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re: Americans say there’s not much appeal to big-city living. Why do so many of us live there?

Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:01 am to
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:01 am to
I mean, it's probably true for Juneau
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
26563 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:01 am to
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Son, you can drive seamlessly from almost any city into the burbs and you wouldnt recognize the difference. The borders are almost non existent.


First, I’m not your son. I come from better breeding stock than that.

Second, that’s simply untrue. I know because I live in a city and drive to the suburbs frequently.

Maybe sit out a few plays, sport.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:01 am to
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Son, you can drive seamlessly from almost any city into the burbs and you wouldnt recognize the difference. The borders are almost non existent.


What?
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55616 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:02 am to
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However, there’s still something to be said for only having a 10-15 minute commute every day. Nothing like being able to go from your desk to your couch in sweatpants in under 20 minutes.


yep

I used to tease coworkers in Dallas because they left work 30-60 minutes before me and I still got home before them
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48534 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:03 am to
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I truly don't understand people who commute from the Northshore to NOLA or any of the BR suburbs.

People that have 3 kids and don't want to or can't afford to pay 30k in tuition
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83571 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:03 am to
Literally no difference from The Heights and Katy. None.


Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35489 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:04 am to
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me thinks it’s something people say but don’t really mean
Some are probably like my wife and have an idealized, fantasy notion of country living. According to her she's going to grow and preserve all our food, spend all day riding horses around our 100 acre property and every night ends with us spending family time roasting marshmallows around the bonfire. Presumably, our kids will spend their days skipping down to the fishin' hole.

I wouldn't mind living in the country but my expectations are a little more realistic.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79202 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:04 am to
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I don't know, I think a LOT of big city dwellers like the idea of living in a more rural setting. Not sure they all would actually enjoy living in a more rural setting.

I know for me it would take a really special small, rural town for me to enjoy living there.



This

There aren't any idyllic towns in the South, they all require significant sacrifices.

There are some smallish towns in California and New England where you have close to perfect balance in terms of educated and well-to-do populace, geographic appeal, relaxed living, etc. (politics might be an issue).

Theoretically I'd love to live in Auburn, but I'm sure the absence of certain things would get old quickly.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:04 am to
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proximity to a well paying job


I would love to live in a rural area, but I like money.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83571 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:05 am to
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Some are probably like my wife and have an idealized, fantasy notion of country living. According to her she's going to grow and preserve all our food, spend all day riding horses around our 100 acre property and every night ends with us spending family time roasting marshmallows around the bonfire. Presumably, our kids will spend their days skipping down to the fishin' hole.


not too far off from my childhood

Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:07 am to
If he means it's hard to tell any difference by driving down the interstate, then sure, he's right, but it's a pretty dumb point to make. Development always follows the highways so just about any highway/interstate not in downtown will look similar with retail and strip malls all around.

Just like every little small town you pass driving between big cities will look the same from the interstate. Just a few gas stations and fast food places.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:09 am to
To me, I grew up in New Orleans. Left there 44 years ago for country living. No regrets. Also every time I go to BR or NO, I ask myself how the hell people put up living on top of each other and spend hours in traffic jams every day.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51274 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:10 am to
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Theoretically I'd love to live in Auburn


I actually really like Auburn.
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
81701 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:10 am to
It took me until I was nearly 40 but I finally got burned out on living in the city. Near suburbs are where I want to be for the next 20 years or so. Then maybe a place on the coast for retirement.
This post was edited on 2/18/20 at 11:11 am
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
20868 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:12 am to
Just popping in with my uncool opinion that living in the suburbs is awesome. I am 5 minutes from groceries/bars/restaurants/hardware/etc., but 20 minutes away from the camp and woods. Neighborhood is quiet, no crime, everyone mows their lawns, and uniformly two parent households who share the same values as I do. Have a big yard, trees, very little traffic. The burbs, man. It's lit out here.
Posted by jclem11
Neoliberal Shill
Member since Nov 2011
7771 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:13 am to
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Literally no difference from The Heights and Katy. None.


Height resident checking in. Can confirm.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:14 am to
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Some are probably like my wife and have an idealized, fantasy notion of country living. According to her she's going to grow and preserve all our food, spend all day riding horses around our 100 acre property and every night ends with us spending family time roasting marshmallows around the bonfire. Presumably, our kids will spend their days skipping down to the fishin' hole.



Are you telling me life isn't like a Hallmark movie? GTFOH.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:16 am to
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Have a big yard, trees, very little traffic. The burbs, man. It's lit out here.


What, a 1/2 ac lot? Hell, my front yard is over a ac.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55616 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:24 am to
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ask myself how the hell people put up living on top of each other and spend hours in traffic jams every day.


living in the city prevents this, for the most part
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48534 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:25 am to
I get the feeling that a lot of the posters hating on suburbs are young with no kids and will likely find themselves living in one in 7-8 years
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