has now gotten back together with the old guy.


Crying Onion
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19240 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 1:51 pm to
The chicks have no rule, they usually have a new one lined up before they leave.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66397 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 1:52 pm to
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but there is no more emotional attachment.


Sure, baw.
Posted by rowbear1922
Lake Chuck, LA
Member since Oct 2008
15165 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 1:59 pm to
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She has not gotten back together with the old guy.


He was definitely PIIHB after yalls “dates”. Congrats on giving her free drinks/dinner though.
Posted by Chitter Chatter
In and Out of Consciousness
Member since Sep 2009
4658 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 4:36 pm to
quote:

Let me tell you what we’re just friends means.

It means she views you like a get out of jail free card. It’s not really the thing you’re shooting for, but if worse comes to worse, she knows she can always use the get out of jail free card if need be

Be Boardwalk or Parkplace instead. Be a valuable target, not a friend. That friend thing is the backup plan. frick being a backup plan for anyone. Guys do that thinking if they stay close they can have another swing of the bat, and it’s never coming because she doesn’t value you. You’re too attainable.
All bullshite aside, this is some SOLID frickING ADVICE my friend! This is what guys like the OP need to hear.


In all honesty, if you do indeed act like this she will probably find the confidence and attitude attractive. Some women are like that. if that happens there's some satisfaction from turning down someone who didn't see what you were worth once before
Posted by BayouCatFan
Member since Jul 2008
4580 posts
Posted on 10/19/20 at 4:48 pm to
You guys keep giving OP tips on what to do to get this chick. You are wasting your time because its never going to happen for him. He blew it when he came clean with his feelings and asked her for a date.

He should have just said lets get a beer and before the end of the night grabbed her for a kiss. Less talking and more action, OP.
Posted by Thewingnut323
Baton rouge
Member since Oct 2018
64 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 9:42 am to
Take her to the movies and do the old popcorn trick
Posted by TheRouxGuru
Member since Nov 2019
8134 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:24 am to
Was going to rip on you for being 'friend zoned’ but you seem like a decent guy and you recognized it from the jump. Know your worth

Rooting for ya bud
Posted by KamaCausey_LSU
Member since Apr 2013
14475 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:25 am to
Sounds like she saved you the trouble of being cheated on. Don't be the rebound.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
102969 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:31 am to
The friend zone is a lonely place.
Posted by TaderSalad
mudbug territory
Member since Jul 2014
24625 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:55 am to
RA'd - Anchor worthy. OP is destined to lifelong virginity.
Posted by UKWildcats
Lexington, KY
Member since Mar 2015
17013 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 11:03 am to
Eh, it does sound like OP got friend zoned, but this chick did hook back up with ole dude so its plausible she really wasnt ready to get back out there.

That being said, if the right big dick baw had come along in that down period she would have been on it. Thats truth. It sounds like OPs game just wasnt strong enough to sway her. If things dont work out for her with this dude again just get some rebound cooze out of it and move on dude. If women are interested, then they are interested. Ive been on both ends of it. The only thing you can do is what you did, shoot your shot. Good on ya.
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