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Dad dumps 80,000 pennies for child support; daughter donates it to domestic abuse shelter
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:02 pm
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:02 pm
LINK w/ short news video
Dick move by father that now makes him look worse.
At least he paid the child support, I guess.
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A Virginia man went to extreme measures to show he was not happy about paying child support.
He dumped 80,000 pennies in front of his daughter’s home as his final payment. Avery Sanford, 18, took those pennies and turned his act of anger into a positive for families in need.
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“He pulled up in front of our house, like turned the trailer on so it dumped out all the pennies in the street in front of our house,” she said. “And my mom walked outside while it was happening. She didn’t recognize them at first. And she asked, ‘What are you dumping on my lawn?’ And he said, ‘It’s your final child support payment.’ And that’s when she realized who it was.”
She had to use a snow shovel in the summer to scoop up the domestic drama.
“It’s not just her (my mother) that he’d be trying to embarrass,” Sanford said. “It’s also me, it’s also my sister. And it’s upsetting that he doesn’t really consider that before he did this.”
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They donated his last child support payment - every penny - to Safe Harbor, a domestic abuse shelter.
“Turning around and donating that money to moms and children in need, like I feel like that just really turns the situation into a positive one,” Sanford said. “You can learn a lesson from it.”
Sanford said she hasn’t spoken to her father in years.
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Her father spoke in a phone interview, saying it was 18 years of frustration built up. His emotions got the best of him, and the last thing he wanted to do was to put a further wedge between him and his daughter.
Dick move by father that now makes him look worse.
At least he paid the child support, I guess.
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:03 pm to East Coast Band
That’s only like $800. Trashy.
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:04 pm to East Coast Band
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They donated his last child support payment - every penny - to Safe Harbor, a domestic abuse shelter.
So they didn’t need it and proved his point?
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:04 pm to East Coast Band
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the last thing he wanted to do was to put a further wedge between him and his daughter.
Too late
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:05 pm to East Coast Band
Gotta side with dad on this one. Women are vindictive and mean. He was making a statement to mom.
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:06 pm to East Coast Band
The worst part is if they missed a few pennies, the next time they mow will be deadly
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:08 pm to liz18lsu
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Gotta side with dad on this one. Women are vindictive and mean. He was making a statement to mom.
Well he used a shotgun and not a rifle, metaphorically speaking.
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:12 pm to East Coast Band
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“He pulled up in front of our house, like turned the trailer on so it dumped out all the pennies in the street in front of our house,” she said. “And my mom walked outside while it was happening. She didn’t recognize them at first. And she asked, ‘What are you dumping on my lawn?’ And he said, ‘It’s your final child support payment.’
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Her father spoke in a phone interview, saying it was 18 years of frustration built up. His emotions got the best of him, and the last thing he wanted to do was to put a further wedge between him and his daughter.
Gee, wonder why his wife left him.
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:12 pm to Hester Carries
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So they didn’t need it and proved his point?
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Hester Carries
Shut up and pay. You had the kid, you cannot walk away from your responsibility. Be a man.
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:14 pm to liz18lsu
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Gotta side with dad on this one. Women are vindictive and mean. He was making a statement to mom.
You're just as big as a dumb frick as the ex husband.
You know what statement dumping 80,000 pennies on the lawn makes? That you're a total a-hole and a massive fricking child.
This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 8:24 pm
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:15 pm to Jizzy08
I’m siding with the dad… especially since the daughter said she hasn’t even seen or talked to her dad in years… so he was a good enough dad to make sure she got that $800 a month and still had no contact with his daughter… yeah at that point I think he was justified…
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:15 pm to Sid in Lakeshore
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Shut up and pay. You had the kid, you cannot walk away from your responsibility. Be a man.
Exactly - in the video it says the daughter hasn’t spoken to him in years, yet he still had to pay child support. The daughter didn’t have to go see her father?? Why??
She and her mother chose a domestic abuse shelter to donate the money to
Makes you wonder …
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:15 pm to East Coast Band
I don't understand people who do this to their children.
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:16 pm to Jh22586
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I’m siding with the dad… especially since the daughter said she hasn’t even seen or talked to her dad in years… so he was a good enough dad to make sure she got that $800 a month and still had no contact with his daughter… yeah at that point I think he was justified…
Where does it say that the estrangement was at the behest of the child?
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:18 pm to Jh22586
The dad is the type of a-hole to settle his debts with pennies. No doubt that bleeds over to him being an a-hole elsewhere in his life.
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:18 pm to Sid in Lakeshore
The article says that the daughter “made the difficult decision” to keep him out of her life. He either abused the Mom or the women are garbage to have that kind of relationship.
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:19 pm to Sid in Lakeshore
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Where does it say that the estrangement was at the behest of the child?
It sure as shite will be now.
The fact that she donated the money to a domestic abuse shelter also likely indicates what she thinks of him.
This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 7:23 pm
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:23 pm to East Coast Band
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Dick move by father that now makes him look worse.
At least he paid the child support, I guess.
Dude is my fricking hero.
But I can absolutely empathize with this dad and his actions.
This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 7:25 pm
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:24 pm to Dr RC
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Dr RC
Oh, and there are no moms who turn their children against Dad because they are vindictive and play the victim? I have seen this MANY times. You have no idea how women can be in brainwashing their children against their ex-husbands.
This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 7:26 pm
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