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re: What would you consider a “lavish” meal price-wise?

Posted on 10/26/22 at 10:36 pm to
Posted by G Vice
Lafayette, LA
Member since Dec 2006
13179 posts
Posted on 10/26/22 at 10:36 pm to
I agree that alcohol (and its huge mark-up) plays a part in the total price, if you only look at total price to determine "lavish."

Assuming an a la carte menu, dinner for two, here's what we are okay with doing occasionally:

$60 entree x 2 = $120
$20 sides x 3 to share = $60 (or 2 sides at $20 and 1 appetizer at $15-20)
No dessert
Cocktails 2 each at 15-20 each = $60
or one bottle of wine at $95 (4 glasses -- 2 each), but could go for 2 bottles ....

This adds up to about $280-300 for a very nice meal and good drinks or wine. Above what we usually spend, but happy to do this (and happy that we can) sometimes.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83165 posts
Posted on 10/26/22 at 11:02 pm to
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won’t let his wife order multiple overpriced glasses of wine.


I’d happily cover my alcohol bill if the schmuck I was with didnt want to. I’m gainfully employed. Certainly wouldn’t “one glass and that’s it!!!!” life.
This post was edited on 10/27/22 at 8:02 am
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61686 posts
Posted on 10/27/22 at 9:29 am to
quote:

won’t let his wife order
it’s not the drink part as much as the let part that I find odd

Let? She is a grown woman
Posted by Darla Hood
Near that place by that other place
Member since Aug 2012
14108 posts
Posted on 10/27/22 at 9:39 am to
Same. If my husband ever said he’d “let me” have something, I’d remind him that my father has been dead for over 20 years, and even my father’s power to “let me” have or do anything was gone long before that.

Let us pray.
This post was edited on 10/27/22 at 11:02 am
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37459 posts
Posted on 10/27/22 at 9:49 am to
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Yeah MAJOR red flag that the guy footing the bill won’t let his wife order multiple overpriced glasses of wine.

Maybe I'm crazy, but I don't "let" my wife do anything, and she doesn't "let" me do anything either. We're both adults
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 10/27/22 at 11:52 am to
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We'll go somewhere nice and i'll tell my wife you can have one glass of wine, that's it,


I think if my dining companion said that to me, I would leave and "let" him dine alone. Permanently.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27902 posts
Posted on 10/27/22 at 12:24 pm to
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I think if my dining companion said that to me, I would leave and "let" him dine alone. Permanently.


If I tried to pull that my wife would laugh, order an entire bottle, and finish it in front of me out of spite.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 10/27/22 at 12:44 pm to
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If I tried to pull that my wife would laugh, order an entire bottle, and finish it in front of me out of spite.


Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
7330 posts
Posted on 10/27/22 at 12:55 pm to
quote:

i'll tell my wife you can have one glass of wine


You might have a happier night if she had more than one glass.
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
7330 posts
Posted on 10/27/22 at 1:03 pm to
quote:

won’t let his wife order multiple overpriced glasses of wine.


So what won't you LET your wife do? Seems like she should have a mind of her own and not be treated like a child. That's the MAJOR red flag!
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
29992 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 12:06 am to
All you women who are offended, I don't agree with that guy on the glass of wine, but maybe once a year I will outright refuse to take out my wallet at the table.

Why?

Because everyone always assumes I'm paying. And they may say thank you, but the collective happiness throughout the year isn't a tenth of how annoyed everyone is when they find out they are covering the food. And mine.

I'd just like the occasional offer of payment without my forcing their hand.
Posted by Intelligent
Member since Jun 2017
675 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 12:53 am to
$1000
Posted by LSUballs
RayVegas LA
Member since Feb 2008
40383 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 6:25 am to
quote:

Because everyone always assumes I'm paying. And they may say thank you, but the collective happiness throughout the year isn't a tenth of how annoyed everyone is when they find out they are covering the food. And mine.


We'll this ought to be the dumbest thing I read today.
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
291615 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 8:38 am to
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Because everyone always assumes I'm paying


Who is everyone?
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
64512 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 8:40 am to
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Because everyone always assumes I'm paying. And they may say thank you, but the collective happiness throughout the year isn't a tenth of how annoyed everyone is when they find out they are covering the food. And mine.


Who is everyone? If it’s your immediate family, isn’t that the way it should be? If it’s just random friends, etc., then you’re a spineless sap.

I find the whole “let your wife thing” to be odd too. My wife doesn’t work, so I’m the only one who can pay. However, I’m not a cheapskate, so I’m not telling my wife she can only have one drink.
Posted by MobileJosh
On the go
Member since May 2018
1453 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 8:50 am to
No too mention point of lavish meals with your SO is kind of a trade off. You spoil them for a few hours, drop some coin, get them drunk, then go home and reap the benefits. I can't imagine the benefits of the "one glass and that's it!" approach are very good.
This post was edited on 10/29/22 at 8:52 am
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
29992 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 9:03 am to
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Who is everyone? If it’s your immediate family, isn’t that the way it should be?


Wife. Mother in law. Sister in law.

Grand mother in law always wants to pay.

Wife makes more than I do.

Sister in law does a well.

I just sit there and let the awkwardness grow. It isn't the money. I just want the offer to occasionally be on the table without forcing their hands

Or...and this is crazy... One of them try to pay before I can.

quote:

If it’s just random friends


I wouldn't think twice about covering the tab on pretty much any amount for my friends. They would do the same. If anything we avoid it simply because we believe in going above and beyond.
This post was edited on 10/29/22 at 9:05 am
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 9:51 am to
Sap
Posted by jkylejohnson
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2016
15221 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 11:28 am to
200+ for two is plenty lavish for me. I’ve spent 200ish solo once in Vegas and kinda felt stupid afterwards.

I’m not counting drinks. Don’t drink anymore but could imagine a much higher tab at a super nice place if we were.
This post was edited on 10/29/22 at 11:30 am
Posted by hobotiger
Asbury Park, NJ
Member since Nov 2007
5433 posts
Posted on 10/29/22 at 11:53 am to
4 of us went out Thursday for dinner at a new place in town.
Meal was $356.00 before booze, total tab was just shy of $600.
I thought everything was fantastic but at that price it's a special occasion only kind of place
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