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Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:29 pm to Kujo
I guess the first thing he should do is talk to mom. (Is she still living?) See what she wants to do, because whatever he does will involve her and potentially put her in the middle.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:29 pm to Kujo
I wish OweO weren’t banned. He’d know what to do.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:31 pm to Kujo
He should track down the dad and follow him to his local bar.
Introduce himself as someone else, buy him a couple rounds, slip him a micky, then while he’s passed out force him to do a bunch of father-son things with him like fishing, going to a game, throwing the baseball, etc...
That’ll show him.
Introduce himself as someone else, buy him a couple rounds, slip him a micky, then while he’s passed out force him to do a bunch of father-son things with him like fishing, going to a game, throwing the baseball, etc...
That’ll show him.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:31 pm to Kujo
This is me. I have never met my biological father and I was born of rape so they say.
Let that shite die man. I have no reason to ever see that piece of shite. He ran out on me and my biological mother when I was 1.
Let that shite die man. I have no reason to ever see that piece of shite. He ran out on me and my biological mother when I was 1.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:33 pm to rumproast
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guess the first thing he should do is talk to mom. (Is she still living?) See what she wants to do, because whatever he does will involve her and potentially put her in the middle.
It’s a consideration, though the dynamic may not effect her super directly if they aren’t terribly close in social circles and he keeps mom a bit abstract and focuses on his own relationship
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:33 pm to Kujo
Find the guy’s wife and tell her. He’s asking for it. DNA don’t lie.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:33 pm to Kujo
I'd honestly probably just drop it unless the mom wants to do something about it. Some things are better left unknown.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:33 pm to Kujo
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This post was edited on 4/1/21 at 12:42 pm
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:34 pm to Jake88
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talking about the rape part. We aren't given much detail. Could they have both been blitzed and she went with it but can't recall?
I told him to save the messages so his farther's denial can be used against him. How does he have his DNA if you didn't sleep with his mom?
Most of us have had a drunk one night stand, so I thought it was possible it could have been just subjective on how someone sees the the night's entanglement. But the way you said his dad reacted kind of lends credence to more of the knowingly taking advantage of an unconscious girl.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:34 pm to Kujo
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3. File charges with the police and force the guy to address his past?
Well that’s not an option given the statutes of limitations, but I know what he should propose to his father.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:34 pm to Kujo
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3. File charges with the police and force the guy to address his past?
The OP's buddy needs to consider this.
Maybe it would be a good thing for piece of shite understanding that he's a rapist and sweating out the possibility he will be fighting for his freedom in court.
Especially if he wants to be flippant to his long lost son who is clear as day evidence that his genitals mashed with said woman's genitals, consensual or not.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:35 pm to Kujo
Tell ur buddy it’s not his fault
When he tries to laugh it off, tell him it’s not his fault again
Keep saying it until he shoves you, then say it again
He will hug you tight and cry on ur shoulder
You really are a good friend, Sean
When he tries to laugh it off, tell him it’s not his fault again
Keep saying it until he shoves you, then say it again
He will hug you tight and cry on ur shoulder
You really are a good friend, Sean
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:36 pm to Kujo
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1. Write it off?
2. Reach out to his aunt to get more of the family involved?
3. File charges with the police and force the guy to address his past?
I think Only 1 is a real option...
I dont Think the police are gonna take a decades old sexual assault case.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:36 pm to Kujo
first, was it rape, rape?
or one of those buyers remorse type of rapes?
or one of those buyers remorse type of rapes?
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:37 pm to GRTiger
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Yea I'm sure tons of people here have a similar experience. A tale as old as time this one.
Ackshually.....
My "dad" left my mom after he found out she was pregnant but before she got popped for embezzlement. That's why she left me in the lurch after I was born. Had to run from the law.
Best part? She's still on the lam and ol boy is a sleeze bag lawyer of the "give em the womack" variety.
I've tried reaching out to both of them and let me tell you.... Some stones really are better left unturned.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:37 pm to Kujo
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1. Write it off?
He has a great life without the deadbeat dad.
Why try?
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:37 pm to Kujo
quote:At no point did I say the guy didn't have sex with your friend's mother.
How does he have his DNA if you didn't sleep with his mom?
quote:That was all I was wondering about. The guys reaction does not lend credence to the accusation he took advantage of the situation. Ot doesn't paint him as a great guy, but I suspect many men would throw up a wall of they were told by some adult that they were his son.
Most of us have had a drunk one night stand, so I thought it was possible it could have been just subjective on how someone sees the the night's entanglement
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:38 pm to Sentrius
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The OP's buddy needs to consider this.
Maybe it would be a good thing for piece of shite understanding that he's a rapist and sweating out the possibility he will be fighting for his freedom in court.
Jesus man. This could be a 40 year old case of two drunk people making a bad decision.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:38 pm to Kujo
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I told him to save the messages so his farther's denial can be used against him. How does he have his DNA if you didn't sleep with his mom?
Is the mom wanting to press charges?
He can't press charges.
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