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re: Did you live with your spouse before marriage? Would you recommend it?

Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:36 pm to
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
20387 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:36 pm to
Yes and yes
Posted by CatfishJohn
Member since Jun 2020
13471 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:36 pm to
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if you are truly in love, would those little things make you break it off?


There are countless cases in the history of civilization of people that are truly in love that don't fit together as life partners.

Posted by redneck
Los Suenos, Costa Rica
Member since Dec 2003
53617 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:38 pm to
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Did you live with your spouse before marriage?


No but we had been dating for 8 years between high school and college so we knew each others habits by then. Just had our 10th wedding anniversary this past June so it worked for us.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90715 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:39 pm to
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Did you live with your spouse before marriage


Yes

quote:

Would you recommend it?


Yes.

Many couples are compatible until they live together. It’s a whole different ballgame and I think it’s good to find out if you can do this before you commit to marriage.

Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
12447 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:41 pm to
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Did you live with your spouse before marriage? Would you recommend it?

You call this living?
Posted by HillarysITGuy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2017
20 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:41 pm to
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Im sorry sky daddy, can i come to heaven now?


I hope mocking makes you feel better about yourself. Either accept Christianity fully or don't. No one has to be perfect for salvation but willing sin certainly isn't the answer.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
15177 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:47 pm to
Been married 3 times and lived with all 3 prior to tying the knot.

So, that only proves to me you don't necessarily find out all there is to know if you live together first.

However, I firmly believe if I found #3 first, I'd never gotten divorced in the first place and would be celebrating 46 years of being married.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:47 pm to
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No but we had been dating for 8 years between high school and college so we knew each others habits by then. Just had our 10th wedding anniversary this past June so it worked for us.




wait till he gets the 11th year itch
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
41762 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:47 pm to
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Did you live with your spouse before marriage?
no
quote:

Would you recommend it?
not sure bc i have no experience with it
Posted by SalE
At the beach
Member since Jan 2020
2420 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:49 pm to
Yes
Posted by tigerinexile
NYC
Member since Sep 2004
1270 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:51 pm to
I wouldn’t live with her after. Just have conjugal visits you’ll get along much better
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29830 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:58 pm to
No.

Worked for us. Going on 20 years.
Posted by Tvilletiger
PVB
Member since Oct 2015
4930 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 2:00 pm to
Yeah you should always get a test drive.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
Undisclosed Secure Location
Member since Feb 2008
18677 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 2:06 pm to
Yes, and I would recommend against it.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
53022 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 2:09 pm to
I think living together is trashy

I think not having enough money to live separately is the worst reason. If a girls dad won’t step up and be a man and pay her rent then she isn’t a girl you should marry
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
14030 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 2:10 pm to
No. And no.
Posted by C-Bear
A Texas Tiger
Member since May 2005
811 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 2:11 pm to
Yes. He moved in with me after we had been dating a year. We got married a little shy of two years afterwards. It was the right move for us. Still married, celebrated 30 years on Monday!
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
19551 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 2:13 pm to
Yes.

Former sister-in-law didn't and they got to the point of not being able to stand each other. Lot of little things like him leaving the toilet seat up and such.

After the divorce, he went gay.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
22195 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 2:17 pm to
Nope and nope.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
11352 posts
Posted on 11/15/23 at 2:18 pm to
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That’s a sin in the eyes of our Lord



I really don't give a damn
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