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re: Dating advice: is dating a ‘dumb’ girl sustainable?

Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:10 am to
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
15179 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:10 am to
In my opinion, hell no. Over my lifetime I've had a few women come and go that I considered nothing more than "frick-buddies" and most of them were what many would consider dumb.

Sex will only take you so far and sooner or later there needs to be other stimulus in a relationship to keep it going. To me, nothing's worse than trying to talk to someone who is clueless about most things.
Posted by fjlee90
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2016
7838 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:18 am to
quote:

I’m meeting her family this week, so I’m hoping that’ll help push things one way or the other


Alrighty. So she’s hot but a bit dumb. Not the worst. Not the best.

You need to pay particular attention to her mama to see what the future is.
Posted by Gifman
by the mountains
Member since Jan 2021
9373 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:20 am to
quote:

‘dumb’ girl


you can just say girl baw
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4168 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:22 am to
It's really not sustainable.

You wouldn't want someone making any decisions for you or your family if you knew your SO was a moron.
Posted by Duke
Twin Lakes, CO
Member since Jan 2008
35629 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:24 am to
Im smart AF, so no, not really an option for me.
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
5462 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:39 am to
On the contrary; I have enough brains for the two of us.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17511 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:46 am to
Dated this chick while I was in college - we were in the student lounge between classes when the news talked about the Space Shuttle while it was on one of its missions when she looked at me all serious and asked if the shuttle had windshield wipers. I was like what and she pointed to the window and said its raining outside, so they will need it to see. Before I could answer she went on to say they can't see out the windows...in space.

Same chick also had problems keeping her clothes on when drunk, even in public places...

Very, very fun chick with a banging body. But damn she wasn't the brightest
Posted by SlidellCajun
Slidell la
Member since May 2019
10447 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:49 am to
They will eventually annoy tf out of you as real issues crop up
Posted by austiger
Austin
Member since Apr 2012
746 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:51 am to
depends on what you're looking for long term...

if you need someone to carry a conversation, not sustainable.

if you stick to yourself and just need somebody to bounce from time to time, sustainable
Posted by 3nOut
Central Texas, TX
Member since Jan 2013
28944 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 7:55 am to
I broke up with my last girlfriend for this exact reason. I felt bad breaking up with her because she didn’t do anything egregious at all she just wasn’t enjoyable to have conversations with.

She was a very pretty, nice, and intelligent person. But she was exceptionally dull and ditzy. This was 20 years ago but she would have been all in on the Taylor/Travis saga.

I probably could have had a nice quiet life with her but I would have been bored out of my mind.

The next person I dated was my wife and she can drive me nuts but there’s at least a spark and passion there.
This post was edited on 1/24/24 at 7:58 am
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
78721 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 8:27 am to
quote:

All you had to do is give her meaning in life that isn’t pop culture. And you failed


That’s what I do with women. I fail them. In a myriad of ways known only to them. I don’t provide them with the meaning that Taylor Swift can and I can’t climb into their brains and make all their deepest insecurities about cooking ware and the lady at the office and their relationship with their Aunt Zelda ok. And then they miss the failure and come back. Or they don’t. Whatever. Life on planet earth.

*sigh
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
49718 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 8:30 am to
How's the sex?
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
51438 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 8:31 am to
I'll put it this way to our op.

Supposed you get married and have kids. Something happens to you and you pass.

Could she handle business then?
Posted by Kang of Memphissippi
Memphissippi
Member since Sep 2023
561 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 8:46 am to
My wife is smart, has a very quick wit, but she definitely doesn’t have the same intellectual interests I do. Doesn’t care about history at all and feels unashamed for not caring about it. The other day something came up that I was explaining Cold War tensions and I realized she didn’t know what I meant, and I asked her if she knew who our adversary in the Cold War was and she crawfished out of the question. Kinda blew me away
Posted by theunknownknight
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
57380 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 9:10 am to
quote:

If she doesn't challenge you then there's really no point other than to get your dick wet every now and then.


What’s the problem here?
Posted by WonPercent
BATON ROUGE
Member since Aug 2023
456 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 9:17 am to
Unfortunately this describes a lot of younger women these days. I used to date plenty of girls in their 20s. I wouldn't enter into a conversation with them on a topic unless they could demonstrate at least some basic knowledge.

Example: She wants to talk politics. Me: Ok, first tell me who the Vice President is. Her: Crickets. End of talk.
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
291 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 9:44 am to
Does she let you hunt and fish when you want?
Is she nice to you and puts up with your family + friends and their wives?
Has a life of her own with friends/family etc?
Fun to be around?

Is those are true then yes.
Posted by num1lsufan
Meraux
Member since Feb 2004
1208 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 10:14 am to
You came to the Right Place to ask.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56364 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 10:19 am to
quote:

. I do find myself becoming increasingly frustrated with just trying to have a conversation with her at times. I feel that I have a decent sense of humor, and I’ve pretty much just given up trying to be humorous with her because it’ll go right over her head.


yeah, imagine this for 50 years. You know your answer. And if my wife of 20 years started giving a shite about pop culture or was looking at tik tok all day I would have to consider my options.
This post was edited on 1/24/24 at 10:21 am
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19329 posts
Posted on 1/24/24 at 10:24 am to
quote:

dating a ‘dumb’ girl sustainable


Yes but if you get married to one you will be in for a life of bullshite.

I speak from experience, I married a retard with blonde hair and big uns.
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