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re: Escaping Your Hometown

Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:06 pm to
Posted by scott8811
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
11457 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:06 pm to
Born and raised in NOLA....thought I'd never leave.....very glad I did
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:07 pm to
My entire friend circle from high school left our hometown. It wasn't really our dream to do so. Definitely wasn't mine, it's just the path we all took.
Posted by LoneStarRanger
Texas/Europe
Member since Aug 2018
2404 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:08 pm to
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The vast majority of people I know that stayed in our hometown and haven’t left are pretty much who I expected. Married others we went to HS with, go to Orange Beach every year for a “vacation”, live in some cookie cutter DSLD shite where you get to choose the shade of beige you want your house and which side you want your garage on; overall I feel pretty bad for a majority of them.


You sound awesome :/

I’ve lived all over the world, and while that ain’t my cup of tea, more power to them
Posted by Cuz413
Member since Nov 2007
7535 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:09 pm to
Moved away for convenience and the school system.

Will probably move back at some point
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:11 pm to
I started traveling the country at 17, it was refreshing.
Posted by BallHawk
Orlando
Member since Jul 2011
5749 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:11 pm to
I moved away from my hometown when I was 18 and went to college. Other than staying the summer between my freshman and sophomore year I haven't looked back. Just move out of Louisiana a couple of months ago which was the next thing I wanted to do. Never going back, if I can help it.
Posted by billjamin
Houston
Member since Jun 2019
12872 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:13 pm to
quote:

Were you one of those people who, while growing up, dreamed about leaving your hometown when you had the chance and starting up your life somewhere else? Or did you love your hometown enough to where you never wanted to leave?

If you are the former, did you end up sticking around or did you move?


Yeah I'm from Nola and always wanted to GTFO.
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
8830 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:18 pm to
Yes. I even had a count down from half way through my Junior Year, day by day, until the end of my Senior year, on the front of my binder.
Never considered going back.

Home town is even worse today, it's too close to D.C. and the federal employees who do know it all and share all they know too readily.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114178 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:24 pm to
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The vast majority of people I know that stayed in our hometown and haven’t left are pretty much who I expected. Married others we went to HS with, go to Orange Beach every year for a “vacation”, live in some cookie cutter DSLD shite where you get to choose the shade of beige you want your house and which side you want your garage on; overall I feel pretty bad for a majority of them.

It’s good to get out in the world and explore a bit. Have some new experiences.


We found the guy who used to get beat up in school.

You can still live in your hometown and have new experiences. Everyone is different. And you act like cookie cutter houses are only in "hometowns".
Posted by r0cky1
Member since Oct 2020
3409 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:27 pm to
Going far away is nice and good especially if the group around you isn't going far and job opportunities are low. The only downside in the glamour of leaving the hometown is your family and close friends. It all comes down to what you value. Being in a cool new shiny place isn't all that great especially if you can't see immediate family if the drive is over 5 hours in my opinion.
Posted by TexasTiger90
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Jul 2014
3576 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:29 pm to
Got out as soon as possible. The suburbs of Houston is a creeping death

Our families are each a 2 hour flight away, and we do a major holiday at each for about a week at a time, but we like being our own unit. We've created a life away from our hometowns, have made very good friends in our new home city, and couldn't be happier.
This post was edited on 8/23/21 at 3:31 pm
Posted by whitetiger1234
They/Them
Member since Oct 2016
5070 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:29 pm to
Left my hometown and that decision has had 0 negative consequences
Posted by bbarras85
Member since Jul 2021
2019 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:29 pm to
Left for college then came back. Worst decision ever. Now I am stuck here until my four year old is done with school. Can't wait to leave Louisiana.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119912 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:34 pm to
I liked my hometown, but I was fine with leaving, and did when I was 18. Once my family who lived there died off, I only go back to go to the cemetery.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
263098 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:37 pm to
quote:

The vast majority of people I know that stayed in our hometown and haven’t left are pretty much who I expected. Married others we went to HS with, go to Orange Beach every year for a “vacation”, live in some cookie cutter DSLD shite where you get to choose the shade of beige you want your house and which side you want your garage on; overall I feel pretty bad for a majority of them.
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You sound awesome :/


Usually people with this guys attitude vacation across the country just to go to another brewery just like the ones in every city in which they've ever been, live in an apartment no different than a hundred thousand others, and post pictures of their food on Instagram because that's the point of eating out.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
26888 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:43 pm to
Nothing wrong with staying where you grew up if that’s what makes you happy.

I do think that moving away is a good thing, and allows you the opportunity to grow and learn more about yourself and different cultures (even within the US). I would encourage anyone to at least branch out for a few years, but it’s not for everyone and that’s perfectly fine.
Posted by OldHickory
New Orleans
Member since Apr 2012
10602 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:43 pm to
When we’re young we want to get away
When we’re old we want to go back
And we spend our lives replacing all the things we left behind
Posted by turnpiketiger
Southeast Texas
Member since May 2020
9661 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:44 pm to
Didn’t grow up in LA. Went to LSU. Met a girl. Married said girl. She’s from LA and wanted to move so we left LA. I wasn’t opposed to moving at the time but I’m glad we did. She was not trying to stick around any longer than she already did. Not a knock on LA just more to see out there than the bayou.

Love to visit. Don’t want to live there.
Posted by SUB
Member since Jan 2001
Member since Jan 2009
21056 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:45 pm to
Growing up, I always imagined myself being in my home town when I was older, taking my kids to the same schools / events that I once went to. I can't do that now, as I moved away, but I often wonder what it would be like if I were still there.
Posted by TheHarahanian
Actually not Harahan as of 6/2023
Member since May 2017
19650 posts
Posted on 8/23/21 at 3:47 pm to

I left my hometown in the late 80s, traveled around some, been in and out of the NOLA area a couple times.

I’m looking for land around my old hometown, but it isn’t my old hometown anymore.
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