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re: Americans say there’s not much appeal to big-city living. Why do so many of us live there?

Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:28 am to
Posted by AbitaFan08
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:28 am to
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I get the feeling that a lot of the posters hating on suburbs are young with no kids and will likely find themselves living in one in 7-8 years


To be fair, I haven’t “hated” on the suburbs. And if you go to my post on the first page I say that I could one day be in a position that the suburbs would be for me, just not now.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:28 am to
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I get the feeling that a lot of the posters hating on suburbs are young with no kids and will likely find themselves living in one in 7-8 years
circling back to the premise of the thread, it will be due to financial necessity more than desire
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:29 am to
nobody is hating on suburbs here

Posted by fishfighter
RIP
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:29 am to
It's like the people that live in a big city act like it's not big deal when they drive around. Guess they are just numb.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:29 am to
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I actually really like Auburn.



I don't think you can do a lot better in the deep south for a place that isn't a suburb, TBH. Enough to do, increasingly nice neighborhoods, pretty educated people, good schools. If you're from a city you're not going to be in love with dining/shopping, and there are still more rednecks around that you're used to, but finding smaller cities with those things in the south is impossible.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:30 am to
I have a tiny front yard, but a massive fenced in back yard with lots of trees and a covered patio. I live in the middle of a small city, but the neighborhood is suburb-ish with a strong and close-by neighbors. However, it’s much more easily driveable and walkable, and offers a 15-20 minute commute to work. With that said, if I ever have kids, I’ll either need a much better paying job to send them to private schools or I’ll have to move back home to the crappy ex-urb from whence I came and spend my whole life commuting.

On second thought, I’mma just let my kids get knived. Maybe they’ll join one of the good gangs in BR public schools
This post was edited on 2/18/20 at 11:31 am
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:30 am to
I work in technical recruiting. Its difficult to find talent that want to work in rural areas (especially if they're immigrants or 2nd generation Americans).
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:30 am to
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get the feeling that a lot of the posters hating on suburbs are young with no kids



Not me. Almost 50 with 2 kids, 16 and 13. I loved the suburbs when we first moved out here. Ready for something else now though. 5 more years until my youngest graduates high school and we can get out of here.
Posted by Dawgholio
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:32 am to
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quote: imagine wanting to live in a suburb Of a small city too


That’s like Baton Rouge
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:32 am to
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circling back to the premise of the thread, it will be due to financial necessity more than desire



And in fairness a lot of good suburbs are better now than ever.

In Atlanta, for example, all of our good suburbs (Alpharetta, Roswell, etc.) either had pretty good downtowns or they've recently developed them. More local restaurants than before, etc.

Still don't think it's in the near future for us, but there is an increasing gulf between our good suburbs and all the others.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:32 am to
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circling back to the premise of the thread, it will be due to financial necessity more than desire

Also consider that for many people your ideal place to live might look very different at 45 than it does at 28.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:34 am to
The key to good burb life is being just outside the city. My morning commute is under 20 mins door to desk. I can get to any spot in the "city" in 10-15 minutes during non-rush hours. It's perfect. shite I have easier access to downtown and the French quarter than baws living deep uptown near Audubon.

I guess that’s one advantage of nola being geographically small. Obviously places like Dallas, Houston and Atlanta feature suburbs that are 45+ minutes from the city even with light traffic. frick that.

Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71200 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:34 am to
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hat’s like Baton Rouge


All the problems of a big city with none of the amenities.
BR is basically a suburb in search of a city outside of its small urban core.
Posted by HogX
Madison, WI
Member since Dec 2012
5667 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:37 am to
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I’ve done both(big city and rural) and love both. Anyone who says there aren’t benefits to both is in denial.


Bingo. Grew up in a town of 1,300 for the first 18 or years of my life and have lived downtown in a city for the last 5 or 6 years.

I wouldn't mind going back rural whenever I get closer to retirement age, but being able to walk or take a $5 Uber to any type of food, concerts with national acts, and more bars than I can count is quite a bit more appealing to me currently.
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:37 am to
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imagine wanting to live in a suburb



Yeah I don’t get that. Give me rural or urban but the burbs have zero appeal to me.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:38 am to
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I get the feeling that a lot of the posters hating on suburbs are young with no kids and will likely find themselves living in one in 7-8 years


No one is hating on suburbs or denying this possibility. For me, that move would be driven by necessity not desire, which was the point salmon made from the start.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61593 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:40 am to
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Also consider that for many people your ideal place to live might look very different at 45 than it does at 28.

I dont really buy that. Most nice neighborhoods in cities are full of geriatrics.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:40 am to
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I don't think you can do a lot better in the deep south for a place that isn't a suburb, TBH. Enough to do, increasingly nice neighborhoods, pretty educated people, good schools. If you're from a city you're not going to be in love with dining/shopping, and there are still more rednecks around that you're used to, but finding smaller cities with those things in the south is impossible.



Just in Alabama, I'd put Fairhope and Florence in that category. You could argue that Fairhope is a Mobile suburb, but I think it has enough distance to stand on its own.

I'd also put a few NC mountain towns in that category. Brevard, Bryson City, Highlands, Sylva, etc.

I think Madison, GA is a neat little town, but I've only spent a brief amount of time there. And it's really small, so maybe not a great example.
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:41 am to
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Most nice neighborhoods in cities are full of geriatrics.


well a lot of these were the suburbs back in the day
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71200 posts
Posted on 2/18/20 at 11:41 am to
If money was no object, I’d have a home in a big urban city downtown area (Chicago, Manhattan, Or New Orleans) and a vacation home on the beach in a small resort town.
This post was edited on 2/18/20 at 11:42 am
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