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re: Dad dumps 80,000 pennies for child support; daughter donates it to domestic abuse shelter

Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:01 pm to
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48875 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:01 pm to
quote:

Um, yes, I do.

Because they have made their mind up, thanks to Mom poisoning them.

No, he is fed up with their abuse.

You clearly have no real world experience with this.




I’m guessing your dumbass doesn’t have a lot of real world experience either.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:01 pm to
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giving up on visitation rights


Would never happen. I may get beat down for 18 years but I wouldn't get beaten.

I understand the financial burden it would bring and the mental strain, I just couldn't give up though.
This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 8:02 pm
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22518 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:04 pm to
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Shut up and pay. You had the kid, you cannot walk away from your responsibility. Be a man.
. He had been paying.

You’ve never told your kid no when they asked for money?

You just have to give any amount for any reason to be a “man”?

You’re acting like ‘supporting or not supporting” is a binary situation shows you have no critical thinking skills and can handle nuance.

I like how married fathers get to decide how much money they will spend on their children and in what ways but the minute you aren’t married you become an agentless money tap that should STFU and hand over a blank check.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
66026 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:04 pm to
Here’s the only facts we have concerning this domestic situation:

About the Dad
Paid all of his child support
Has been ostracized from the daughter for a long while
Paid the final $800.00 by dumping pennies in the mom’s yard
Admits to letting his emotions overrule good sense

About the Mom
Primary Custodial parent (possibly exclusive)
Allowed the final payment to go to the Shelter

About the Daughter
Hasn’t been close to the Father for a long while
Suggested donating the money to the Shelter

From this scant amount of information, none of us can ascertain if the Mom’s a good person or otherwise. She has raised two kids without the Dad (with meager child support).

From this information, none of us can tell if the guy is an a-hole or a good guy who did one shitty newsworthy thing. He has dutifully paid his required child support.

From this information, none of us can tell if the daughter is a jerk or a good kid. Maybe she and the Mom are terrible. Maybe she and the Mom are wonderful.

The only hard evidence we have here of anyone doing anything ugly is of the dad’s actions.

That was a rookie move on his part, even if the ex-wife and kids were horrible, his stunt comes off as a bad look for him.

Glad I’ll never have that kind of drama in my life.


This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 8:06 pm
Posted by RT1941
Member since May 2007
30289 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:05 pm to
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The dad is the type of a-hole to settle his debts with pennies. No doubt that bleeds over to him being an a-hole elsewhere in his life.
They donated the $ to a domestic abuse shelter for women and children…. That speaks volumes as to what kind of man he is/was.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:07 pm to
Or that is what they want everyone to think.

As someone pointed out, we don't know the whole story. However, a way to say he was a wife beater without having any proof is to do exactly what they did.


The public airing of their personal shite is too much for me.
This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 8:08 pm
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17350 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:11 pm to
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I’m guessing your dumbass doesn’t have a lot of real world experience either.



And you are the dumdass here
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
69074 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:13 pm to
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No but your kids will remember how you handled it. Yeah, dick move by her though


The mom prob hung up the phone and said hey honey, your pos father hates you and doesn't want to pay for you anymore.

Posted by Wilbon
Phoenix
Member since Jul 2008
67 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:18 pm to
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And you are the dumdass here


Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47550 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:22 pm to
Ryan Sanford is my muthafrickin Hero.




This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 8:23 pm
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47550 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:37 pm to
Mom is Raven Sickal.
Here's here Facebook. Not a single fricking picture of her beloved Daughter. Tons of houses she's listing and ducklip selfies. Still on Mom's side?
And Yes I'm creepy as frick.


Raven Sickal




Gmaps street view of her house where this happened
This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 8:38 pm
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62954 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:38 pm to
"Time will expose the truth"
Well, Ryan, this is your 15 minutes of fame and time, use it wisely...
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:39 pm to
I don't put pictures of my daughter on my social media either.

Pretty much because of weird fricks like you going around looking for daughter pictures.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47550 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:41 pm to
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Pretty much because of weird fricks like you going around looking for daughter pictures.




Tooooshayy. I post my kid pics here so that tells you how careful I am about that.
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
15028 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:42 pm to
He is a dick, and she is a tramp. Next.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47550 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:43 pm to
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He is a dick, and she is a tramp. Next.


Yea I dug into her comments which are wide arse open.

They're both Realtors. /story.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15552 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 9:55 pm to
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They donated the $ to a domestic abuse shelter for women and children…. That speaks volumes as to what kind of man he is/was.


Or it may speak volumes on what kind of man the mom wants you to think he was. You just never know.
Posted by NPComb
Member since Jan 2019
27532 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 10:07 pm to
$800 he should be kissing his lawyers arse. I know dudes beat down for $2K/mo
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
40215 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 10:14 pm to
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I don't understand people who do this to their children.



It sounds to me like he was doing it to his baby momma. It is clever and funny as hell. It is also trashy and a shitty thing to do, but it is still funny as hell.
Posted by MrLSU
Yellowstone, Val d'isere
Member since Jan 2004
26087 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 10:17 pm to
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They donated the $ to a domestic abuse shelter for women and children…. That speaks volumes as to what kind of man he is/was.


Was it worthy of the wife filing a police report on the ex-husband for this? That also speaks volumes as to what kind of woman she is/was.
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