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re: Did your wife change after your first kid?
Posted on 2/12/21 at 10:51 pm to tigergirl10
Posted on 2/12/21 at 10:51 pm to tigergirl10
Yes. She loves something unconditionally. And I aint it
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Posted on 2/12/21 at 10:52 pm to tigergirl10
They are grown up and out of the house. That’s how I can say this with confidence. We were about to have to move and it was killing her. She is a great mother, don’t get me wrong, but later in life separation becomes a big deal.
Posted on 2/12/21 at 11:12 pm to boosiebadazz
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It’s like motherhood has elevated her to another level of responsibility and responsiveness and awesomeness and I can’t help but think it’s because she’s preternaturally disposed to providing for our daughter and I’m just along for the ride.
Ok, I’m on the same page now. I was thinking change in a negative light. My wife was always a planner. She’s only gotten better since the birth of our first, while working full time.
This post was edited on 2/13/21 at 8:46 am
Posted on 2/12/21 at 11:28 pm to boosiebadazz
Well that wasn’t what I was expecting. Good for her.
Posted on 2/12/21 at 11:40 pm to boosiebadazz
No. She changed after we built a big house and moved.... then changed even more after spending money (my money) on a fertility doctor to tell us that SHE can't have kids and she tried telling everyone that it was me that couldn't have kids..... (i have a child from a previous relationship)......
Posted on 2/12/21 at 11:52 pm to boosiebadazz
Never been married
Too old to date now
Too old to date now
Posted on 2/13/21 at 12:23 am to boosiebadazz
Of course. How could having a kid not change a person to a degree?
Posted on 2/13/21 at 12:28 am to rantfan
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She changed after the fourth kid, hormone imbalance is what i was told. She did not get back in her right mind until five years later.
Yo is this real? A good friend of mine was telling me how his brother’s wife completely changed in personality after having their first child. A couple years later they had their second, and she went right back to her old self, and they’re both great now. My friend said it was hormone related as well. The first kid fricked it up, and the second one corrected it. I always thought this was a bunch of bs, but maybe it’s an actual thing. Weird.
Posted on 2/13/21 at 1:24 am to boosiebadazz
Mine went from normal chick, as in unstable, to bat shite crazy.
We are no longer together.
We are no longer together.
This post was edited on 2/13/21 at 1:25 am
Posted on 2/13/21 at 1:56 am to boosiebadazz
I’ve got 5 kids and my wife talks to them whenever they call. Some daily and several times a day. They are very close to their mom. All of them, but I’m the paterfamilias. And that’s how it should be. We love our kids but we hold a special love for ourselves. We will be longer than the kids will be dependent on us.
We both are committed to each other regardless. We love our kids but realize that our commitment isn’t based on our kids.
We both are committed to each other regardless. We love our kids but realize that our commitment isn’t based on our kids.
Posted on 2/13/21 at 1:58 am to sparkinator
My wife changes daily. It’s been that way before kids, and it’s still that way after. This is the way
Posted on 2/13/21 at 5:38 am to boosiebadazz
Yes, I’m an afterthought outside of a paycheck and she never lost the weight. Also lost a lot of desire to do things professionally. Not sure how she is going to function once he is out of the house.
Posted on 2/13/21 at 6:00 am to boosiebadazz
Yes, before the kid we couldn’t keep our hands away from each other and now, well...
Posted on 2/13/21 at 6:27 am to boosiebadazz
Where is the "don't care, had sex".
OT is slipping.
Consider yourselves on report.
OT is slipping.
Consider yourselves on report.
Posted on 2/13/21 at 6:37 am to boosiebadazz
Yep, I became #3 with quickness and we only had one child. It was the first paycheck protection plan in history. Second was an oops on a twice a year act. We are typically an every couple years act couple.
We are roommates for the most part now.
We are roommates for the most part now.
Posted on 2/13/21 at 6:57 am to KemoSabe65
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Yep, I became #3 with quickness and we only had one child. It was the first paycheck protection plan in history. Second was an oops on a twice a year act. We are typically an every couple years act couple.
We are roommates for the most part now.
Dude, that’s terrible. I feel for you. No man can survive long feeling like the pack mule. Have y’all tried therapy? As others stated, have you had her (and your) hormones checked, etc.?
Posted on 2/13/21 at 7:00 am to KemoSabe65
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Yep, I became #3 with quickness and we only had one child. It was the first paycheck protection plan in history. Second was an oops on a twice a year act. We are typically an every couple years act couple.
We are roommates for the most part now.
I’m sorry. This doesn’t seem sustainable. I had a baby last summer. I’m in a community of women who had babies the same month. The number of women who have only had sex once or twice since getting pregnant well over a year ago is astonishing to me. You can’t expect to have a happy/content marriage if you never have sex, and these chicks DGAF.
Posted on 2/13/21 at 7:03 am to SouthernHog
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Yes, before the kid we couldn’t keep our hands away from each other and now, well...
True Dat.
Posted on 2/13/21 at 7:04 am to boosiebadazz
Yeah that booty got big. It’s just plush perfection now
Posted on 2/13/21 at 7:04 am to boosiebadazz
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It’s like motherhood has elevated her to another level of responsibility and responsiveness and awesomeness and I can’t help but think it’s because she’s preternaturally disposed to providing for our daughter and I’m just along for the ride.
So reading between the lines,, what you're saying is that she reads tigerdroppings now.
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