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re: Sister cried when I didn't want to hold her baby

Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:33 am to
Posted by Topisawtiger
Mississippi
Member since Oct 2012
3512 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:33 am to
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I (32m) have always always always let it be known that I find babies disgusting and don't want anything to do with them. With everyone, including my family.

My sister recently had her first child. The first child amongst all my siblings.

Thanksgiving dinner, the family gets together. Including the 2 month old infant. They are all fawning over this child, but when I get there he is asleep in the other room. I pray he stays asleep.

But no, he soon wakes up and is brought out to the dinner table. The child is shoved in my face regardless of my distaste. My sister asks me to hold the child. I say no thanks. She then gets a bit hysterical and starts crying and says she can't understand why I'm so rude.

Apparently she thought that my feelings were fake and after so many years of hating children, this 2 month old infant would be the one that changes my mind?

Idk, am I the a-hole here? Should I have sucked it up just because it's my nephew?


Not having read anything past the OP, I am inclined to believe at first introduction that you may possibly have a personality disorder of some type. The fact that you didn't just suck it up and hold the child and instead shunned said child gives me great pause. I hope for your family's sake I am mistaken and you are just an a-hole in general.
This post was edited on 12/1/21 at 7:37 am
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
46986 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:36 am to
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I’m going to say this didn’t happen. On the off chance that it did, you’re a pos.


OP copy / pastes drama off of Reddit
This is not new although it’s been awhile which is why I suspect it has gone 4 pages
Posted by Picayuner
Member since Dec 2016
3499 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:37 am to
When you’re fifty and want to hang around your 21 year old LSU football player nephew and his roadies I hope he tells you you’re a disgusting old man get lost.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
11708 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:38 am to
My sister in law did that crap to me. I don't really care to hold babies until their head stops flopping around all weird. It's not that I think their disgusting, it's that I'm scared of hurting them.
Posted by rmnldr
Member since Oct 2013
38263 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:42 am to
100th downvote

And you’re autistic as frick, OP
This post was edited on 12/1/21 at 7:45 am
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59499 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:43 am to
quote:

GreatLakesTiger24


Weirdo.
Posted by Passing Wind
Dutchtown
Member since Apr 2015
4146 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:44 am to
Not gonna lie you sound weird as frick
Posted by Eric Nies Grind Time
Atlanta GA - ITP
Member since Sep 2012
24941 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:45 am to
This is some 16 year old edgelord behavior.
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
20585 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:47 am to
Well, it sounds like you will never have kids.

One day you will be an old man, all alone. Your nieces and nephews and their children won't want to visit you because you're Uncle Douchebag. You will die in your home and it will be six months before anyone finds your decomposing body that has been partially eaten by rats.
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18315 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:48 am to
You can’t just abandon the thread, that’s a tale sign it’s troll. Come back
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
20674 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:48 am to
Maybe you're autistic. Because this sounds like something people with autism do.
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
67134 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:49 am to
OP cut and paste from Reddit
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:50 am to
quote:

One day you will be an old man, all alone. Your nieces and nephews and their children won't want to visit you because you're Uncle Douchebag. You will die in your home and it will be six months before anyone finds your decomposing body that has been partially eaten by rats.





when?
Posted by MyRockstarComplex
The airport
Member since Nov 2009
3456 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:51 am to
Your future:
Uncle Daycare
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18815 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:52 am to
Reddit has the “Am I the a-hole” subthread.
This sounds like it was stolen from there
Posted by 19
Flux Capacitor, Fluxing
Member since Nov 2007
33285 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:53 am to
fricking wierdo
Posted by Ryan3232
Valet driver for TD staff
Member since Dec 2008
25918 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:54 am to
quote:

Why would you not hold your own son?
Nice
Posted by Nguyener
Kame House
Member since Mar 2013
20603 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:55 am to
What’d you have for thanksgiving? assburgers?
Posted by Bernie Bierman
Member since Mar 2019
1235 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:55 am to
You have clearly made it known to those around you that you have an autistically intense aversion to infants of all kinds. Therefore, it was grossly irresponsible of your sister to shove your parents first grandchild, your siblings first child, and your very own first nephew in your face like that. You even politely declined when asked to hold the little fella.

You are not the arsehole here and I commend you for being a man of principle, OP.
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
19378 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 7:56 am to
quote:

I didn’t like holding my own kids when they were newborn.


I can confidently say you shouldn’t have had kids
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