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re: For all you baws who missed the swinger convention in NOLA, here is a recap.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 12:25 pm to kywildcatfanone
Posted on 7/23/26 at 12:25 pm to kywildcatfanone
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I'm surprised this type of thing is still a thing.
Its MORE of a thing these days. The stigma is slowly fading off for "alternative" lifestyles. This event is apparently growing every year and people are not hiding their choices anymore
The one thing that I just cannot believe is a thing is the cuckhold guys that like to sit there and watch their wife with other dudes. That's some deep seeded childhood shite there, not just someone wanting to sleep around.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 12:34 pm to JiminyCricket
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If a hitchhiker made me suck him off, Batman couldn’t beat that information out of me.
Fair enough
Posted on 7/23/26 at 12:35 pm to Hangover Haven
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suspect this is like being at a nude beach, 99% of the people there you really don't want to see naked...
Ehh… it depends on when/where you are.
I’m not saying everything there is pristine, but it’s. It as bad as people would like to make you think in order to shun you away.
IMO people usually say that when they haven’t been and want to convince themselves it’s not worth it. It all depends on what you’re looking for.
Lots of piercings and tattoos, but there are those walking around with none of it. There are also those walking around that you would like to delete from your mind but in all honesty you can take a scan of the area when you walk in and generally avoid the people you don’t want to see but the people are usually really nice and after a bit you stop noticing. Generally the people there are taken care of hygiene wise, which is all that really matters.
ETA: if you’ve ever been to Collette’s, it’s just that on steroids
This post was edited on 7/23/26 at 12:36 pm
Posted on 7/23/26 at 12:35 pm to CatfishJohn
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the cuckhold guys that like to sit there and watch their wife with other dudes.
How awkward are breakfast table conversations in that situation?
"Good morning, hon. I bet you're sore after the railing you got from that bull last night. Can you pass the creamer?"
Posted on 7/23/26 at 12:50 pm to Slippy
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Barb is an exhibitionist — Tom likes to watch
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the “hot-wife room,” where wives engaged in the horizontal mambo with other men in front of their happy hubbies
talk about weird as frick
its one thing to wife swap.....totally different thing to sit there and watch your wife fricked by another man and get off on it

Posted on 7/23/26 at 1:16 pm to CatfishJohn
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The one thing that I just cannot believe is a thing is the cuckhold guys that like to sit there and watch their wife with other dudes. That's some deep seeded childhood shite there, not just someone wanting to sleep around.
I'd like to do more reading and looking into the psychology before giving a definitive opinion on why people are like that but I did hear a theory that made sense to me. In a nutshell, when people consume heavy amounts of porn, they train their brain, and sexual reward system more specifically, for two things. They train it to find release, or a dopamine hit, in more and more extreme content over time and they also train their brain to find pleasure from being a watcher rather than a participant.
If you think about it, when you watch porn and masturbate to it, you're basically doing what a cuck does, only virtually. Functionally speaking, you're getting off from watching. Over time, the combination of the need for more and more hardcore content to stimulate the desensitized brain coupled with years of reaching orgasm from watching other people have sex = it seems like a hot idea to watch your wife have sex.
This post was edited on 7/23/26 at 1:24 pm
Posted on 7/23/26 at 1:27 pm to JiminyCricket
and I wondered why my girlfriend had girls night where they all dressed up in pineapple attire
Posted on 7/23/26 at 1:34 pm to MSTiger33
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My nephew was married in that dungeon room a couple of years ago.
We had our company Christmas party in that room a few years back. It would be weird to go back now, knowing all the naughtiness that went down this summer.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 1:37 pm to brass2mouth
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ETA: if you’ve ever been to Collette’s, it’s just that on steroids
Collette's was very dark and smelled like weed vape pens the last time I was there. This event looks different than the local crowd.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 1:41 pm to Slippy
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"Good morning, hon. I bet you're sore after the railing you got from that bull last night. Can you pass the creamer?"
Yea, I think that’s exactly what happens… I can’t even imagine having that mindset.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 1:49 pm to CatfishJohn
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I wonder if it’s a fun hangout even if the swinging isn’t an interest?
I'd totally do this
I'm fascinated by shite like this and I bet the people are nice and fun to get drunk with
I used to have a work meeting every year that always fell on the same week as the AVN award show and convention. We would always plan one night to go down to the Hard Rock (host hotel) and hang out in the bar. It wasn't to see the porn stars (which was interesting in its own right) but rather to see the weird breadth of humanity that came to town to attend that convention. Dudes, and some gals, that would spend big money to get autographs and take photos with porn stars. Best people watching ever.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 1:52 pm to JiminyCricket
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you think about it, when you watch porn and masturbate to it, you're basically doing what a cuck does, only virtually. Functionally speaking, you're getting off from watching. Over time, the combination of the need for more and more hardcore content to stimulate the desensitized brain coupled with years of reaching orgasm from watching other people have sex = it seems like a hot idea to watch your wife have sex.
From my experience talking with people and being around “the lifestyle” this is a portion of it and it’s also the spouse getting off to their partner asserting dominance on another (if it’s the wife watching) and the guys getting off on their wife being pleasured and getting pounded. It’s not for me, but I can understand the dynamic and how somebody would be into it.
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Collette's was very dark and smelled like weed vape pens the last time I was there. This event looks different than the local crowd.
That’s fair. Collette’s is hit or miss and honestly has went down a bit the last few years but still has its moments.
This post was edited on 7/23/26 at 1:54 pm
Posted on 7/23/26 at 1:55 pm to Slippy
I bet it smelled awesome in there.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 1:57 pm to JiminyCricket
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This post was edited on 7/23/26 at 2:09 pm
Posted on 7/23/26 at 2:21 pm to Havoc
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I wonder if it’s a fun hangout even if the swinging isn’t an interest?
No clue. I’d people watch, for sure.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 2:24 pm to brass2mouth
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From my experience talking with people and being around “the lifestyle” this is a portion of it and it’s also the spouse getting off to their partner asserting dominance on another (if it’s the wife watching) and the guys getting off on their wife being pleasured and getting pounded. It’s not for me, but I can understand the dynamic and how somebody would be into it.
No doubt, the compersion thing plays a role. It just seems like of the people I’ve met that do that or live that way, porn has played a prominent role pretty much everytime. Now, of course, correlation isn’t always causation but when you hear or read enough times some version of “we watched porn together for years and eventually I wanted my wife to become my own personal porn star” it’s hard not to make the connection.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 2:32 pm to JiminyCricket
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doubt, the compersion thing plays a role. It just seems like of the people I’ve met that do that or live that way, porn has played a prominent role pretty much everytime. Now, of course, correlation isn’t always causation but when you hear or read enough times some version of “we watched porn together for years and eventually I wanted my wife to become my own personal porn star” it’s hard not to make the connection.
Most definitely
Posted on 7/23/26 at 2:42 pm to DevilDagNS
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There was also a midget convention going on at the same time which was interesting
Well hopefully you got to frick one so you wouldn't have regrets later in life.
Posted on 7/23/26 at 3:03 pm to Hangover Haven
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I suspect this is like being at a nude beach, 99% of the people there you really don't want to see naked...
I’ve been in the Quarter during this convention and your suspicion would be correct.
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