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re: Dad dumps 80,000 pennies for child support; daughter donates it to domestic abuse shelter

Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:08 am to
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
10366 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:08 am to
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You have no idea what she may have put him through. Some women are evil.
"My ex-wife was such a bitch I'm gonna make sure my daughters are, too!"
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
35746 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:14 am to



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He has dutifully paid his required child support.

We don't know this, either. We just know he made this one payment in pennies.


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‘It’s your final child support payment.’ 


Posted by A Smoke Break
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2018
2060 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:15 am to
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Shut up and pay. You had the kid, you cannot walk away from your responsibility. Be a man.


Found the guy who never got divorced.
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
19173 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:21 am to
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Oh, and there are no moms who turn their children against Dad because they are vindictive and play the victim? I have seen this MANY times. You have no idea how women can be in brainwashing their children against their ex-husbands.

My wife (no pics) is a prime example of this. When we started getting serious in the relationship she would tell me all these stories about her dad and what a POS he is. She hadnt had much contact with him for 6 or 7 years when we met, other than short visits and phone calls. Well, he invited us over for Thanksgiving one year and I finally got to meet him and was expecting a shite show. It was anything but. He had a nice house on a huge piece of property out in the sticks. He showed me around and was a really great guy.

So I told my wife something is not adding up and convinced her to just sit down with him and lay it all out. So she did and he just laughed when she was done and explained that everything shed been told was an outright lie and gives his account of specific instances that my wife had been hurt over
shite like he was supposed to come pick her up and not show up. Well, her mom would I te too ally take her to the wrong place and act like he just didn't show up.

Fast forward 2 years later and it comes out my wife's mom has borderline personality disorder and the picture becomes VERY clear. She's fricking insane.
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
10366 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:28 am to
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LSUintheNW
We don't know that he has "dutifully paid" for all those years. Could be that she had to fight tooth and nail for it every time. We don't know even know if this final payment was timely.

If we're not gonna make any assumptions, let's not make any assumptions.
This post was edited on 6/10/21 at 8:31 am
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51215 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:30 am to
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Looks like neither of them are hurting for money.
way to get yourself on the news dad...


What a douchebag.
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
35746 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:30 am to
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We don't know that he has "dutifully paid" for all those years. Could be that she had to fight tooth and nail for it every time.


Very well could be.

She could also be a raging bitch that has done anything and everything to make his life with his kids miserable to the point he has no relationship with them.
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
10366 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:31 am to
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Very well could be.

She could also be a raging bitch that has done anything and everything to make his life with his kids miserable to the point he has no relationship with them.
You're missing the point. Perhaps on purpose.
Posted by noonan
Nassau Bay, TX
Member since Aug 2005
36895 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:32 am to
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You don't need to do any brainwashing to turn a kid against an a-hole who dumps 80,000 pennies on a lawn.


Maybe he's an a-hole because of the wife's brainwashing.

I already see the shite my ex is pulling with my son. I hear the comments she makes to him trying to manipulate him into thinking I'm not a good parent. Who knows the lies she's going to tell him about why we aren't together in order to turn him against me.

I have no idea what's been going on with this guy the last 18 years or why he and his wife split up, but I can easily see years of frustration getting the better of him.

Now maybe he was an abusive a-hole, but I don't know that to be true.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47456 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:40 am to
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So I told my wife something is not adding up and convinced her to just sit down with him and lay it all out. So she did and he just laughed when she was done and explained that everything shed been told was an outright lie and gives his account of specific instances that my wife had been hurt over
shite like he was supposed to come pick her up and not show up. Well, her mom would I te too ally take her to the wrong place and act like he just didn't show up.

Fast forward 2 years later and it comes out my wife's mom has borderline personality disorder and the picture becomes VERY clear. She's fricking insane.



MOTHERfrickIN THIS RIGHT HERE! Bitches Be Crazy was a thing before BBC was a pron genre.
This post was edited on 6/10/21 at 8:41 am
Posted by Tangineck
Mandeville
Member since Nov 2017
1797 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:41 am to
I can't believe people in here are trying to justify dumping 80,000 pennies on your ex's lawn, in front of your children. Make the last payment and head to the bar. Call in sick tomorrow, whatever. Nah, better to publicly embarrass yourself and children while proving nothing but that you are petulant child who obviously still let's your ex control your punk arse.
Posted by noonan
Nassau Bay, TX
Member since Aug 2005
36895 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 8:52 am to
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I can't believe people in here are trying to justify dumping 80,000 pennies on your ex's lawn


Not sure many are justifying it, just saying we understand wanting to do it. He shouldn't have done it, but she's probably put him through a world of shite so I'm not hating on the guy.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47456 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 9:02 am to
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I can't believe people in here are trying to justify dumping 80,000 pennies on your ex's lawn, in front of your children. Make the last payment and head to the bar. Call in sick tomorrow, whatever. Nah, better to publicly embarrass yourself and children while proving nothing but that you are petulant child who obviously still let's your ex control your punk arse.


A lot of us have felt like this dude.

And his next level petty is comical but it also offers a real, raw glimpse into the problems with child support structures and precedents of family law in general

Like I alluded to earlier, hundreds of ex wives die each year at the hands of their ex husband. So yes, I defend what he did b/c it could have been a helluva lot worse.

And people wonder what he got out of pulling this shite? Catharsis instead of prison. Nuff Said.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47456 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 9:05 am to
Oh and I showed this news story and video to my 18 yr old daughter and 16 yr old son.

They cracked up laughing and said "why in the world did they give the money away? That's just stupid." They are fairly normal and smart kids(not like their dad).

So it makes you wonder what teenager would throw away $800? They don't think like that.
This post was edited on 6/10/21 at 9:13 am
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20014 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 9:20 am to
Does Mom drive a Benz?
What is he driving? Infinity? Really can’t make it out
House across the street seems nice, support is only $800?
This post was edited on 6/10/21 at 9:22 am
Posted by DaleGribble
Bend, OR
Member since Sep 2014
6821 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 9:22 am to
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"My ex-wife was such a bitch I'm gonna make sure my daughters are, too!"


The ex-wife has probably already taken care of that.
Posted by BlackPot
Member since Oct 2016
2056 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 9:26 am to
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Dick move by father that now makes him look worse.


If I had to guess, this dad was dishing out money for 18 years and never saw his kids. No way a happy father does something like this.
Posted by Floyd Dawg
Silver Creek, GA
Member since Jul 2018
3893 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 9:37 am to
At some point in their relationship, one of the father or daughter has to be the adult. Certainly looks like the daughter has been the adult from this article.
Posted by CHSTigersFan
Charleston, Arkansas
Member since Jan 2005
2738 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 9:42 am to
No one likes paying child support and I’m looking forward to the day I don’t, but until then it’s a fact of life. Total a-hole move by this guy.
Posted by DaleGribble
Bend, OR
Member since Sep 2014
6821 posts
Posted on 6/10/21 at 9:46 am to
I will finally be done with this bullshite in October. I'm not going to make my final payment in pennies. But there isn't a day that goes by that I don't wish that something terrible would happen to her bitch of a mother.

I hope that everyone that can't empathize with what this guy has probably been through with the mom gets to get their own taste of how court systems handle these situations.
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