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re: Going on a date with a divorced chick (UPDATE page 37)
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:38 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:38 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
She’s trying to rebuild her self esteem through a new relationship with someone who values her, and through rando guys finding her attractive. There’s no way she’s ready for a committed relationship. Bow out gracefully. At some point, she will probably gravitate right back to a guy that treats her like shite.
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Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:40 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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I show up at the bar, and I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy.
And you still hung around? LOL
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:42 pm to J_Hingle
This thread is absolutely ridiculous on all levels. However, the below statement may be the best "make lemons into lemonade" type advice that I have ever seen on any forum:
If this is true or if somehow anyone else reading this can relate, this is going to be a great Spring/Summer to be single and meet someone. This girl will still be an option for you at the end of it. Treat her as the loaner car from the dealership but keep shopping in the interim.
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But before you do, go out with her and some of her skank arse friends and get a threesome going. If she says no then guilt her into it because of what she did. Skank arse friend will for sure be down.
If this is true or if somehow anyone else reading this can relate, this is going to be a great Spring/Summer to be single and meet someone. This girl will still be an option for you at the end of it. Treat her as the loaner car from the dealership but keep shopping in the interim.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:47 pm to 9Fiddy
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That being said, you aren't 100% sure or you wouldn't be asking us here. It's probably started already, but every time you see her texting and smiling on her phone when she's with you, you'll get that little twinge in your head that will leave you wondering what if that's another guy. Regardless of how much you forgive, or try to move forward, that feeling will never go away. You may learn to live with it, but it'll still be there.
Exactly. And why the frick would one want to willingly sign up for this for a BRAND NEW relationship??
Way too many others out there that won’t mess with your head regarding trust issues.
OP needs to know his worth. He is worth more than this chick can offer him at this time.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:48 pm to Slippy
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She probably gave some guy head while OP was out looking for her phone.
This made me laugh more than I'd like to admit.
And to echo literally every other person here, Vols needs to run fast and far away from this chick. Immediately. If you truly love and care about someone there is no such thing as making a mistake cheating on them. Alcohol being involved is irrelevant. You either love someone and don't cheat on them or you don't (and do cheat). There is literally no in between.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:49 pm to Tshiz
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I show up at the bar, and I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy.
And you still hung around? LOL
Exactly. This is when you order your uber to leave, make sure she knows you caught her, call her out on her shite, then roll out.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:49 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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I definitely said a lot of things in response that I regret. I hate myself for it and I guess with this situation I’m trying to be different.
Until you forgive yourself for that and can move forward without that feeling of regret, you yourself may not be ready for a relationship either.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:50 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:Did you read what you just typed?
My previous two relationships I ended on my own because I didn’t respect them.
Damn baw.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:51 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
3 days in and you walk into a bar to see her grinding on some other dudes dick?
Come on, man.
Come on, man.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:53 pm to Weekend Warrior79
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Exactly. This is when you order your uber to leave, make sure she knows you caught her, call her out on her shite, then roll out.
I want to know what transpired between him getting there and seeing that, to closing time when he was "stuck with her."
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:53 pm to Ash Williams
This post was edited on 7/25/22 at 4:45 pm
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:54 pm to Hangit
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Rest assured, she is already scanning the crowd for your replacement. She is also g
“She was never yours, it was just your turn”
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:54 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
She did it once. And she will do it again. It's just a matter of time.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:55 pm to thegreatboudini
quote:I wouldn't consider dating a girl who "dances" like that. Common, trashy.
3 days in and you walk into a bar to see her grinding on some other dudes dick?
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:55 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:yet you're contemplating staying with a skank who doesn't respect you?
My previous two relationships I ended on my own because I didn’t respect them.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:57 pm to ForeverLSU02
OP’s logic : “But she would be the perfect woman except for that silly little she’s a cheating ho thing”
Posted on 4/12/21 at 1:02 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:you should see how sorry she really is. See if she'll let you PIIHB and then GTFO
Yesterday morning, she was absolutely beside herself. She profusely apologized and was so emotional that she had to go yak in my toilet three times. She assured me that she's not a cheater, that she cares immensely about me, and that it makes her absolutely sick to know that she hurt me.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 1:06 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:Did they ever invite you out to watch them grind on and make out with other dudes?
My previous two relationships I ended on my own because I didn’t respect them
This post was edited on 4/12/21 at 1:07 pm
Posted on 4/12/21 at 1:06 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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VolsOut4Harambe
You are either pathetic and the type women will always walk over.
Or, you are just very bored and are trolling us.
Which of these guys do you really wanna be?
Posted on 4/12/21 at 1:08 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
This exact same type of situation is going to happen to you once again. She’ll get drunk again and frick someone else the next time around. The problem is when the next episode happens, you’ll be more committed to the relationship and your feelings will be more hurt, when, not if, she gets drunk and decides to make bad decisions.
Again, please explain what “emotionally cheated” means, because this is a first.
I’d run far, far, away from this chick. There’s far too many issues at hand, and other underlying history she hasn’t told you about, and more than likely, never will. A clean break now, will save you a whole bunch of shite you would have to deal with, as time continues to pass.
Again, please explain what “emotionally cheated” means, because this is a first.
I’d run far, far, away from this chick. There’s far too many issues at hand, and other underlying history she hasn’t told you about, and more than likely, never will. A clean break now, will save you a whole bunch of shite you would have to deal with, as time continues to pass.
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