re: Are AI Girlfriends The Future For Most Men

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They don’t need men but would like to get married.

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Women say they don't need men but they do.

1. The only reason women have significant roles in society is because men allow it and have made the world such an easy place (through millenia of technological progress) that they can make big money in jobs that are comfortable or can amplify the power of their sexuality.

2. Even today, men still pave the roads and build the buildings, and if all the men in the United States suddenly disappeared, the women left behind would be in deep shite. The infrastructure would fall into disrepair and whoever wanted to invade would just come right in.

Inflato-mate?

Pocket pussy from Ronco?

I thought sex bots were marketed now?

Let’s start with filter glasses/contacts. Shallow Hal is within our reach!

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"He's nice enough, but I can do better" is a value judgement. Dating very much IS a market, with its own rules, conditions, and prizes and defeats. Just like any other market. This is the cold reality of life. And women are very conscious of this rank. Women don't "marry down". Equal or up in almost all cases. The daughter of a prominent family isn't dating a Wal Mart stockboy from a no-college family no matter what his personality is like.

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I don’t think anyone is suggesting that those standards & judgements don’t exist. Of course they do. Alex Daddario isn’t dating some 350 lb. baw who rides his rascal to his greeter job at Walmart. Much like Chris Hemsworth isn’t dating some trashy skank with a muffin top, cankles, leg tats, and a disability check.

Those disparities are obviously real. But OP’s assertion that 80% of men have no chance at all in the modern dating market is absurd. This idea that because you aren’t Chris Hemsworth, you can’t even pull the trashy skank with the disability check is, quite frankly, an invention of “incel” culture online.

Guys who think like that are hopeless not because of their position in the hierarchy, but because the defeatist mentality creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. If the women you’re attracted to don’t like you, you really have two choices: either aim lower, or be better.

If you’re going to compare yourself to some perceived “top 20%” of men for the purposes of actually becoming part of that group to get the women you want - i.e. getting in shape, focusing on financial success, caring about your appearance, etc. - that might actually be productive. It’s a pretty vain way to live your life but at least you’re taking pride in something at that point, which will probably pay off in some shape or form.

If you’re making the comparison to remind yourself how hopeless you are, that’s an exercise in futility and counterproductive. It’s a vicious cycle and I’ve seen it from other men before. They get lonely, depressed, and have horrible self-esteem which then leads to further loneliness, depression, and failure (at work, with women, take your pick). It makes them even less attractive to woman than they would be otherwise. And then every interaction with women becomes this desperate, transactional thing that just turns them off.

They would be so much better off if they just tried to be themselves, did whatever brings them joy, and didn’t treat every interaction with a woman like some kind of test. If you’re genuine in your interactions people will often be genuine in return. I realize it’s easier said than done for those folks and I certainly don’t know how you just change your mindset, but the mindset is a huge part of their problem.

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Doug Townson

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Come holla

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We gonna help OP sell that '23 scat pack!

Import one from Thailand, Vietnam or Venezuela or some place like that.

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Import one from Thailand, Vietnam or Venezuela or some place like that.

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This .

Well, kinda.. you dont import one, you go to where they are.. PLENTY of beautiful, educated intelligent Asian/ South American women who absolutely love Western guys.. but rule #1 is you never, ever bring them back to ur home country to live.. if you do that, she immediately becomes exotic and desirable, as opposed to being dime a dozen in her home country .. and she will become Americanized and drop ur arse with the quickness for some guy who’s younger and richer .

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Are AI Girlfriends The Future For Most Men

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I'm not sure we're ready for the digital sloppy top.

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More and more men are struggling, are lonely and have little to no hope of truly getting a girlfriend in the modern dating market. I consider myself one of those

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Y’all have to stop with this top 20% of men shite. Have you looked around at the dudes procreating? Lots of them don’t look like 20 percenters to me.
Society and the internet are going to tell you that women want all sorts of things in men (money, cute, smart, funny, athletic, etc.). As a woman myself I can tell you that the only universal I’ve seen is that women are very turned off by a lack of confidence. You sound like you’ve completely given up, and I promise you no woman is going to be attracted to that.