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Highway_Man
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| Number of Posts: | 327 |
| Registered on: | 5/7/2014 |
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re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 9:49 am to Brian Wilson
Thanks everyone for the replies.
She's making me feel like I'm crazy/controlling etc. which is clearly gaslighting and I know it, but it does a number on you and makes you second guess reality. The support is greatly appreciated here.
She's making me feel like I'm crazy/controlling etc. which is clearly gaslighting and I know it, but it does a number on you and makes you second guess reality. The support is greatly appreciated here.
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re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 8:50 am to Earnest_P
Regarding question 3. She is not friended with our son on any of the accounts.
re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 8:20 am to mmmmmbeeer
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Obligatory you came to the right place...
If you haven't yet, don't call her arse out. Get your ducks in a row in preparation for a potential separation while, in parallel, digging to get all the proof you can get to prove she's cheating. When you're confident you've got her dead to rights and are prepared financially, drop it on her. Don't be the victim.
I gathered evidence leading up to this. It's all saved.
From what I have read it's really hard to prove adultery in Louisiana. So I doubt it will be that useful in terms of divorce, unless something tangible is uncovered and not just something shady.
re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 8:19 am to SPEEDY
Safari on our mac had been syncing her accounts / passwords, I'm guessing via the apple id logged into both mobile and laptop. She recently got secretive and logged out of her apple id etc there, disconnecting the accounts. But it kept the old saved accounts in the password manager. Found 3 accounts along with the dates that showed the last time the passwords were changed, so have a good idea of the timeline here.
This isn't shocking. It's just confirming what I suspected and it's nice to have validation/closure here. Honestly her behavior and the panic that set in when I confronted tells me everything I need to know.
This isn't shocking. It's just confirming what I suspected and it's nice to have validation/closure here. Honestly her behavior and the panic that set in when I confronted tells me everything I need to know.
re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 7:48 am to Loup
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frick yes
Right? And then the reasoning. I forgot the password for one so I had to create another one. BUT, on the one account I saw, the other is friended. So clearly had access at the same time!
And a third, deleted account.
I know this is fricked. Just trying to get a sense of people's opinions here to help ward off the gaslighting.
re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 7:45 am to LSUfan4444
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That the SOLE purpose is for the disappearing messages
That part. That's literally the "killer feature". If it weren't for that it'd just be another chat app with cool filters etc.
re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 7:39 am to LSUfan4444
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Thats a feature but it's not the sole purpose. I don't have it and either does the wife but I know that much. It's really become the most popular communication app for high school kids now at least around here.
Disagree. I don't mind my kids having it but I also make sure they have a strong sense of morality and understand what's right and wrong. I was a teenager once. It get it.
re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 7:36 am to HoustonChick86
I agree. "But everyone has it". Half of them are divorced or have marital problems I bet.
re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 7:34 am to N2cars
Would love to know the story there. lol
Married people - snapchat?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/30/24 at 7:30 am
Just some questions for the married/previously married folks around snapchat. I'm curious what you use it for given the main feature is to not save chats.
1) Do you have snapchat? Does your partner?
2) What do y'all use it for?
3) Do your kids have it and are you friended with them?
4) Is there a sane reason for a married person or otherwise to have multiple accounts?
5) If you found out your partner had multiple accounts and didn't tell you, would you be mad?
1) Do you have snapchat? Does your partner?
2) What do y'all use it for?
3) Do your kids have it and are you friended with them?
4) Is there a sane reason for a married person or otherwise to have multiple accounts?
5) If you found out your partner had multiple accounts and didn't tell you, would you be mad?
re: DIY Divorce?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 3:50 pm to UncleRuckus
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If she isn’t willing to try to make it work, she already has a new guy. Women don’t leave what they have unless they have a nice option to go to. Best of luck brother
Yeah. I'm not dumb.
re: DIY Divorce?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 3:37 pm to Shexter
quote:
Let me guess - she just turned 40 within the past year.
Miss Cleo?
re: DIY Divorce?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 3:30 pm to tigerfoot
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She will surround herself with a bunch of evil, like minded women, they will spend alot of time together and will be her biggest influencers. They will tell her to take her share and she will.
She already has. That's part of the issue. It's like a virus.
re: DIY Divorce?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 3:27 pm to Tiger985
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If you still want to save your marriage order the book Divorce Busting by Michelle Weiner Davis.
Read it. Don't tell your wife. Do what is says. Much of the advice is counter intuitive to what you think you should be doing. Much of what you are doing is pushing her away I'm sure. Like guilting her about hurting kids.
Even if it doesn't work out you you will come through this much better for having read it.
Good luck. I'll pray for your family.
Thanks brother- I appreciate that!
re: DIY Divorce?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 3:27 pm to Tvilletiger
Yeah after reading all this I think at a minimum, having a lawyer help put things in writing would be ideal.
DIY Divorce?
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 3:19 pm
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re: America is Over-Medicated
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 12:09 pm to SpeedyNacho
I fought hard with my wife not to medicate my kids when they were young and won.
Now they're doing great. Two have straight As, and one is more all As/Bs. All in honors, AP, etc.
Proud of myself for standing up to that BS.
Now they're doing great. Two have straight As, and one is more all As/Bs. All in honors, AP, etc.
Proud of myself for standing up to that BS.
re: Shaken baby killer looks to be put to death tommorow -
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 11:33 am to jizzle6609
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Agreed and if you are against abortion I dont see how you are for the death penalty.
Maybe because babies don't commit crimes like murdering someone else?
They're literally the most innocent things on the planet
re: Shaken baby killer looks to be put to death tommorow -
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 11:24 am to Eurocat
Good riddance
re: Just finished the last of my Kartchner’s Boudin
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 11:20 am to FLObserver
Nunu's is the best, full stop
re: Recommendations for a light jacket
Posted by Highway_Man on 10/16/24 at 11:16 am to BayouBlitz
Just come out and say you want a members only jacket
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